relationship problems?

[Dellyo]

Because women are fucking crazy, and most times will use any ammunition they have against you if you begin to have an argument. Thats why people hide it from their significant other.

For example... my wife is Bi-Polar. To put it simply, the bitch is fuckin crazy... period. She will flip out and be the most irrational person you can imagine. When she starts acting that way, i can tell immediately that shes just having "one of those days". Its like she lives in a different reality. She will try and twist any and everything she can to convince herself that I have done something wrong to make her feel the way she is feeling, when most times I havent done a damn thing. And thats the honest to god truth.

So with that being said... I hide my use from my wife. I have been married to my wife now for only 6 months, however we have dated for 10 years prior (if you want to know why we dated so long, its because I wasnt sure if I really wanted to marry someone that fucking crazy...seriously) I don't want us to get in any kind of argument and then her turn around and say its because im using gear. That would make me damn near blow my top Im sure. So I just bypass that entire issue by concealing my use from her.

She and I have discussed it (cycles), and she knows im an educated person who wouldnt do anything without the right research and using properly... however I know from past experiences that what she says almost always isnt what she means, or what comes to be when it all boils down to it.

My gear use is the ONLY thing I hide from my wife, and I feel like I have a good enough justification for it.

I guess it all depends on the people involved and their situations. I agree with you that you should be able to share everything with the person you love... however its just not always best given unique circumstances such as mine.

Anwyway thats my 2 cents. Didnt mean to hi-jack the thread!

ummmmmm LOL.....

 

[Sean Scott]

I know how you feel, going through the same thing, hit the gym..

 

[looking to lean]

I agree 100%. Be prepared for the barrage of flames these guys will hit you with justifying the secret life they live behind wifey's back. God forbid someone should like them for who/what they really are instead of the person they portray themselves to be to keep theirr supply of ass in check. Pussy is like a drug for some people and they'll just keep beating themselves in the head with a hammer daily just to get a taste of poon 2-3x a week. I like poon just as much as the next guy, but putting on a social mask everytime they come around is too high of a price for any bitch's twat.

they may flame away, but I still have the perfect girl friend. example...

Im reading and posting on this thread this morning. She wakes up and comes to see what Im up to. I tell her about this thread and what Im writing. She smiles... drops to her knees and voila... Good Morning Me!

Get a new girl, guys. Took me until I was 31 before I found one that didnt piss me off everyday. Up til then... I was doing the same BS as you all. ~Making things work out as best I could in a shit relationship~ Dont do it. Not worth it.

 

[al420]

i dont know why anyone would juice and not tell there gf. if you cant tell the person that you are supposed to be closest to, then maybe you need a new gf or none at all. not trying to slam anyone here.... IMO it seems like hiding it would to harder to accomplish than just being honest.

A few cycles and summers ago I shot my delt way to low and had a golf ball size bruise on my arm for a week. It was SO hard to hide it from my wife, and I lost so many hours to being paranoid that I decided to share my vice w/ her. SHe hates them, but we have 4 kids so she ain't going anywhere.....j/k lmfao

 

[Wulfgar]

Interstingly enough you guys...i disagree with using "anger" or "thinking of her with another guy" as motivation to train. Anger/spite/jealously/hatred/revenge etc.. are all very negative low tone emotions that will drain your strength faster than pretty much damn near anything else.
My advice, stay out of the gym for a little while and really go through the emotions you are feeling till you can accept them without them controlling you and forcing you into shame/despar/rage..etc. This may seem like it will take awhile but just be open to the emotions and dont fight them off. trust me, you will integrate them soon enough.
When you workout, workout using emotions of love, joy, bliss...etc these will empower you and truly give you what you truly desire, peace and happiness.

take it from one who has been there repeatedly..

 

[mrdeeznuts]

they may flame away, but I still have the perfect girl friend. example...

Im reading and posting on this thread this morning. She wakes up and comes to see what Im up to. I tell her about this thread and what Im writing. She smiles... drops to her knees and voila... Good Morning Me!

Get a new girl, guys. Took me until I was 31 before I found one that didnt piss me off everyday. Up til then... I was doing the same BS as you all. ~Making things work out as best I could in a shit relationship~ Dont do it. Not worth it.

did u give her a dime bag then, how much did she charge?

j/k bro does she have a sister?

 

[instant.muscle]

all of my friends and family have been happy we split up, they all hated her and thought she treated me like shit and i'm very young and they warned me i would b throwing my life away

 

[JuicedAthletics]

Re: relationship problems?

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Interstingly enough you guys...i disagree with using "anger" or "thinking of her with another guy" as motivation to train. Anger/spite/jealously/hatred/revenge etc.. are all very negative low tone emotions that will drain your strength faster than pretty much damn near anything else.
My advice, stay out of the gym for a little while and really go through the emotions you are feeling till you can accept them without them controlling you and forcing you into shame/despar/rage..etc. This may seem like it will take awhile but just be open to the emotions and dont fight them off. trust me, you will integrate them soon enough.
When you workout, workout using emotions of love, joy, bliss...etc these will empower you and truly give you what you truly desire, peace and happiness.

take it from one who has been there repeatedly..

That's truly great advice....

 

[cat_fish]

I agree 100%. Be prepared for the barrage of flames these guys will hit you with justifying the secret life they live behind wifey's back.

I guess it depends on the woman your with at the time. I was dating a flight attendant for over a year and one day out of the clear blue sky she said if I was on steroids its over, I hadnt gone over to the dark side yet so it wasnt a problem. Another girl I was dating encourged it but beings she was in law enforcement I thought it would be better to keep it on the down low only because I didnt see the relationship getting past the bedroom. Now my ex-wife thats a different story, she was a mean vindictive controlling bitch who came from a family that had enough money to buy and sell me. I knew that if I told her she'd hold it over my head for the rest of my life and if she would have gotten pissed off at me for any reason what so ever she would have dropped a dime on me in a New York minute.

As far as Instant Muscles is concerned.... bro your young do yourself a favor get yourself another woman, you'll be good to go in no time.

 

[BigCracker]

they may flame away, but I still have the perfect girl friend. example...

Im reading and posting on this thread this morning. She wakes up and comes to see what Im up to. I tell her about this thread and what Im writing. She smiles... drops to her knees and voila... Good Morning Me!

Props to you. Most guys would be hitting Ctrl/Alt/Del as soon as they heard her roll out of bed. lol