Need some serious advice....

[BassMaster]

I'm confused, I'm getting mixed signals......those 2 am crying phone calls about something that is bothering her.... then the next day she trying to hook me up with her goodfriend that is "Just like me" (so she says)....then out of the blue she will say "I only climax if I'm on top" I don't know

Alright, I just turned 21...this girl is almost 18.

Anyhow, she has a boyfriend that lives about 500 miles away and she talks about him all the time blah blah. Guys a fuckin pill poppin loser, can't complete a thought and talks like cheech. Only seen him twice, but damn he was fucked up out of his mind both times. He only comes down to see her every 2 or 3 months and she goes to see him every 2 or 3-

I have been spending a lot of time with her over the past 6 months and I know I'm NOT in the "just friend" zone. When she gets around our group of friends she says things like "I can't wait till he gets back!" (talking about me when I'm gone) then has to clarify by saying "I've had the same boyfriend for 5 years" Everyone in the group says she talks about me non stopped and shit, but I dunno-

Just the other night I went to her house and she was on the phone with her boyfriend and told him she had to go and that I was there. She got in a little arguement in the other room and I heard what she said "No we are just friends, I have never cheated on you" blah blah

When she came back she was saying weird stuff like "You know hes jealous of you, but we are just friends......I told him we don't have that kind of relationship" Like all secretive or something?


My whole question is, should I just say FUCK IT with this chick? Shes amazingly hot and down to earth but DAMN I don't know how much more of this shit I can take.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Dude; put her on 20 nails and fuck her brains out!!!

 

[bigbox]

Sounds like shes using you to play a mind game with this guy!!! Have you nailed her yet?? Look... you're 20 or 21 and have a LOT to learn about girls, especially young ones!!! She will string you along forever if you give her a chance!!!

 

[Stryker1992]

Nothing in your report suggests to me that she is "down to earth"

I was thinking more along the lines of Borderline Personality Disorder

 

[KD1]

What a waste of time, either fuck her or leave her alone.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Seems to me like you need to move on.Find some one new, she obviously is not worth your time! Tell her to go screw. You are just her little play toy on a string.She pulls you in when she wants some thing from you yet she tosses you aside when she does not find need for you. Tell her to take a hike, or continue sitting around getting used and burned. Your choice

 

[monti3333]

yo girls with bfs are the best, hit it if you havnt allready...make it good but not that good that she falls in love.. you fuck her and let her bf deal with all the nonsense that comes with havn a girl. get yours my dude!

 

[Bigroof]

21 and almost 18 is against the law where im from..

leave her alone

 

[PBR]

damn ....you know why this is all happening?...Dude she is fucking 17 years old.
do yourself and her a big favor...let her grow up.

 

[txbondsman]

Nothing in your report suggests to me that she is "down to earth"

I was thinking more along the lines of Borderline Personality Disorder

what he means is, "send her on over, I fuck mental cases ALL the time!" lol
btw, especially the really sad cases that have multiple personalities, that way he can change girls withut missing s stroke!

 

[Stryker1992]

what he means is, "send her on over, I fuck mental cases ALL the time!" lol
btw, especially the really sad cases that have multiple personalities, that way he can change girls withut missing s stroke!

Hell ya, I will fuck her but in her place, not mine. She will never know my real name or where the fuck I live.

I work with mental cases for as living and yes, I have fucked plenty of them. The problem is the little head beats out the big one when snatch is involved. The worst trick God ever played on us! Fucking Adam and EveI If that whore sucked dick and left the apple alone there would be no issues!!!!

 

[SorcMTAC]

pics?

 

[CO B-man]

Nothing in your report suggests to me that she is "down to earth"

I was thinking more along the lines of Borderline Personality Disorder

Agreed.

 

[megamania500]

Seems to me like you need to move on.Find some one new, she obviously is not worth your time! Tell her to go screw. You are just her little play toy on a string.She pulls you in when she wants some thing from you yet she tosses you aside when she does not find need for you. Tell her to take a hike, or continue sitting around getting used and burned. Your choice

Good call, here. Sounds like she's using you to boost her own ego. She knows you want her and it makes her feel good about herself that she has this control over you. If she REALLY wanted to go to bed with you, it would have happened by now.
And your making too much of it to begin with. Decide whether or not you want it to happen or not, then make your move either way. All this contemplating "whether or not I should" is typical "nice guy" thinking, and your not going to be getting any action thinking like that. Shit or get off the pot, dude! Quit wasting your time trying to figure out whether or not you should go for it and just do it, or not.
And I hate to break this to you, but you ARE in the "just friends" zone. As long as you keep thinking the way you do, you will be seen as "just friends". Like I said, get out of that "nice guy" thinking mode and take some action! Either go for her, or cast her aside and go after someone else. Don't waste too much time on one woman.
How do I know that your in the "just friends" zone? Because she sees you as a "nice guy" type, which it seems to me that you are. And typically women tend to see the "nice guy" type as "just friends". How do I know that she sees you as the "nice guy" type? That one is easy. She obviously knows you find her attractive, but women know that if someone who finds them attractive doesn't make a move right away they will categorize you as a "nice guy" because you don't have the guts/confidence to simply just make a move on her. Instead, you tend to hang around hoping some magic moment will happen between you two and it will all just fall into place.

So grow a sack and make a decision whether or not and then do it. Contemplating the ifs and wondering whether or not you should is just going to leave you frustrated and wasting time that you could be out hittin' it, with her or someone else.

 

[trez]

She wants you. And she wants him.

Either deal with that and do something about it (ie make a MOVE), or move on.

As per above, don't waste time when there are soooo many women out there who are just waiting to be talked to. It's that simple.

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