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Plan B?

No need for a plan B...I don't need someone else in my life to make me feel good about myself. If things work out, groovy. If not, then as the old saying goes, "don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out."
 
habitualhealth said:
Curious to know...how many people have a back up plan in life? Meaning, if things don't work out with the guy/girl you're dating, engaged to, even married to....you have someone else lined up.

In addition, have you ever realized that's what you are?
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No plan B. Not at all. I know the guy I'm with is the one for me.

I think if you are thinking about a plan B, then Plan A isn't the one for you.
 
habitualhealth said:
Curious to know...how many people have a back up plan in life? Meaning, if things don't work out with the guy/girl you're dating, engaged to, even married to....you have someone else lined up.

In addition, have you ever realized that's what you are?
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Never had a "back-up" I give 100% to the person I'm with, otherwise you'll never really know. I've never been a "back-up" because I refuse to be someone's second choice! The ex-girlfriend I just broke up with just realized "her baby daddy" isn't serious about being a father and only interested in her...for like the 42nd time. Javaguru had to say sorry about your luck, sometimes we make the wrong decisions and life and we have to live with our choices.
 
ceasar989 said:
I have no plan B, I dont plan to fail.
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I concur w/ ceasarsalad.

There is no "Plan B"......

Go all out for Plan A, all effort, all motivation, all energy.......bust your ass DoubleH...until you are habitually tired....

PLAY to WIN!




DIV
 
HH, i think you need a plan C ...

as in plan Coverguy!!!


jk


no plan B here, i'll deal with that hand when it's dealt to me.
 
Women are always looking for a plan B, or to move up the food chain.

This is the main reason I quit going out/dating a few yrs ago. Every girl I meet has a boyfriend, but says she doesn't, says he is an "asshole", says they just broke up, etc. They have someone, but are testing me out to see if I am an upgrade. If I'm not they can simply go back to their bf.

You see...Women are like monkeys. They swing from branch to branch.(man to man) But, most women will hold on to the current branch while they swing to the new one. If the new branch isn't good enough (money, looks, etc), then they swing back to the original.

I would love to meet a girl that didn't need to be in a relationship, or me. But, wanted to be with me.
 
pats28 said:
Is it fair to have a Plan B when you are with Plan A?
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No I definitely don't think so. How many people really play fair these days? I think MANY people...more than will admit, explore other options in life because they know they'll always have something to fall back on. "So if what I explore doesn't work...i can come back to what I know" mentality. In other instances....you ever see someone cross one eye and then look away with the other...many people in newbie relationships often time do this. They've got their eye on the person in front of them but all the while keeping tabs on what's going on around them.

I definitely do not condone a backup plan. I can not feel comfortable morally plus I'm a perfectionist with everything in life. If I did something like this...it didn't work out....looking in retrospect, i'd beat myself to death because I half assed it. No way.
 
awittyusername said:
Women are always looking for a plan B, or to move up the food chain.

This is the main reason I quit going out/dating a few yrs ago. Every girl I meet has a boyfriend, but says she doesn't, says he is an "asshole", says they just broke up, etc. They have someone, but are testing me out to see if I am an upgrade. If I'm not they can simply go back to their bf.

You see...Women are like monkeys. They swing from branch to branch.(man to man) But, most women will hold on to the current branch while they swing to the new one. If the new branch isn't good enough (money, looks, etc), then they swing back to the original.

I would love to meet a girl that didn't need to be in a relationship, or me. But, wanted to be with me.
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Oh my. When you date girls, yes. Find yourself a Woman, and I'm sure your attitude will change.
 
awittyusername said:
Women are always looking for a plan B, or to move up the food chain.

This is the main reason I quit going out/dating a few yrs ago. Every girl I meet has a boyfriend, but says she doesn't, says he is an "asshole", says they just broke up, etc. They have someone, but are testing me out to see if I am an upgrade. If I'm not they can simply go back to their bf.

You see...Women are like monkeys. They swing from branch to branch.(man to man) But, most women will hold on to the current branch while they swing to the new one. If the new branch isn't good enough (money, looks, etc), then they swing back to the original.

I would love to meet a girl that didn't need to be in a relationship, or me. But, wanted to be with me.
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Not all women are that basic, bro.

Sounds like you've had some bad experiences.

You just need to read women a bit better and flip the script.

I don't go out and "look" for women, things just happen.....that's how you should play it. A woman's natural instinct is to look for security and that's usually with a man, they want to latch on, it's a female need. Just make better choices and you'll be fine.



DIV
 
If Plan A fails i'm taking a break and getting to know myself better. Not go on some spiritual or emotional crusade, but try and reaffirm my personality and solidify my goals and wants out of life. After I'm more comfortable i'll pick up a plan b, but only after a break
 
nycgirl said:
Oh my. When you date girls, yes. Find yourself a Woman, and I'm sure your attitude will change.
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lol. I am exaggerating, but...

