Question for women. Do you like getting choked during sex?

[gonelifting]

How is that done exactly? Please don't post a damn link for me to read. I just want to know if a lot of people do it and if it's really worth looking into as a form of the sexuals.

I do choke my roommate from time to time, but it's just self taught stuff, nothing I got training on or anything.

I grab her/his throat and squeeze slightly while the blowing and or sex or whatever, until they really can't take anymore.

I have big hands. thanks.


So, are they supposed to go right before passing out or is it done right before orgasm or what?!?

Frisky, post up!

 

[ksharp01]

No

 

[alien amp pharm]

my chicken enjoys being choked whenever I have sex with myself.

 

[gonelifting]

No

You didn't like it?

 

[Big Rick Rock]

How is that done exactly? Please don't post a damn link for me to read. I just want to know if a lot of people do it and if it's really worth looking into as a form of the sexuals.

I do choke my roommate from time to time, but it's just self taught stuff, nothing I got training on or anything.

I grab her/his throat and squeeze slightly while the blowing and or sex or whatever, until they really can't take anymore.

I have big hands. thanks.


So, are they supposed to go right before passing out or is it done right before orgasm or what?!?

Frisky, post up!

Your wife is still HOT.




-BRR

 

[ole farte']

lol.........uhh, haven't people died doing the choking during sex shit??

 

[habitualhealth]

I'd be more likely to punch you in the face than enjoy it.

 

[Y_lifter]

Your Roommate has issues. thx

You on the other hand are way past the ISSUES stage..
Into the realm of dementia.

How's your breathing/Coughing doing lately ?

 

[stosstruppe]

Natural Born Killers, great movie

 

[p0ink]

you know what women love? copious and excess amounts of lube all over them and their bed.

there is nothing they love more than 16 ounces of astroglide running down the crack of their ass.

it's the truth.

 

[all the whey]

Almost all the girls I went out with did. Most a firm grip around throat, being held down, pulling hair, etc. But, some like being seriously chocked.


Even kitteh knows that girls get excited when he says.....

 

[gonelifting]

I'd be more likely to punch you in the face than enjoy it.

lol Ummm, I'm not talking about killing you! wtf? Just a sexual thing. holy missionary Batman. Doesn't anyone venture out of the norm here?

Just holding your hand on her neck... not to HURT anyone. I hear it's exhilirating.

Well, anyway, I do it and never had a complaint. But... I never went too far as to get to that climax point or whatever the hell one would look for. I just did it for a quick moment while the banging and or blowjobous.

 

[ksharp01]

You didn't like it?

never done it and would never let anyone do it...people die from that shit and hell who wants to be knocked out when the orgasm comes?

 

[gonelifting]

pffft, whatever.

Slackers.


Y_Lifter. I'm fine with the breathing, but my hand huirts like hell. I just started doing a parrafin(sp?) bath where you stick your hand in a hot wax and let it stay on there for 15 minutes or so. It seems to sooth it. I definately recommend it to anyone who has dry or aching hands fingers, joints.... otc stuff you can buy at the drugstore.

Thanks!


Where are the real bitches?

lol @ someone punching you in the face if you did that. I really never had a problem. Never even duiscussed during or after... many times.. but again, i do NOT CHOKE too hard, just grab the damn neck people!!! Damn you people!

 

[gonelifting]

And I just reported every single poster on this thread! Including me.

 

[bigbox]

lol.........uhh, haven't people died doing the choking during sex shit??

What you're supposed to do, don't choke hard enough to make them pass out, just to restrict a little blood flow to the brain. She should have a safeword or something, like mine is I make her tap my shoulder three times right before she hits orgasm, then let go. Once you do that, she'll want to be choked everytime, but still only do it on special occasion!!! I did mess up the first time I tried it, an ex told me to choke her, so I did... but didn't realize there was a safeword or the tapping thing. It scared the hell out of me when she quit moving!!!

 

[mustang_00]

i accidently got the psycho chick i was fucking around with into that. She was giving me a handjob and leaned over and spit on my cock and started working it and out of nowhere i just zoned out and put my hand on her neck and squeezed. she'd just lean her neck back and let me do it. I noticed she'd get really wet from it and i'd have to do it to her when i was rubbing her clit. it's kinda scary doing shit like that when you're not used to freaky stuff but kinda cool.

couldn't something like this (being choked/held down) be related to some sort of rape fetish??? subconsciously or not???? or is it just "naughty" fun?

 

[billfred]

Everyone go read the novel "The General's Daughter" by Nelson Demille.

Good book and covers this topic in detail - as an accidental murder.

 

[Mikus]

pffft, whatever.

Slackers.


Y_Lifter. I'm fine with the breathing, but my hand huirts like hell. I just started doing a parrafin(sp?) bath where you stick your hand in a hot wax and let it stay on there for 15 minutes or so. It seems to sooth it. I definately recommend it to anyone who has dry or aching hands fingers, joints.... otc stuff you can buy at the drugstore.

