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Okay folks, awhile back I messaged an attractive female friend who goes to my school, over facebook, and asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime this summer and her reply was this:

"sounds great, steve! give me a call sometime if you have an open weekend or something. my number is 651-***-****. i'll put your's in my phone too. hope to see you soon!" -Keri

She sent me that like a little over a week ago (I've kinda been being a pussy, and I havent called her yet) She saw my number listed in my profile, and said she would add that, so she had opportunity to call me too, but hasnt.

Okay, but I plan on calling her, and maybe tonight, if I can come up with an idea of something to do while we are hanging out.

I'm deathly afraid that I wont be able to find an idea to entertain us both, and that because of that we both will have a boring experience and she wont want to see me again, so what are some good date ideas? or hanging out ideas? (if you're hanging out with a female one on one)

Its funny, when I'm with my friends, we dont even come up with a plan, we just meet up at each others house, and either think of things to do when we are there, or just have fun by doing nothing :)
Unfortuantely, I have a feeling that doing this with this girl wouldnt impress her.

To be honest, what I really want from this girl right now, is to just be able to sit on the couch with her, cuddle with her. and make out with her. Unfortunately I know that this process usually takes awhile to get through, and you have to pass a lot of tests and hurdles first, before you can get to this point.

So any ideas? I have a number this time at least. Thats better than having nothing, while asking these questions. :)
 
evansteve said:
Okay folks, awhile back I messaged an attractive female friend who goes to my school, over facebook, and asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime this summer and her reply was this:

"sounds great, steve! give me a call sometime if you have an open weekend or something. my number is 651-***-****. i'll put your's in my phone too. hope to see you soon!" -Keri

She sent me that like a little over a week ago (I've kinda been being a pussy, and I havent called her yet) She saw my number listed in my profile, and said she would add that, so she had opportunity to call me too, but hasnt.

Okay, but I plan on calling her, and maybe tonight, if I can come up with an idea of something to do while we are hanging out.

I'm deathly afraid that I wont be able to find an idea to entertain us both, and that because of that we both will have a boring experience and she wont want to see me again, so what are some good date ideas? or hanging out ideas? (if you're hanging out with a female one on one)

Its funny, when I'm with my friends, we dont even come up with a plan, we just meet up at each others house, and either think of things to do when we are there, or just have fun by doing nothing :)
Unfortuantely, I have a feeling that doing this with this girl wouldnt impress her.

To be honest, what I really want from this girl right now, is to just be able to sit on the couch with her, cuddle with her. and make out with her. Unfortunately I know that this process usually takes awhile to get through, and you have to pass a lot of tests and hurdles first, before you can get to this point.

So any ideas? I have a number this time at least. Thats better than having nothing, while asking these questions. :)
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lol
 
evansteve said:
Okay folks, awhile back I messaged an attractive female friend who goes to my school, over facebook, and asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime this summer and her reply was this:

"sounds great, steve! give me a call sometime if you have an open weekend or something. my number is 651-***-****. i'll put your's in my phone too. hope to see you soon!" -Keri

She sent me that like a little over a week ago (I've kinda been being a pussy, and I havent called her yet) She saw my number listed in my profile, and said she would add that, so she had opportunity to call me too, but hasnt.

Okay, but I plan on calling her, and maybe tonight, if I can come up with an idea of something to do while we are hanging out.

I'm deathly afraid that I wont be able to find an idea to entertain us both, and that because of that we both will have a boring experience and she wont want to see me again, so what are some good date ideas? or hanging out ideas? (if you're hanging out with a female one on one)

Its funny, when I'm with my friends, we dont even come up with a plan, we just meet up at each others house, and either think of things to do when we are there, or just have fun by doing nothing :)
Unfortuantely, I have a feeling that doing this with this girl wouldnt impress her.

To be honest, what I really want from this girl right now, is to just be able to sit on the couch with her, cuddle with her. and make out with her. Unfortunately I know that this process usually takes awhile to get through, and you have to pass a lot of tests and hurdles first, before you can get to this point.

So any ideas? I have a number this time at least. Thats better than having nothing, while asking these questions. :)
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cuddle lol.
stop trying to be a cuddler. super gay
 
Gambino said:
cuddle lol.
stop trying to be a cuddler. super gay
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your telling me you dont want to grab her ass while sitting next to her on the couch?
pfft
you guys have lost all affection in your souls.
 
evansteve said:
To be honest, what I really want from this girl right now, is to just be able to sit on the couch with her, cuddle with her. and make out with her.
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Who are you, aap? :rainbow:
 
I love shooting pool. Order some drinks (soda is fine) and some appetizers. But not all girls are into this.

How about asking her what she would like to do?
 
FlaccidGuy,

I told you a while ago how you should handle these events.

Roofies.

