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i give my wife a good 40-60 minute massage 5-6 nights a week. i rub her feet while we're watching tv. 20 minutes per foot. just about every night along with her massage..mornings when the alarm goes off, i rub and massage her 20 minutes, just about every morning.
i send her text messages 2-3 times a day letting her know how hot she looked all dressed up heading off for work. ( she is very hot)once a week, i'll put a note in her briefcase telling her she looked and smelled so good. a small love note.
i email her once a day saying i love you..
been married 22 years. dating 6 before that.
i train very hard. always sore. i get no massages. MAYBE a 5 minute massage once every 3 weeks, but usually never ever anything. i never get a text, other than her saying thanks to the text i sent her. she never ever ever ever initiates sex.
what the hell do i do??
i want sex 24/7. her, hahahaha. 1 time a week is fine..
i think i would die if she initiated anything physical. she's been thru the change so thats not an issue. it was, but thankfully thats over. no stress on work..
just enjoys the notes, massages, texts and all else i do. i just want the same in return. i get zero. i mean zero.
we get along fine, but no physical action unless i start,it and then its excuses, like the kids are still up, i'll be there later, knowing i'll be sleeping, but she gives in 1 day a week.
sex is awsome, but 1 day a week..
i spent my whole life training, eating good, taking vitamins, so maybe it paid off and i have a great sex drive. trouble is , she has a terrible drive. now what.
i send her text messages 2-3 times a day letting her know how hot she looked all dressed up heading off for work. ( she is very hot)once a week, i'll put a note in her briefcase telling her she looked and smelled so good. a small love note.
i email her once a day saying i love you..
been married 22 years. dating 6 before that.
i train very hard. always sore. i get no massages. MAYBE a 5 minute massage once every 3 weeks, but usually never ever anything. i never get a text, other than her saying thanks to the text i sent her. she never ever ever ever initiates sex.
what the hell do i do??
i want sex 24/7. her, hahahaha. 1 time a week is fine..
i think i would die if she initiated anything physical. she's been thru the change so thats not an issue. it was, but thankfully thats over. no stress on work..
just enjoys the notes, massages, texts and all else i do. i just want the same in return. i get zero. i mean zero.
we get along fine, but no physical action unless i start,it and then its excuses, like the kids are still up, i'll be there later, knowing i'll be sleeping, but she gives in 1 day a week.
sex is awsome, but 1 day a week..
i spent my whole life training, eating good, taking vitamins, so maybe it paid off and i have a great sex drive. trouble is , she has a terrible drive. now what.
I was going to say dont get married but since that train left the station a couple decades ago: Stop treating her like the damn queen of england and maybe she will have some respect for you. married or not, women respect men who dont put them on a high pedestal. so cut out all the damn massages and lovey dovey shit. if she gives you any shit about that just tell her you arent getting it in return so its not worth it. Then stand your ground when she bitches and moans that you dont love her anymore. Dont give in, she will learn.
i have a number of times. its always her saying, all i worry abut is that (pointing to my co**)
hell, it be awsome to hear her say its your turn for an hour massage, or getting a hot text meaasge first, not just a thanks from the hot text i just sent her. i love her to death, but the physical part is 100% bad.. i treat her like a queen. your supose too. its your wife. i just get zero in return. very depressing..
hell, it be awsome to hear her say its your turn for an hour massage, or getting a hot text meaasge first, not just a thanks from the hot text i just sent her. i love her to death, but the physical part is 100% bad.. i treat her like a queen. your supose too. its your wife. i just get zero in return. very depressing..
Does she have other ways of showing that she appreciates you?
She's cheating on you!
From my experiences the worse you treat a woman the better she treats you. They're fucked up in the head like that.
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