Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below 
tuc biscuit
New member
what is it usually and why?
peoples first impression of you
- Thread starter tuc biscuit
- Start date
PIGEON-RAT
New member
people usually ask me for drugs
Lift Chief
New member
velvett said:
Makes sense.
strider364
New member
Usually, intimidating.
boscoe wilson
New member
That I'm either an airhead or stuck up.
Moderate_THIS
New member
How accurate are these first impressions?
How I decide to portray myself depends on the person I'm acquainting with. But I try not to be too machavellian and stab peeps in the back unless I sense it coming first.
How I decide to portray myself depends on the person I'm acquainting with. But I try not to be too machavellian and stab peeps in the back unless I sense it coming first.
hamstershaver
New member
velvett said:
usually ill get into a girls panties then run away after im finished
I can be rather quiet sometimes and I've been told I come across as rather confident, so I think people might think I am somewhat arrogant or stuck up on occasion.
however, sometimes I can be kind of blunt, and some people don't like that either.
I seem to be able to get along with most.....unless I just don't like them.
however, sometimes I can be kind of blunt, and some people don't like that either.
I seem to be able to get along with most.....unless I just don't like them.
MsBeverlyHills
New member
tuc biscuit said:
that Im stuck up & snotty... becuase Im better than most people
j/k.
plornive
New member
I have found that I can present myself as very outgoing and gregarious. This allows me to give people the impression that I am not at all shy, and perhaps a socialite and an asshole. Usually I just stop seeing those people or do a complete shift soon after. It's not usually worth it.
I fall into the big and harmless category. Kids want to jump on me and usually do, much to my kids bewilderment. Most little kids and ALL animals are comfortable with me from moment one.
Adults seem to like me, but I know so few true adults, some really skinny, short, pasty, green fleshed types are a bit standoffish towards me, buts thats their thing, not mine. I like everybody and everybody gets a fair first chance... unless I already know your a republican, then I just pretend to be one too to see how deep your misdirection goes.
Adults seem to like me, but I know so few true adults, some really skinny, short, pasty, green fleshed types are a bit standoffish towards me, buts thats their thing, not mine. I like everybody and everybody gets a fair first chance... unless I already know your a republican, then I just pretend to be one too to see how deep your misdirection goes.
lamamacita
New member
That I am talkative and that I like to laugh/tell funny stories.
I dont really know what people's first impression is of me but of course I hope its favorable. I'm usually very friendly and personable.
The only "impression" I cant think of if you want to call it that is the assumption by more than a few women that I'm either lesbo or bi which I dont get. I dont know if its body language or eye contact but its become a pattern.
The only "impression" I cant think of if you want to call it that is the assumption by more than a few women that I'm either lesbo or bi which I dont get. I dont know if its body language or eye contact but its become a pattern.
onerepmaximum
New member
Good question. Probably that I smell like tuna fish and eggs.
coldblue1955
New member
a nerdy guy because i wear glasses.tuc biscuit said:
Werd
New member
ChefWide said:I fall into the big and harmless category. Kids want to jump on me and usually do, much to my kids bewilderment. Most little kids and ALL animals are comfortable with me from moment one.
Adults seem to like me, but I know so few true adults, some really skinny, short, pasty, green fleshed types are a bit standoffish towards me, buts thats their thing, not mine. I like everybody and everybody gets a fair first chance...
Same with me - except I am small and harmless
.Children and animals all gravitate towards me.
WERD about the "too few true adult" thing. This is why I prefer the company of kids. Odd, when I was very young, I was in a tremendous hurry to grow up. But as I did just that, I realized how shitty and false adults were. So now all I care about are kids... from toddlers to adolescents.
The rest can kiss my ass.
People are usually intimidated at first admittidly because of my shaved head, size and goatee.
But after talkin to me they quickly realize that I am not how I look and they warm up very fast.
Kids are different, they see past the mean look and size and I have always been able to connect with them on their level.
But after talkin to me they quickly realize that I am not how I look and they warm up very fast.
Kids are different, they see past the mean look and size and I have always been able to connect with them on their level.
T
The Shadow
Guest
tuc biscuit said:
I come across as an arrogant ass.
and I am fine with that....those who know me, know me....its a good weeding out process.
Werd
New member
Re: Re: peoples first impression of you
Perhaps this has been my problem. Everybody wants to be my friend! It wierds me out a bit because even though I come across as being open, I am not. I keep what is most precious to me private: these are my weaknesses and my fears.
I am so often let down by those that I choose to let in. Whenever I finally trust someone enough to ask for thier help or expose one of my weaknesses, they all turn their backs on me or use my weakness to try and hurt me.
This is why I have become completely withdrawn from people. I am extremely social, but at the end of the day I go home alone.
Maybe I need to be more of an asshole up front, eh?
The Shadow said:
Perhaps this has been my problem. Everybody wants to be my friend! It wierds me out a bit because even though I come across as being open, I am not. I keep what is most precious to me private: these are my weaknesses and my fears.
I am so often let down by those that I choose to let in. Whenever I finally trust someone enough to ask for thier help or expose one of my weaknesses, they all turn their backs on me or use my weakness to try and hurt me.
This is why I have become completely withdrawn from people. I am extremely social, but at the end of the day I go home alone.
Maybe I need to be more of an asshole up front, eh?