Thanks!


Where are the real bitches?

lol @ someone punching you in the face if you did that. I really never had a problem. Never even duiscussed during or after... many times.. but again, i do NOT CHOKE too hard, just grab the damn neck people!!! Damn you people!

I think people are misunderstanding the whole concept you're bringing to the table. But just from my experience, and i'm not sure if it's just cause i attract psychotic women or what... but the women i've been scroggin lately seem to not enjoy sex unless they came out with a new bruise and sore trachea. And it's not like they expect me to choke them unconscience

 

[heatherrae]

Geez. Okay, let me explain something here. For those who like the choking thing, it is the restriction of blood flow to the brain right before orgasm that gives the really high euphoric feeling. All you need to do to her is restrict the arteries a bit on each side of the neck. If you are clamping down on her trachea, you are doing it wrong. Maybe she will like it if she just likes getting knocked around a bit, but it isn't the same thing at all.

Also, someone else mentioned a safeword. Probably the tap out thing is even better...lol...somewhat hard to talk while being choked and having an orgasm.

I'm not telling anyone to go out and do any of this. My luck would be that some idiot would choke his girl to death and then sue me for "advising" him to do so...lol. Practice at your own risk.

 

[all the whey]

One of my best friends used to liked being choked by his exgirlfriend while they had sex. He hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time. Since, he is such a good friend. I choke him while he masterbates.

 

[heatherrae]

One of my best friends used to liked being choked by his exgirlfriend while they had sex. He hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time. Since, he is such a good friend. I choke him while he masterbates.

That is a really good friend...lol

 

[SlutFucker]

Geez. Okay, let me explain something here. For those who like the choking thing, it is the restriction of blood flow to the brain right before orgasm that gives the really high euphoric feeling. All you need to do to her is restrict the arteries a bit on each side of the neck. If you are clamping down on her trachea, you are doing it wrong. Maybe she will like it if she just likes getting knocked around a bit, but it isn't the same thing at all.

Also, someone else mentioned a safeword. Probably the tap out thing is even better...lol...somewhat hard to talk while being choked and having an orgasm.

I'm not telling anyone to go out and do any of this. My luck would be that some idiot would choke his girl to death and then sue me for "advising" him to do so...lol. Practice at your own risk.

I want to fuck you.

 

[heatherrae]

One of my best friends used to liked being choked by his exgirlfriend while they had sex. He hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time. Since, he is such a good friend. I choke him while he masterbates.

could be worse. You could wank him while he chokes himself, I suppose.

 

[Gymgurl]

How is that done exactly? Please don't post a damn link for me to read. I just want to know if a lot of people do it and if it's really worth looking into as a form of the sexuals.

I do choke my roommate from time to time, but it's just self taught stuff, nothing I got training on or anything.

I grab her/his throat and squeeze slightly while the blowing and or sex or whatever, until they really can't take anymore.

I have big hands. thanks.


So, are they supposed to go right before passing out or is it done right before orgasm or what?!?

Frisky, post up!

I like a little of it with the right person....more of a dom/control thing

 

[immortalis]

Almost all the girls I went out with did. Most a firm grip around throat, being held down, pulling hair, etc.

Actually most of the women that I have been with have liked this in some way or another.

I never take it to the extreme of making a woman nearly pass out, but it seems as tho all of them like some form of pressure around their neck during sex. Im sure they just like feeling dominated by a man, which I dont mind accomodating of course

Ive read and heard about many women who like to get into what Heather was describing, however I have never pushed it that far.

 

[mobro]

I know what you mean. My girl, and hell me too, like to be "choked" a little. Heather you are right. It is more of a restriction than choking. It is just a way to show intensity and passion if done at the right time and place and in the right way. Anybody that thinks they are choking someone in a way to make them pass out is doing it all wrong. IMHO

 

[all the whey]

Actually most of the women that I have been with have liked this in some way or another.

I never take it to the extreme of making a woman nearly pass out, but it seems as tho all of them like some form of pressure around their neck during sex. Im sure they just like feeling dominated by a man, which I dont mind accomodating of course

Ive read and heard about many women who like to get into what Heather was describing, however I have never pushed it that far.

Glad you agree bro.

But, it looks like all the girls here are BOOOORING from there responces.

 

[gonelifting]

OK Thanks. Good points to know.

I have been only pressing on the neck with my (large, thanks!) hand. That is not the correct way and i know it, but it was fun to watch her get uncomfortable just slightly. It was a turn on for her and me. I did not even get close to actually choking her that way. It was more the playing the role, dominating thing, when I was with her during intercourse or whatever we were doing.

Now knowing the correct procedure, we may try it.

One question: How do I know when to astart clamping down for the subsequent release just before orgasm? Is it on cue of her knowing when she's about to orgasm? That could get ttricky. Is it when she is actually orgasming... right at the very beginning?


