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Two years ago my Mom told my Dad she wanted a divorce. After 25 years of marriage, one night, out of nowhere, she wanted a divorce. Four days later she moved out. My Dad would have done anything to save the marriage, but she wouldnt make any effort to work things out, go to counseling, nothing.
She said she was unhappy. That was her reason. She was unhappy, and she was divorcing my Dad, and that was final. She swore to both of us for an entire year there was nobody else. Every time I talked to her I asked her if there was anyone else and she said no.
She would point out things she didnt like about my Dad and generally talk bad about him to try to explain herself. My Dad may have not been the most physically affectionate husband ever, but he supported our family, provided anything we wanted, and would do absolutely anything for us.
The only thing he said to me about her was that she was my Mother and he did not want their divorce to hurt my relationship with her. After all she was putting us through, he never said a bad thing about her to me. He almost felt like it was his fault for my relationship with my Mom changing so negativly.
He never spoke about the details of the divorce with me until tonight. Up until the end, my Dad thought he had driven my Mom away and made her unhappy. When it came to spliting up total assets, which was approx $1 million, he gave her more than half, much more than he was required to because HE STILL LOVED HER AND WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER since she was going to be on her own.
Two weeks after the divorce was final, my Mom told me she had been seeing an old family "friend" from where we used to live, she loved him and they were getting married. Four months later, she moved to Wa. state and they got married.
Her new husband was a good friend of ours when I was young and he got divorced several years ago. He is well off, as much as my Dad, and by all means financially secure.
My Mom didnt need any money at all. She could have lived with him like she lived with my Dad. Instead, she exploited my Dad's love and trust to get as much money as possible. And my Dad feels like a sucker for believing her.
I just learned about the financial seperation tonight. I knew she had been lying to my Dad and I, but I didnt know she was that evil.
I dont know how to feel or what to do. I dont know if I even want her as a part of my life at all anymore. She never be a signifigant part of my life. Part of me wants to buy a plane ticket, fly across the country and bash the shit out of everything her piece of shit husband owns.
I'll get that half mil of my Pops money back from that decietful bitch one way or another. That is something you do not do to people.
Honesltly I think its one of me evilist things I heard of, excluding murder, rape, etc.
I am still in shock to know my Mother is like that.
She said she was unhappy. That was her reason. She was unhappy, and she was divorcing my Dad, and that was final. She swore to both of us for an entire year there was nobody else. Every time I talked to her I asked her if there was anyone else and she said no.
She would point out things she didnt like about my Dad and generally talk bad about him to try to explain herself. My Dad may have not been the most physically affectionate husband ever, but he supported our family, provided anything we wanted, and would do absolutely anything for us.
The only thing he said to me about her was that she was my Mother and he did not want their divorce to hurt my relationship with her. After all she was putting us through, he never said a bad thing about her to me. He almost felt like it was his fault for my relationship with my Mom changing so negativly.
He never spoke about the details of the divorce with me until tonight. Up until the end, my Dad thought he had driven my Mom away and made her unhappy. When it came to spliting up total assets, which was approx $1 million, he gave her more than half, much more than he was required to because HE STILL LOVED HER AND WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER since she was going to be on her own.
Two weeks after the divorce was final, my Mom told me she had been seeing an old family "friend" from where we used to live, she loved him and they were getting married. Four months later, she moved to Wa. state and they got married.
Her new husband was a good friend of ours when I was young and he got divorced several years ago. He is well off, as much as my Dad, and by all means financially secure.
My Mom didnt need any money at all. She could have lived with him like she lived with my Dad. Instead, she exploited my Dad's love and trust to get as much money as possible. And my Dad feels like a sucker for believing her.
I just learned about the financial seperation tonight. I knew she had been lying to my Dad and I, but I didnt know she was that evil.
I dont know how to feel or what to do. I dont know if I even want her as a part of my life at all anymore. She never be a signifigant part of my life. Part of me wants to buy a plane ticket, fly across the country and bash the shit out of everything her piece of shit husband owns.
I'll get that half mil of my Pops money back from that decietful bitch one way or another. That is something you do not do to people.
Honesltly I think its one of me evilist things I heard of, excluding murder, rape, etc.
I am still in shock to know my Mother is like that.