You are exactly right!!! The few times I dated recently have been with women over 40. They have been through the marriage, kids, etc. No games. They didn't need me...They just wanted to spend time with me. :)
 
nycgirl said:
Oh my. When you date girls, yes. Find yourself a Woman, and I'm sure your attitude will change.
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and let me guess.......you see yourself as woman instead of a girl, right? :rolleyes:

Predictable........

Women in their 20's are just as bad as teenagers in some respects.



DIV
 
awittyusername said:
lol. I am exaggerating, but...

You are exactly right!!! The few times I dated recently have been with women over 40. They have been through the marriage, kids, etc. No games. They didn't need me...They just wanted to spend time with me. :)
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Exactly, my point. ;)

I admit I was one of those girl in college and my early twenties. But as you mature (I'll be 27 this summer), you realize there is more to a person than material things. What I love about the man in my life, is that he considers me to be his partner. We are both growing and struggling to achieve our goals together. He appreciates the little things about me and enjoys just spending time with me.
 
awittyusername said:
The few times I dated recently have been with women over 40. They have been through the marriage, kids, etc. No games. They didn't need me...They just wanted to spend time with me. :)
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There you go........you had this answered already, man.

I wouldn't go with over 40, though.........

You can't find a woman in her 30's?


DIV
 
coverguy said:
HH, i think you need a plan C ...
as in plan Coverguy!!!
jk
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haha...PM me your #. heh

DIVISION said:
There is no "Plan B"......
Go all out for Plan A, all effort, all motivation, all energy.......bust your ass DoubleH...until you are habitually tired....
PLAY to WIN!
DIV
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It was just a random question. I definitely think I've been the backup plan before. No doubt in my mind. A very weak minded time in my life...someone I loved verrrryy much kind of used that knowledge to their advantage and explored someone else all the while keeping me at arms reach and knowing a few words of affirmation could and would win me back. It was a vicious cycle for a while.

But, no worries guys...remember, I'm single. :qt:
 
DIVISION said:
and let me guess.......you see yourself as woman instead of a girl, right? :rolleyes:

Predictable........

Women in their 20's are just as bad as teenagers in some respects.



DIV
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Sweetheart, you don't know anything about me. I'm sure you consider yourself a tough guy/gangster since you read the latest Source magazine watched the latest 50 cent video.
 
nycgirl said:
Sweetheart, you don't know anything about me. I'm sure you consider yourself a tough guy/gangster since you read the latest Source magazine watched the latest 50 cent video.
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:lmao:
 
Tie him up and lock him in the basement... :evil:
 
nycgirl said:
Sweetheart, you don't know anything about me. I'm sure you consider yourself a tough guy/gangster since you read the latest Source magazine watched the latest 50 cent video.
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I don't read the Source, it's too mainstream.

You haven't been listening, as I've stated several times that I don't listen to rap from the Eastcoast. You kids can keep your Ja Rule ballads and Eminem conciertos...

What I consider myself has no bearing here, just commenting that it's interesting how you differentiate between "girls" and "women", yet I've found that women in their 20's are often just as bad.




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I don't read the Source, it's too mainstream.

You haven't been listening, as I've stated several times that I don't listen to rap from the Eastcoast. You kids can keep your Ja Rule ballads and Eminem conciertos...

What I consider myself has no bearing here, just commenting that it's interesting how you differentiate between "girls" and "women", yet I've found that women in their 20's are often just as bad.


DIV
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Age has nothing to do with being a "girl" or "Woman". Just like I've known a few boys that were in their 30's and 40's.
 
velvett said:
That's what to do with A when B or C drop in.


































I AM KIDDING PEOPLE, DAMN.
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:lmao:
 
habitualhealth said:
It was just a random question. I definitely think I've been the backup plan before. No doubt in my mind. A very weak minded time in my life...someone I loved verrrryy much kind of used that knowledge to their advantage and explored someone else all the while keeping me at arms reach and knowing a few words of affirmation could and would win me back. It was a vicious cycle for a while.

But, no worries guys...remember, I'm single. :qt:
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That explains alot........so your current behaviour is in some respects a backlash to the prior situation. You've made the realization that you'll be nobody's sidedish, and you're putting yourself first. "emotional baggage" "thick skin"......etc.

Finally.




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
You haven't been listening, as I've stated several times that I don't listen to rap from the Eastcoast. You kids can keep your Ja Rule ballads and Eminem conciertos...
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lol
thats the lamest, most pathetic piece of bullshit i've seen all day.
can y'all say "wannabe"?
 
redcrimeboy said:
lol
thats the lamest, most pathetic piece of bullshit i've seen all day.
can y'all say "wannabe"?
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I don't like eastcoast rap.......what's "wannabe" about that?

Everyone's got their preferences, redcrimeboy....



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I don't like eastcoast rap.......what's "wannabe" about that?

Everyone's got their preferences, redcrimeboy....



DIV
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lol@ east coast rap.
i'm gonna make a guess here... you listen to rap music and claim some sense of authority on the subject, have a black man in your avatar and talk all ghetto...
you're not black though, are you?
 
redcrimeboy said:
lol@ east coast rap.
i'm gonna make a guess here... you listen to rap music and claim some sense of authority on the subject, have a black man in your avatar and talk all ghetto...
you're not black though, are you?
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You're way off base, Crimeboy....

That's Ceasar from GTA- San Andreas in the avatar. He's Hispanic, I'm Hispanic. You're an idiot for making assumptions.

I claim alot of authority on the subject seeing as how it's one of the genres of music I listen to and have for years.

No, I'm no black, never claimed to be.

But I'm guessing you're white, right? :lmao:




DIV
 
DIVISION said:
That explains alot........so your current behaviour is in some respects a backlash to the prior situation. You've made the realization that you'll be nobody's sidedish, and you're putting yourself first. "emotional baggage" "thick skin"......etc.

Finally.
DIV
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There was a word that came up earlier today that just popped into mind....gees, what....was.....it....hmmm...oh yes, "fucktard". Wow, crazy how these words just come out at random? Like I have tourettes or something. :worried:

Div, I appreciate your effortless attempts at trying to figure me out...it's cute really but I tell u what, I'll PM you my number and you can call and pick the hell out of my brain. Until then, put it on the backburner.

Current "behavior" is not classified by one bad relationship nor one specific time in my life. Do me a favor and try not to assume because you know one minor detail of my life that the heaven's have opened and you now see the angelic light. You want to know what I'm all about...ask. Until then...bag your assumptions for me.
 
Hell with this plan B stuff. Why do sooooo many people feel the need to be in a relationship just to be in one? If plan A doesn't work out, go to plan C--- have lots of meaningless but satisfying sex...
 
redcrimeboy said:
lol@ east coast rap.
i'm gonna make a guess here... you listen to rap music and claim some sense of authority on the subject, have a black man in your avatar and talk all ghetto...
you're not black though, are you?
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show us ur penis :qt:
 
habitualhealth said:
There was a word that came up earlier today that just popped into mind....gees, what....was.....it....hmmm...oh yes, "fucktard". Wow, crazy how these words just come out at random? Like I have tourettes or something. :worried:

Div, I appreciate your effortless attempts at trying to figure me out...it's cute really but I tell u what, I'll PM you my number and you can call and pick the hell out of my brain. Until then, put it on the backburner.

Current "behavior" is not classified by one bad relationship nor one specific time in my life. Do me a favor and try not to assume because you know one minor detail of my life that the heaven's have opened and you now see the angelic light. You want to know what I'm all about...ask. Until then...bag your assumptions for me.
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I don't claim to know everything because of that last post, but the "emotional baggage" has to be a part of it, there's no way it can't be. Things add up, and that situation has affected how you behave in relationships to this day. It seems like you're giving things up piece by piece.....

I can just not respond to your posts if that's what you'd prefer.



DIV
 
DIVISION said:
I don't claim to know everything because of that last post, but the "emotional baggage" has to be a part of it, there's no way it can't be. Things add up, and that situation has affected how you behave in relationships to this day. It seems like you're giving things up piece by piece.....
I can just not respond to your posts if that's what you'd prefer.
DIV
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Everything in life has an effect on who we are today.

I have no qualms with you responding to my posts...none at all. Just know I'm bound to respond back. ;)
 
artrius said:
no you're not and you know it. :chomp:
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Velvett isn't that bad, she's got "decent" intentions.........but underneath the peaces 'n' cream is a bad bitch waiting for the opportunity to pounce.



DIV
 
Personally i think its pretty low to have a plan 'B" while working on plan"A"

If it works .......great
If not,-it wasn't meant to be.

RADAR
 
DIVISION said:
Velvett isn't that bad, she's got "decent" intentions.........but underneath the peaces 'n' cream is a bad bitch waiting for the opportunity to pounce.



DIV
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I was just talking about my pale limbs earlier...


yep...waiting...





























still waiting...
























waiting...
 
RADAR said:
Personally i think its pretty low to have a plan 'B" while working on plan"A"

If it works .......great
If not,it-it wasn't meant to be.
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Actually RADAR, you didn't have a "plan", your thang just kinda came together....

Lucky!!! ;)



DIV
 
velvett said:
I was just talking about my pale limbs earlier...

yep...waiting...

still waiting...

waiting...
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It's not the limbs, Velvett.....

It's the flesh itself.

My one weakness.




DIV
 
habitualhealth said:
.....um, what are we talking about?? :worried:
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I actually haven't the slightest.... she just said wanna practice and I was like "sweet..." so I just went with it. women would never do anything mean, so I just figured..... :rolleyes:

just enjoying the fine brew here, that's all. :coffee:
 
DIVISION said:
Jesus...... :rolleyes:

You don't know women, do you? :xeye:




DIV
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What does that mean? They're all just :rose: and :heart: , right?




right....?


better get back to the brew, sounds like this day is about to get a bit longer.... :coffee:
 
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