Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below OK this is something I have been thinking about for a little bit now. Everybody that become a zealot in the sport of bodybuilding always seems to go through phases, so let me know if this sounds like one. I am 19 now. i guess you could say i have been into weight training for about 5 years but i really got into the sport of bodybuilding about 1 1/2 years ago. I am finishing up my first cycle now, and to tell you the truth i look real good. However, i feel like some sort of simian walking around. Do you know what I mean? Everwhere i go--i get pointed out. If i go to a club with my girl-- people think i want to fight everyone. It almost seems that this has all had an adverse effect on me, i always thought being bigger than most would be an accomplishment, something to be proud of, but now it seems like all i want to do is be normal. Why do big guys get pointed out, and attrack so much unwanted attention. I have never wittnesed a girl point out some real skinny guy to her boyfriend, but always a muscle head. Do any of you wish you could just stop worrying about being so big? i would give it all away to just look in shape. My whole day is spent worrying when and what to eat, if i am working out hard enough, if i get enough sleep. I mean shit i am in college, supposed to be having the time of my life, and all i can think about is if my quads are big enough or if i can get my abs to show in time, or about my diet. It starts to become stressfull. Its like this is taking over my life. And it all started with doing situps and push ups when i was 14. Do any of you feel like you look to big, or all this work and worrying is not worth it?
serious question
- Thread starter beardog
- Start date
C
Citruscide
Guest
At first I thought you were Lance Storm from WWF asking "If I can be serious for a moment.. 
Yeah, it's wierd. I'm a bigger guy, but not "freaky" big. The Freaky guys are the ones I look up to... if I'm pointing them up, you can be I'm saying "That's how I want to look" and I'm sure most guys are thinking that, even if they say "Oh, that's way too big"... They point because they are jealous... they are jealous because they are worthless, skinny sacks of flesh.
Be proud of your accomplishments bro, don't let others bring you down... and if they do, then you SQUASH THEM... YOU SQUASH THEM TO GOO!
C
Yeah, it's wierd. I'm a bigger guy, but not "freaky" big. The Freaky guys are the ones I look up to... if I'm pointing them up, you can be I'm saying "That's how I want to look" and I'm sure most guys are thinking that, even if they say "Oh, that's way too big"... They point because they are jealous... they are jealous because they are worthless, skinny sacks of flesh.
Be proud of your accomplishments bro, don't let others bring you down... and if they do, then you SQUASH THEM... YOU SQUASH THEM TO GOO!
C
I agree. Just squash them. Honestly, it takes a big dude to "freak" me out or to cause me to stare, etc. When I see a freak, I just stop and wonder what it must be like to walk around like that for a day. Anybody that points you out is just envious and if they're truly not envious and they're calling you out, then I refer you to the top of the paragraph. Like Citriscide said, squash them. lol
Honestly, it takes a big dude to "freak" me out or to cause me to stare, etc. When I see a freak, I just stop and wonder what it must be like to walk around like that for a day. Anybody that points you out is just envious and if they're truly not envious and they're calling you out, then I refer you to the top of the paragraph. Like Citriscide said, squash them. lolJust accept the fact that there are a lot of insecure assholes out there, learn to ignore them. If they talk shit, just walk away. Its tough, but I'll tell you, you're the better man if you walk away even though you'd like to crush their face. Besides, it never looks good if the big guy punches the little guy, even though the little guy is the asshole. Walk away, however if you're really fast, the place is noisy and crowded and no attention has been drawn to you, then a quick elbow to the jaw might work. You can make it look like you were just turning around adjusting your jacket, arm comes up and he goes down. No one sees anything, then you just walk out while the guy is pulling himself off the floor. Everyone will think he is just drunk and fell down. Seen it happen.
W6
W6
GLASSVOICE
New member
That is very true Wilson, I've seen it happen a few times.
Dear Beardog,
It seems that being big is one of you goals in life. Well by what you are saying, you did it. You are a big boy now (and I say boy because you are 19). Violence does not makes you bigger so, take it easy and think it's just admiration.
If you want to go out with your girlfriend to a club and you want to be somewhat invisible, then, wear diferent clothes. Something that is pretty loose and long sleeve shirts. Stripes vertically on the shirt will help. Dark pants. And I hope you don't have that haircut called "mohak" (spelling???). Also try to wear the shirt out, not tuck in your pants.
You are only starting your life and that is such an insignificant problem compared to the obstacles you'll find through your adult years. Learn to live with your body. Keep it healthy and don't worry that much about people staring. Try to fel good about it.
Good luck!
Glassvoice
Dear Beardog,
It seems that being big is one of you goals in life. Well by what you are saying, you did it. You are a big boy now (and I say boy because you are 19). Violence does not makes you bigger so, take it easy and think it's just admiration.
If you want to go out with your girlfriend to a club and you want to be somewhat invisible, then, wear diferent clothes. Something that is pretty loose and long sleeve shirts. Stripes vertically on the shirt will help. Dark pants. And I hope you don't have that haircut called "mohak" (spelling???). Also try to wear the shirt out, not tuck in your pants.
You are only starting your life and that is such an insignificant problem compared to the obstacles you'll find through your adult years. Learn to live with your body. Keep it healthy and don't worry that much about people staring. Try to fel good about it.
Good luck!
Glassvoice
Last edited:
