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Should I send this to the ex?
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it happens bro.... it has happend to me and i am sure a lot of the other dudes around here...Lestat said:
the thing is you have built this chick up on a pedestal, and to be honest it isn't going to be easy, and it isn't going to happen quickly, and you aren't going to get any answers... but you will get over it eventually...
I can tell you if you don't get your shit together it could and probably will fuck shit up for you... your life, your job, your aspirations - even shit with chicks you could be with (and probabably woud love to be with if you had your head on straight-and you might regret missing out on them later)
I wish I had dudes telling me to do what we are telling you now - cause I found out the hard way, wasted a couple years with that shit (off an on, not constant)... and in my situation, the girl WANTED to get back together at times like I did (which made it harder cause she was coming back for me too), but shit was already tainted and ruined and it never worked.....
trust me - it is no where you want to be....
don't be ashamed bro, it is rough, I know...
bran987
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Lestat said:
hell yeah apprentice is tonight!!!!
this new chick sounds great and very understanding, good luck with her she sounds awesome
meanwhile your ex hasn't give you a second thought for days!
get your logic and priorities straight, Ledamnit Lestat
you start sending that shit out and not only will it make you a wimp in her eyes again (right when she was starting to respect you again), it'll get around the office it's been almost a year and you're still at home whimpering
she'll ask a friend for advice on what to do, and her friend will blab
yeah I know it's only been 4 months but that's how office rumors are.
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Having testicles would help. 
But otherwise, time heals all wounds.
But otherwise, time heals all wounds.
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bran987
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Lestat said:
I think in the case of "I got dumped, oh my god my life is over, she was the one perfect girl in the world, we loved everything about each other, I'm going to die, there was that undescribable click, yadda yadda yadda type breakups, it takes half the time of the length relationship
at least it did for me but I was younger.
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Play it out in your mind Lestat. If she wanted to get back together she would. What do you think giving her that letter will accomplish? Not a thing. Do you think she's automatically going to change her mind after she reads that?
I agree with Becoming. Pretend in a couple weeks from now she comes back, things will never be the same. It may be at first, but it's already been broken and will be doomed.
Just last week I was sitting here wanting my ex to come back some day, but then I realized that as much as I think I'd want her back, I'd be mad and too afraid of the same thing happening again. I don't think I would ever trust her completely again.
I agree with Becoming. Pretend in a couple weeks from now she comes back, things will never be the same. It may be at first, but it's already been broken and will be doomed.
Just last week I was sitting here wanting my ex to come back some day, but then I realized that as much as I think I'd want her back, I'd be mad and too afraid of the same thing happening again. I don't think I would ever trust her completely again.
Delinquent
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Code said:Having testicles would help.
But otherwise, time heals all wounds.
I'm beginning to wonder about the time heals statement as he has been whining for a while now. I got over my first lover quicker than this
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