Should I send this to the ex?

[DIVISION]

No - actually if he is really that resiliant about it, it might not even settle in then either...

Honestly I don't think anybody can help him with this.... It is something he has to do on his own...

(Lestat bro - not meaning to be talking about you like you are not here)

Of course it's something he has to resolve on his own, I'm just trying to help him in that cause.

If I was his friend, I'd probably slap it outta him......

DIV

 

[bran987]

Honestly I don't think anybody can help him with this.... It is something he has to do on his own...

(Lestat bro - not meaning to be talking about you like you are not here)

this is the exact reason I ended the thread 20 posts ago

 

[Subzeero]

Wow what a letter lestat. Atleast i know i not the only pussy type. No offence. But heres my advise. Piece of mind and success lies just after that moment when u think u have had enough and want to give up. So hold on and be strong. Trying to pursue what is not meant to be could be very painful. So DON'T DO IT. Get rid of everything that could remind you of her. And i know its not the sex because you are apparently getting it. If anytime you do miss her, call any of your female "freinds" and maybe go out with her. You have to believe that nomatter how big that painful hole in your heart is, its going to heal. Don't be in love with falling in love. Do whatever you have ever fantasized yourself to do. Read books, go out, work out anything. And try not to be in solitude an aweful lot of times. Now i think i know what you are going trough. And you may not send the letter and still keep hurting. If that is the case then go ahead and send the letter. But just think about. Even after you guys are together, where the hell your pride be? I need my partner to respect me, and if u feel small in the eyes of your GF then i don't see it working. Your biggest mistake is just spending a lot of time thinking about her. When u think about someone a lot, then u create an illusive picture of that person in your head. Then u start thinking about that person in a way that she/he does not really deserve. Spending that much time and effort just to write this letter is enough torment for you. So open your mind and kick her out of it. get your buddies to help you if possible. Happy healing.

 

[velvett]

Maybe you need to send her a/the letter.

Maybe you need to face her response to it.

5 months is a fair amount of time.

Or perhap it's the old "want what I can't have" that's driving you but you don't know it.

I dunno.

I'm stumped at this point.

 

[DIVISION]

Maybe you need to send her a/the letter.

Maybe you need to face her response to it.

5 months is a fair amount of time.

Or perhap it's the old "want what I can't have" that's driving you but you don't know it.

I dunno.

I'm stumped at this point.

I think you're right Velvetteer.......he needs to face her response to his letter....whatever that may be.

That's probably what it's gonna take for him to move on.....

Either that or being arrested for stalking....

DIV

 

[velvett]

I think you're right Velvetteer.......DIV

It really arouses me when you call me Velvetteer.

 

[DIVISION]

It really arouses me when you call me Velvetteer.

It's a rather sick twist of the Micky Mouseketeers thang.....

You're unique, so I thought I'd give you a unique twist of your name....

DIV

 

[alien amp pharm]

Damn, reading your all's responses is making me mad at my ex. I want to call her up and cuss her out right now and tell her to go to hell.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Damn, reading your all's responses is making me mad at my ex. I want to call her up and cuss her out right now and tell her to go to hell.

Don't waste your breath. You guys need to learn to quit trying to teach a pig to sing. It only annoys the pig but gets you pissed off too.

 

[DIVISION]

Damn, reading your all's responses is making me mad at my ex. I want to call her up and cuss her out right now and tell her to go to hell.

Yes, but if you didn't have the balls to keep from going back to her begging.......then what makes you think you have the nuts to call her up now and tell her to fuck off?

DIV