Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I totally agree with Red Shadow. I am more attracted to quiet guys than I am to loud, abnoxious, arrogant men any day. Their is something about a more low profile guy that makes me want to know him better. But, you should do as Red Shadow said and make a little effort. Most girls aren't going to make a move either because they are too shy or they don't want to come off as the aggressor. Just go ahead ask for her number and CALL! Most girls are more likley to give her number out to someone who seems sincere than to very aggressive guy who seems like he's just trying to score numbers.
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Imakarum_Mirabilis
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It's really one of those "standing in a beam of light while angels sing overhead" moments when you come to realize just how insecure most women really are.
Chicks require a lot of energy as a result, usually.
Chicks require a lot of energy as a result, usually.
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The Shadow
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shit - just be yourself.
If you have to pretend to be something you are not to JUST get a date...imagine the stress of keeping up the charade to keep her.
If you have to pretend to be something you are not to JUST get a date...imagine the stress of keeping up the charade to keep her.
My bf is on the quiet side. That's probably a good thing because I talk enough for 3 people. lol He also has a more dry sense of humor that's easy to miss if you're not paying attention.
Really loud chatt guys are fun but when I'm combined with someone like that every day I think that's just too much chaos.
Really loud chatt guys are fun but when I'm combined with someone like that every day I think that's just too much chaos.
the nature boy
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slickdadd said:
casavant
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ffknight84 said:
You're fucked, buddy. But you might be an ugly bastard too. It's kind of hard to tell why chicks are avoiding you from one simple post like this.
Chances are though, if you're quiet, you're not engaging them in conversation or breaking the ice by being openly flirtatious. Chicks don't dig on this. Many are not sure how to take you, and they may be insecure about initiating any kind of verbal or physical contact. They might even think you're being stuck up. I've had people think this about me before (back when I wasn't as extroverted as I am now).
But yeah, basically, "quiet and relaxed" is not the way to be if you want to get the poonanny. If you want to be the guy that they eventually start confiding in about all the gregarious, insensitive bastards who give them a deep dicking and then fuck them off or cheat on them and how pissed off they are at the guy and so on, then you're on the right track.
Just shootin' ya straight.
ffknight84
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casavant - i think you misinterpreted my post, not looking to get some ass every weekend. Its jsut a few things happened over the last year with one girl i know, and another who i thought liked me i havent spoken to or seen in 9 months because we dont know how to contact each other. I was just wondering if i sent the wrong message by never saying anything, which now it seems pretthy obvious i did.
im far from the best looking guy around ( and will be the first to admit it ) but im def not an ugly basterd >: |
im far from the best looking guy around ( and will be the first to admit it ) but im def not an ugly basterd >: |
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Yep bro, you did. Anywho in the mean time brush up on your skills, and get your noodle wet until another one comes along that you really care about.
