Becoming said:Those are things I have always wondered about....
I mean how do kids from a private school background deal with kids who have had a more "interesting" public school experinece....
we usually pay them low wages.

also for athletics - my public school was 5A (largest) and would have kicked the crap out of any private school in the area... I know there are exceptions of course - but what about the majority?
The very best basketball schools (and some other sports) are private schools that recruit from all over.
This matters not, as it is not the function of the educational system to develop athletes.