She lied about her looks, on Eharmony.....scary

[blueta2]

Meh. She sort of has it coming by her own behavior. I would never post false pictures on the internet and lie about my age to get a date. It is cruel to the other person. She obviously isn't thinking about anyone's needs and feelings except her own.

haha..yes HR I agree........so call her a liar, why resort to commenting on her weight and looks?
Of course she is only thinking about herself, this is the MO of a liar!

 

[heatherrae]

I wonder if the ladies would feel the same way if people were making fun of a 50 year old obese man who lied to them and sent them pictures of a good looking man in their age range and got them all hopeful for a nice date? My bet is that they would LAMBASTE him for being a dirty old man, a lying bastard, etc.

 

[blueta2]

I wonder if the ladies would feel the same way if people were making fun of a 50 year old obese man who lied to them and sent them pictures of a good looking man in their age range and got them all hopeful for a nice date? My bet is that they would LAMBASTE him for being a dirty old man, a lying bastard, etc.

Of course I would feel the same way. Do you think it's gender specific to me who ppl make fun of....come on girl, I got a heart!
If it were a man, I would call him a liar, but not a dirty old man. If the man were 60 and hunting a 15 yr old, yes I would call him a pedophile, but his weight and looks would not come into play!?!

 

[Lestat]

lol. great thread

 

[heatherrae]

Of course I would feel the same way. Do you think it's gender specific to me who ppl make fun of....come on girl, I got a heart!
If it were a man, I would call him a liar, but not a dirty old man. If the man were 60 and hunting a 15 yr old, yes I would call him a pedophile, but his weight and looks would not come into play!?!

Well, wait until you get lied to in a major way then and put yourself out on the line, then. I have little sympathy for predators.

She obviously didn't give a shit about hurting Arabians feelings. A little teasing that she will never even see....meh.

 

[Arabian]

Did I mention her profile said she liked to cook

 

[blueta2]

Well, wait until you get lied to in a major way then and put yourself out on the line, then. I have little sympathy for predators.

She obviously didn't give a shit about hurting Arabians feelings. A little teasing that she will never even see....meh.

HR, you're in a fighting mood today. What part of "I agree with you that she was a lying sack of poo" are you not getting?
You don’t think I've ever been lied to? I've been lied to a million times. I met two guys on line that looked NOTHING like their pics. I walked away saying they were lying dirt bags, I didn’t put them down b/c of their looks.
Call her for what she is a lair, why bring her looks and weight into it?

You call her a predator! You watch too much Dateline. She is not a predator. She told him the truth before she went to meet him. She is a liar, plain and simple toots!

 

[BBR100]

HR, you're in a fighting mood today. What part of "I agree with you that she was a lying sack of poo" are you not getting?
You don’t think I've ever been lied to? I've been lied to a million times. I met two guys on line that looked NOTHING like their pics. I walked away saying they were lying dirt bags, I didn’t put them down b/c of their looks.
Call her for what she is a lair, why bring her looks and weight into it?

You call her a predator! You watch too much Dateline. She is not a predator. She told him the truth before she went to meet him. She is a liar, plain and simple toots!

You met guys online?
Now, if they were hot would you have still walked away?

 

[blueta2]

You met guys online?
Now, if they were hot would you have still walked away?

yes met, past tense baby

I met a ton of hot guys on line. I didn't like them as much as the last one I met

 

[Bikini Mod]

So call her a liar...why the name calling about her looks?!
If she were Demi Moore (who is like 46) and he was 25, I bet there would be no complaints.

If she was Demi Moore she would not feel the need to lie.

Let's call a spade a spade. Whether one is male/female NO ONE likes to be lied to about something as blatant as external appearance. I mean, WTF do these people think? That you will suddenly not care what they look like once they have so obviously decieved you?

It happened to me on more than one occasion. You have all seen my lawngnome. I love him more than words could ever say. He ain't exactly Arnold or Mel Gibson, but he looks devastatingly beautiful to me... His charisma, his rapier wit and his gentle way with me are just a few of the reasons why I love him so deeply. However, if he had displayed an image of Arnold or Mel Gibson and *he* showed up at the airport I would have been pretty pissed. Not because he isn't handsome enough for me, but for the simple fact he lied.

Women, I believe, are more guilty of this as men put a higher paramount on physical beauty. But who are they kidding?

I always tell women that if a man is either too blind or too stupid to see what is beautiful about her, then why on earth would she waste her precious time engaging him?

BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GO OUT TO ENGAGE OTHERS.