FreeballinDC
Dumper Humper
I got berated in group therapy because everybody thought I was stand-offish and too quiet.
I didn't know it was a fucking rule that I had to say "hello" to everyone that walked in the door, damn!
But I do get the "damn, he looks mean/mad" shit all the time. If they'd take a minute to find out, they'd know I'm a big teddy bear.
I didn't know it was a fucking rule that I had to say "hello" to everyone that walked in the door, damn!
But I do get the "damn, he looks mean/mad" shit all the time. If they'd take a minute to find out, they'd know I'm a big teddy bear.
GoldenDelicious
New member
a lot of people think i am standoffish but really im just quiet when i meet people.
people tend to relax quickly around me as soon as they see i dont really give a toss what people do and im likely on the lookout for something good to eat or an escape so i can go home and snooze
sometimes i think my easy goingness is a mistake, becaues people will see what their eyes tell them (instead of their brains) and i am often seen as less intelligent and capable than i really am. then i score highest in the class/school or whatever and people think "fuck how did that happen"
people are stupid
people tend to relax quickly around me as soon as they see i dont really give a toss what people do and im likely on the lookout for something good to eat or an escape so i can go home and snooze
sometimes i think my easy goingness is a mistake, becaues people will see what their eyes tell them (instead of their brains) and i am often seen as less intelligent and capable than i really am. then i score highest in the class/school or whatever and people think "fuck how did that happen"
people are stupid
FreeballinDC
Dumper Humper
jerkbox said:
actually, it is. And they wonder why I am still single.
GoldenDelicious
New member
Pamela said:
lol i read "im pretty open with most people i meet in prison" and thought WTF!?!
OMGWTFBBQ
brobe
People think I'm younger than I am, even though I have grey hairs. People also think I am prep-school/fart-boy even though I'm very far from that. Likely due to the way I dress maybe.
Other than that, I think I'm generally considered either "weird" or "an asshole".
Once they get to know me, people generally agree that I'm really awful in bed.
Other than that, I think I'm generally considered either "weird" or "an asshole".
Once they get to know me, people generally agree that I'm really awful in bed.
i get
"you looked like an arrogant jerk"
and
"pretty boy"
and
"just cause you got a lil muscle don't think I won't kick your ass." (from they extreamly drunk fat kid at the bar whose gf started talking to me)
whats funny is when people get to know me, I'm supper laid back and a lil shy
"you looked like an arrogant jerk"
and
"pretty boy"
and
"just cause you got a lil muscle don't think I won't kick your ass." (from they extreamly drunk fat kid at the bar whose gf started talking to me)
whats funny is when people get to know me, I'm supper laid back and a lil shy
plornive
New member
Some people think I am cold at first, while others think I am very sensitive even from the beginning of conversation. It may be a subconscious variation in behavior with respect to the audience... perhaps I avoid people that I see as threatening. I am usually attracted to very manipulative people, however. It doesn't work so smoothly I guess.
supersizeme
New member
"I thought you said he worked out?"
S
Spartacus
Guest
<guest post:
on our first date, i got out of the car and he met me and i thought he was going to be WAY too rough and touch with me to deal with. i also thought that he would have no respecet for the feeling for others and i was pretty much right about that one LOL! i have just grwon to ceome close friends and theh lovers with him, and our stange situations seem to work for one another. He had made me feel liek noone else.
on our first date, i got out of the car and he met me and i thought he was going to be WAY too rough and touch with me to deal with. i also thought that he would have no respecet for the feeling for others and i was pretty much right about that one LOL! i have just grwon to ceome close friends and theh lovers with him, and our stange situations seem to work for one another. He had made me feel liek noone else.
U
Ulcasterdropout
Guest
Cold...
I've been called that (well, heard I was called that) a few times....
I've been called that (well, heard I was called that) a few times....
S
Spartacus
Guest
I caught a bomb for this
thought it had some good responses
and there's a common "theme"
thought it had some good responses
and there's a common "theme"
U
Ulcasterdropout
Guest
That's such a cute avatarYasmina said:
M
*MissFit*
Guest
Are either amused or annoyed.
tuc biscuit
New member
I used to make reasonable posts rather than the shit I produce now it seems lol.
I never gave mine either; 95% of people are scared of me cos of my size, but the other 5% (often women) just seem to take to me and want to never leave my side.....weird.
I never gave mine either; 95% of people are scared of me cos of my size, but the other 5% (often women) just seem to take to me and want to never leave my side.....weird.
M
*MissFit*
Guest
People suk 
Raina said:Thanks Chef. I think you're tops.
You are as kind as you are delectable, and way too married...
Most folks think I am, among other things:
*"He is overbearing, but with heart" having an 'august presence' is one way i have been described... although thats a bit heavy handed to say the least...
*"Talks too damn much" yep. no doubt.
* "Flirts too damn much" but i only hear this from men... maybe...
... nahhhh....* "Crappy self image" like a broken record. Fine. shut it already.
* "Fatherly" only hear this from women or men that have kids... ok by me.
* "Magnetic" whatever the hell THAT means, i hear it all the time and no one ever explains it the same way twice...
* "Shy" explains most of the other cover i throw around to hide behind...
hmmm... thats from people i like, or like the idea of liking.... form my detractors? who cares?
Similar threads
