Oak desperatly needs advice before i do something dumb

[theoak01]

here is the big problem,my girls dad smacks her around and i cant handle this at all,the latest incident was tonight after she dropped me off and went home from the gym and i gave her protein powder to have,well her mom got into a big arguement about how i know shit about nutrition(now this coming from a 200lb 5'2 women) and then she kept questioning and insulting me,and my girl stood up for me and her mom started yelling and her dad smacking her in the head a few times,now right now i could kill the man,and i havent ever liked her parents since we have been going out,i really need sound advice before im in the pokey over this coward who calls himself a man

any advice which is serious is greatly appreciated

 

[starfish]

WTF!!! I would have smacked him back... Your own dad doing that to you.. That is awful.

 

[theoak01]

i know but she is terrified of the man and i feel helpless,although at this moment im planning something ,im just looking for a educated decision on the subject so i dont end up in cuffs

 

[starfish]

How old is she?? Can she move out? That is just awful.

I would find her a new place to live. NO one deserves that abuse. Been there done that, don't want the t-shirt.

My advice is she has to leave..

 

[theoak01]

for the most part she is staying because they are going to pay for university,she turns 18 in june,and the rest of her family which she loves would disown her

 

[starfish]

Well, try and support her emotionally until she goes to school.. If I were her, I would go to school Fall, Spring and Summer sessions until I graduated. That way she could stay at school

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Don't piss in other people's lawns.

You'd be best advised to stay out of this, unless you are willing to do time or die, depending on the man's mental state.

 

[theoak01]

she still has a year of high school left after this,and i have been supporting but its killing me and ill do something ill regret i know it,and ill be gone all summer at soldiers qualifacation course which isnt going to be good and in feb im going reg forces,i dunno what ill do

 

[theoak01]

Don't piss in other people's lawns.

You'd be best advised to stay out of this, unless you are willing to do time or die, depending on the man's mental state.

time i can do,i will not die because he is not nuts he is just a pussy who cant hit a man

 

[Puc]

it sounds like her family is a springer episode in the works.

if i were you i would confront him on syndicated tv.

the episode would be:

"My girls pa smacks her, and i want to smack him, but there isn't room in my doublewide for her neither."

just fuckin with ya