Does your wife approve? More importantly, would you approve of your wife doing the same? Back in the day they only sent private nudes and it was just as scandalous....by that I mean slutty. I have no respect for someone that puts nudes on a public board to garner attention.
Personally, I wouldn't post a nude and nor would my wife because it's against my beliefs. But if she wants to do it, sure....why not? I won't stop her. I'm not going to hate on her for doing so. If she's pretty I'll tell her. Why not? Nothing wrong with beauty. Nopt like I'm trying to flirt with her or pick her up. I'm just telling her she's hot.
I understand your point of view, and it's just that YOUR point of view. No sense in trying to convinve others of it. To each his own.