Should i stay or should i go?

[shrimp poboy]

yes

 

[calveless wonder]

my mom's side was/is like that with my grandparents. ended up being 1 sister living in a main house and the grandparents in a guest house. basically spent her whole life caring for them with the other sisters occasionally coming down and helping. however the family chipped in and paid for a nurse to come there everyday.

it sucks, and i can understand it but why sacrifice your own life at that point. i doubt if they were mentally stable enough they'd want that for their children.

i'd go. too much drama. got to explain to her you understand her loyalty but its your life too and you cant be miserable as a result

 

[Arabian]

Shrimp, you should probably just back away from your GF and see how she reacts. Apparently she does not appreciate nor respect the fact that you also sacrifice as she does, so just back away for a week or so and see what happens.. Best of luck to you

 

[Jocques Straap]

So who can't pull the trigger on sending her to a home? The other kids, or your gf? It doesn't seem fair that the your gf has to spend all her time caring for her, but the others are care free. Sounds like your gf needs to tell her brothers and sisters that they need to do their part.

 

[miplank]

do you still have the asian tranny on stand-by?

 

[princesa]

Your GF needs all the support she can get right now, she has her plate full. It's her MOTHER for god sakes, what do you expect her to do?! Stop caring for her sick mother and baby sit you?! Worry about your feelings? How would you feel if your partner walked out on you when you were going through hard times? It's not always about YOU! You are being selfish.

Then again, you cheated on her numerous times maybe it's best if you just walked away. She doesn't need anymore drama.
Just my .02

 

[miplank]

you tell him princesa!

 

[Razorguns]

Someone had to post this video. Lazy asses.

YouTube - The Clash - Should I stay or should I go

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[princesa]

you tell him princesa!

I'm sorry! Man (people) like that I have NO respect for.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Your GF needs all the support she can get right now, she has her plate full. It's her MOTHER for god sakes, what do you expect her to do?! Stop caring for her sick mother and baby sit you?! Worry about your feelings? How would you feel if your partner walked out on you when you were going through hard times? It's not always about YOU! You are being selfish.

Then again, you cheated on her numerous times maybe it's best if you just walked away. She doesn't need anymore drama.
Just my .02

+1

And what the hell do you plan to do when one of your parents becomes ill?? This is part of the aging process, many people hit dementia and Alzheimer disease. Do you intend on placing them in a home and just walking away because it may be too hard for you?
Like the mother carrying and giving birth then raising for 18+ years wasn't fucking hard right????

You are being selfish and this seems to be a lovely cop out for you...And if you have cheated then you know what Shrimp- you don't fucking deserve a girl like her. A girl that would stop living a "fun" life to tend to another human in need...

You just made my thoughts of you and this matter a whole lot clearer!