Thanks guys. I guess stuff will turn around when we go to court and the truth comes out. He has been parking across from me at the store, lifting the hood of my car at night, having his lawyer call my dad and talk crap about me, and even snowed his probation officer into believing i'm the bad guy. The probation officer called me and threatened me for the ex-bf! That is the guy who I'm supposed to call if the ex violates the no contact order! Damn, some people suck. I haven't tried to stir any trouble, but he just won't stop.