Should I send this to the ex?

[bran987]

wtf didn't you see I ended the thread?
nothing comes after the end!
that's why it's the end!@

[THE END]

 

[DIVISION]

Brian,

I don't think you should send this to her. I think you need to have a talk with her and explain what you feel for her. Gather up your thoughts and think about what you want, what's important to you here and now. Formulate your ideas in your head and explain to her from the heart what you feel. I don't know the circumstances surrounding your breakup, but I think the important thing here is that you let her know what you feel, regardless of what that is. Focus, this is important, bro.

DIV

 

[Becoming]

I don't know the circumstances surrounding your breakup, but I think the important thing here is that you let her know what you feel, regardless of what that is.

Div bro -

you should go through and read the many other threads on this over the past several months.

I don't think you woudl be giving this same advice if you did.

 

[DIVISION]

Div bro -

you should go through and read the many other threads on this over the past several months.

I don't think you woudl be giving this same advice if you did.

I just read back in the thread.

So it looks like he doesn't want to realize that the relationship is over and that she has moved on. Is that the case, nugga?

DIV

 

[Lestat]

Div bro -

you should go through and read the many other threads on this over the past several months.

I don't think you woudl be giving this same advice if you did.

People do break up and get back together though.. it happens.

I have a good friend who is happily married now with a kid and everything.. he and his wife separated for 6 months, he moved to a different city even... but now he says they are stronger then ever...

I keep wishing that somehow in this case the same type of thing could happen.

 

[Becoming]

I just read back in the thread.

So it looks like he doesn't want to realize that the relationship is over and that she has moved on. Is that the case, nugga?

the abridged version, yes, it seems that way... the whole thing is pretty involved overall, a LONG story over the past couple months.

I keep wishing that somehow in this case the same type of thing could happen.

I wish I would win the lotto bro, but it aint going to happen. You need to stop living in fantasy land bro.

 

[mccrazy]

All I can say is don't do it. I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago and was in a world of pain, and I wrote out a letter I wanted to send to her. Thank god I didn't! Don't do it! Life may seem worse without her right now but it always gets better. I can't stress this enough, your life will get alot more enjoyable if you move on.

Andrew

 

[Gigantasor]

Fuc% it brother. Just cut her head off with a spork!!!!!

 

[DIVISION]

People do break up and get back together though.. it happens.

I have a good friend who is happily married now with a kid and everything.. he and his wife separated for 6 months, he moved to a different city even... but now he says they are stronger then ever...

I keep wishing that somehow in this case the same type of thing could happen.

Look, Brian...

If you've explained to her how you feel and she still doesn't want to get back together, then it's pretty much over. You can hold out hope that she might change her mind, but that is unlikely at this point. She has moved on, you should probably do the same. There are women everywhere, I have no doubts that you can find another woman who makes you happy.

Trust me on this, holmes....

Move on, it's for your own betterment, you cannot live in the past.

DIV

 

[Lestat]

All I can say is don't do it. I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago and was in a world of pain, and I wrote out a letter I wanted to send to her. Thank god I didn't! Don't do it! Life may seem worse without her right now but it always gets better. I can't stress this enough, your life will get alot more enjoyable if you move on.

Andrew

wow man, thanks for making this your first post. I appreciate that.