Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below sorry I just had to vent this. I broke up with a SERIOUS girlfriend that I thought was the "one" Just wondering if any bros are going through the same shit. It makes everything hard, especially in a cycle! its already been a few months and it still is really hard to swallow. I saw her a month ago at the club, and DAMN she was looking good! sucks for me.
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ColumboWeiser
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wish you luck bro...it will pass, make sure to keep your mind off her by staying in the gym and planning your next cycle
DesertTiger
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Suck it up. Train harder and show her what she's missing. Make her go home and say DAMN he looked good.
Yea, I would go with DeserTiger on that on. Whenever I go through shit like that I get great gains bc I get so pissed off and jacked up that all I want to do is go and hit the gym. You definately can't let yourself get depressed. That would be the worse. Just get you shit together and bust some ass!
Hey man I feel for yah!!
I agree with desert!! My girl and I broke up about 2 months ago,but about 2 weeks ago I ran into( out of the million people around) her and we did talk and she did the I love you shit and all that,and because of a hore friend 20 minutes later she didnt even know me!!
So I am definetly training harder and harder becuase next time she sees me( besides the fact that I use to fuck her like no other) she is gonna be DRUELING!!
best of luck,and hold your head!!!
samson
I agree with desert!! My girl and I broke up about 2 months ago,but about 2 weeks ago I ran into( out of the million people around) her and we did talk and she did the I love you shit and all that,and because of a hore friend 20 minutes later she didnt even know me!!
So I am definetly training harder and harder becuase next time she sees me( besides the fact that I use to fuck her like no other) she is gonna be DRUELING!!
best of luck,and hold your head!!!
samson
Bobber
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Me and my girl took a little break from each other a few weeks ado and in one week my arms grew a half inch, and this is off cycle. But we got together and now they are back down to there old self again. I find that it is easier to get bigger when you dont have a girlfriend. But I know how you feel b/c I think that I am with the "one" and wouldn't like it if we split for good. Just keep your head up bro and find some other ass to play with while she comes around, nad you know she probably will.
2legit2quit
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Same shit happened to me friday night bro. I really thought this girl was going to be the one for me too. I'm also right in the middle of a cycle, but I don't see it affecting my training at all. Thank God I just got a new job though in an office full of women. I've been flirting my ass off, and been getting hit on for the last two weeks, so that definitely makes the break up easier..........I've got the pick of the litter at work!
I did what you guys are talking about and the feeling is oh-so good!
Let me explain. I was going out with this chick from Febuary-March to the end of april. At the time we started dating, I haden't been in a gym for over 1.5 years. A shoulder injury and other personal problems led me to depression. For 1.5 years all I did was smoke weed and pop pills. When I got up to 210 lbs at WELL over 20% BF (at 5'8), I had a 41 inch waist, and I finally decided to get back to training.
When I started, I swear I could not lift the fucking bar! I trained only my shoulders up until April to get them strong again. One day in April, I woke up, and I was able to bech 165 lbs for 8 reps. It may have been a warm up for me a year ago, but that did it, I was hooked again. I started enjoying the pain of training again and started to train twice a day. My diet was so clean it was almost sick.
She started to nag me. Why are you eating this, (the bitch use to bake cookies), why won't you eat my cookies, why can't you go out, why don't you spend more time with me...and it goes on and on...
At the end of April, I was 180lbs at with a 34-35 inch waist. I was going to start bulking. Now that I was eating her cookies, she complained, why are you eating so much, 2 weeks ago you weren't eating anything, you're so full of contradictions! You are going to get fat! why do you want to put all that size on it's all fat anyway! I told her I was going to put muscle on with fat and then diet off the fat: she said bullshit, it doesn't work.
Finally, she made me choose between BB and her, guess what I choose! The only problem was that she sat in front of me in my law class at school. What a pain that was.
Anyway, summer started and I stopped seeing her alltogether. After my bulking, I was up to 200lbs, but pretty flabby maybe 18%. But I had added so much of my muscle back. I got down to about 194 through dieting and my waist was about 36 inches.
What was my point again? Oh, one day I came into a pharmacy near my gym looking for a gelpack. I had just trained, and was fully pumped. There she was at the cash! She couldn't even keep her mouth closed when she saw me, she started to stutter, and couldn't even hide her amazement.
Man, I can't describe the feeling of satisfaction that gave me.
This post is very long, so I'm sorry, but the best thing for you is to use that frustration to drive you to become a monster. One day you will see her again. I can promise you that: things have a way of working out.
(Btw, I'm now 190lbs with a 35 inch waist, I did all that naturally.)
Let me explain. I was going out with this chick from Febuary-March to the end of april. At the time we started dating, I haden't been in a gym for over 1.5 years. A shoulder injury and other personal problems led me to depression. For 1.5 years all I did was smoke weed and pop pills. When I got up to 210 lbs at WELL over 20% BF (at 5'8), I had a 41 inch waist, and I finally decided to get back to training.
When I started, I swear I could not lift the fucking bar! I trained only my shoulders up until April to get them strong again. One day in April, I woke up, and I was able to bech 165 lbs for 8 reps. It may have been a warm up for me a year ago, but that did it, I was hooked again. I started enjoying the pain of training again and started to train twice a day. My diet was so clean it was almost sick.
She started to nag me. Why are you eating this, (the bitch use to bake cookies), why won't you eat my cookies, why can't you go out, why don't you spend more time with me...and it goes on and on...
At the end of April, I was 180lbs at with a 34-35 inch waist. I was going to start bulking. Now that I was eating her cookies, she complained, why are you eating so much, 2 weeks ago you weren't eating anything, you're so full of contradictions! You are going to get fat! why do you want to put all that size on it's all fat anyway! I told her I was going to put muscle on with fat and then diet off the fat: she said bullshit, it doesn't work.
Finally, she made me choose between BB and her, guess what I choose! The only problem was that she sat in front of me in my law class at school. What a pain that was.
Anyway, summer started and I stopped seeing her alltogether. After my bulking, I was up to 200lbs, but pretty flabby maybe 18%. But I had added so much of my muscle back. I got down to about 194 through dieting and my waist was about 36 inches.
What was my point again? Oh, one day I came into a pharmacy near my gym looking for a gelpack. I had just trained, and was fully pumped. There she was at the cash! She couldn't even keep her mouth closed when she saw me, she started to stutter, and couldn't even hide her amazement.
Man, I can't describe the feeling of satisfaction that gave me.
This post is very long, so I'm sorry, but the best thing for you is to use that frustration to drive you to become a monster. One day you will see her again. I can promise you that: things have a way of working out.
(Btw, I'm now 190lbs with a 35 inch waist, I did all that naturally.)
