i see it this way,i been having problems with my girl this pass months i love her to death i been with her 2 years but it has gotton a lil worst since ,but some girls dont understand how hard we work to have our bodys the way they are ,most of our fights come cause of the juice and me spending to much time at the gym,the best thing to do is to tell them straight up either they support you or not ,i have a passion for the sport i been doing this for 5 years and im not going to stop ...i feel you on that immortalis , my girl is bi-polar too she flips out sometimes ...