Yeah, a lot of practice, I guess.

Thanks.


Also, I will still grab her neck the old way with one hand and wrap my fingers around it. Just to show her whose boss. You know...

lol

 

[immortalis]

Also, I will still grab her neck the old way with one hand and wrap my fingers around it. Just to show her whose boss. You know...

lol

lol, i hear ya there

 

[heatherrae]

OK Thanks. Good points to know.

I have been only pressing on the neck with my (large, thanks!) hand. That is not the correct way and i know it, but it was fun to watch her get uncomfortable just slightly. It was a turn on for her and me. I did not even get close to actually choking her that way. It was more the playing the role, dominating thing, when I was with her during intercourse or whatever we were doing.

Now knowing the correct procedure, we may try it.

One question: How do I know when to astart clamping down for the subsequent release just before orgasm? Is it on cue of her knowing when she's about to orgasm? That could get ttricky. Is it when she is actually orgasming... right at the very beginning?


Yeah, a lot of practice, I guess.

Thanks.


Also, I will still grab her neck the old way with one hand and wrap my fingers around it. Just to show her whose boss. You know...

lol

well, you do put your hand on the neck but sort of squeeze in on the carotid arteries, not on the trachea, that just is unpleasant and gives a sore throat afterwards...lol. She should give you whatever normal ques she gives when she is close to orgasm. About 30 seconds or so is all that is needed. If you do it much longer and are really pressing in the correct place, she will just black out and that isn't really the goal.




PS-- People can have underlying medical conditions that make the practice unsafe, so I'm not telling anyone to do these things.

 

[all the whey]

well, you do put your hand on the neck but sort of squeeze in on the carotid arteries, not on the trachea, that just is unpleasant and gives a sore throat afterwards...lol. She should give you whatever normal ques she gives when she is close to orgasm. About 30 seconds or so is all that is needed. If you do it much longer and are really pressing in the correct place, she will just black out and that isn't really the goal.




PS-- People can have underlying medical conditions that make the practice unsafe, so I'm not telling anyone to do these things.

It sounds like a lot of work with you barking out technical orders....


"Squeeze in on my carotid arteries. Not on the trachea!! That is unpleasant and gives me a sore throat!"

"I will give you my normal normal ques letting you know I am close to an orgasm. "

"Exactly, 30 seconds ONLY!!"


Boy, I bet your sex talk really puts a guy in the mood to make love.

 

[heatherrae]

It sounds like a lot of work with you barking out technical orders....


"Squeeze in on my carotid arteries. Not on the trachea!! That is unpleasant and gives me a sore throat!"

"I will give you my normal normal ques letting you know I am close to an orgasm. "

"Exactly, 30 seconds ONLY!!"


Boy, I bet your sex talk really puts a guy in the mood to make love.

LOL

Shut up! Be quiet! No talking!

 

[all the whey]

LOL

Shut up! Be quiet! No talking!

 

[heatherrae]

 

[bigbox]

Geez. Okay, let me explain something here. For those who like the choking thing, it is the restriction of blood flow to the brain right before orgasm that gives the really high euphoric feeling. All you need to do to her is restrict the arteries a bit on each side of the neck. If you are clamping down on her trachea, you are doing it wrong. Maybe she will like it if she just likes getting knocked around a bit, but it isn't the same thing at all.

Also, someone else mentioned a safeword. Probably the tap out thing is even better...lol...somewhat hard to talk while being choked and having an orgasm.

I'm not telling anyone to go out and do any of this. My luck would be that some idiot would choke his girl to death and then sue me for "advising" him to do so...lol. Practice at your own risk.

Well, if it's a safeword instead of tapping, at least she won't complain about it!!!

 

[KillahBee]

Honestly, I haven't met many in the past few years who don't love it. It's pretty much a regular part of the routine.

 

[Smurfy]

How is that done exactly? Please don't post a damn link for me to read. I just want to know if a lot of people do it and if it's really worth looking into as a form of the sexuals.

I do choke my roommate from time to time, but it's just self taught stuff, nothing I got training on or anything.

I grab her/his throat and squeeze slightly while the blowing and or sex or whatever, until they really can't take anymore.

I have big hands. thanks.


So, are they supposed to go right before passing out or is it done right before orgasm or what?!?

Frisky, post up!

I love it when my man puts his hand around my throat and gives a squeeze for a while - TOTAL turn on. Not hard enough that it actually hurts, or that Im actually losing oxygen - just strong enough that there's pressure and it's tight LOL

 

[boost_addict]

Honestly, I haven't met many in the past few years who don't love it. It's pretty much a regular part of the routine.

Werd!!!
My fiancee is the only girl ive ever met who liked it, and now its a regular thing Its an INSTANT turn on for her and me too, and sometimes it gets aggressive so ya, its good to have a tap or safeword lol

Practice safe choking