Good luck and remember to clean up your DNA afterwards.
 
evansteve said:
your telling me you dont want to grab her ass while sitting next to her on the couch?
pfft
you guys have lost all affection in your souls.
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If you got to cuddle, keep it yourself. that's not something you share with your bors.

simple date plan. pick her up, go to a casual dinner, then got to the movies or maybe take a walk, it's that easy...
 
nycgirl said:
How about asking her what she would like to do?
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good idea. usually when i ask my friends this though, I get a reponse like "i dunno, whatever"

so if i get that kind of response from her, then i need a backup plan.

skittles said:
Take her to the movies...that way you don't have to talk much
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lol. but if i dont talk to her, then what are the odds that she will start to like me, and be into me?
 
BileStew said:
FlaccidGuy,

I told you a while ago how you should handle these events.

Roofies.

Good luck and remember to clean up your DNA afterwards.
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hmm, i have countless threads under multiple nick names. could you maybe give a quick summary of what you may have said back then?

Gambino said:
If you got to cuddle, keep it yourself. that's not something you share with your bors.
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alright fair enough, ill try to sound manlier from now on, if u guys dont want to hear about my sissy side. (Dont females like a guy who is into that stuff though, since thats what most females are into?)

simple date plan. pick her up, go to a casual dinner, then got to the movies or maybe take a walk, it's that easy...
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alright, thanks for the advice dude, ill give your idea or one of the other ones a try.
 
evansteve said:
good idea. usually when i ask my friends this though, I get a reponse like "i dunno, whatever"

so if i get that kind of response from her, then i need a backup plan.
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I like my "playing some pool" idea.

What about a restaurant (like Dave & Busters) that has games but after a certain time only adults can come in?
 
nycgirl said:
I like my "playing some pool" idea.

What about a restaurant (like Dave & Busters) that has games but after a certain time only adults can come in?
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hmm the first thing that came to mind when u said restaurants and games is Chucky Cheese. :)

I'm not sure what kinds of restaurants are around here, like the ones that you are talking about. Maybe I'll see if there is a Dave and Busters near here. what kinda games do you play?
 
evansteve said:
hmm the first thing that came to mind when u said restaurants and games is Chucky Cheese. :)

I'm not sure what kinds of restaurants are around here, like the ones that you are talking about. Maybe I'll see if there is a Dave and Busters near here. what kinda games do you play?
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dude, start spitting game at nyc girl she obviously wants it
 
nycgirl said:
I like my "playing some pool" idea.

What about a restaurant (like Dave & Busters) that has games but after a certain time only adults can come in?
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I like my "go Fishing" idea, get her on a boat in the middle of the lake and she cant escape him, no other place can avoid that inevitably with evansteve.
 
evansteve said:
hmm the first thing that came to mind when u said restaurants and games is Chucky Cheese. :)

I'm not sure what kinds of restaurants are around here, like the ones that you are talking about. Maybe I'll see if there is a Dave and Busters near here. what kinda games do you play?
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I'm sorry. I guess I should have asked for your location. Where are you located? They have arcade games. I love the games where you sit on motorcycles and race the other person. I think it is a great place to break the ice. After 8 or 9, you have to be 21 or over to enter (i.e, you don't have to worry about little rugrats running around).

Does she like sports? Take her to a sports bar and watch a game.
 
evansteve said:
hmm, i have countless threads under multiple nick names. could you maybe give a quick summary of what you may have said back then?.
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P60,

I can't even remember what I did 3 minutes ago. You expect me to remember what I said back then?

And as I'm typing this, The End by The Doors is playing in the background. I wonder if that's a sign?
 
okay, so today is memorial day, and i didnt have work, and it still feels like its part of the weekend, so u think its safe to call her, even though she said "give me a call one of these weekends" ?

I might see if she wants to do something tonight.
 
Ask her to help you out with your new job. Tell her that you have a job as a marketing consultant for a condom maker, and your job is to find out people's impression of the different styles. ;)



Or you could just take her to dinner and a movie.
 
evansteve said:
okay, so today is memorial day, and i didnt have work, and it still feels like its part of the weekend, so u think its safe to call her, even though she said "give me a call one of these weekends" ?

I might see if she wants to do something tonight.
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If it was me, no. She may be getting ready for work or class tomorrow. Call her in the middle of the week and ask if she is available for the weekend that's coming up.
 
evansteve said:
okay, so today is memorial day, and i didnt have work, and it still feels like its part of the weekend, so u think its safe to call her, even though she said "give me a call one of these weekends" ?

I might see if she wants to do something tonight.
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:smacksselfinforeheadreallyreallyhard:
 
she's not going to call you.. u asked her out and ure waiting for her to call you!?!? WTF .. any girl worth fucking will not chase you! go after that shit! :chomp:
 
hamstershaver said:
six pack of beer and the back seat of a car was always what i did at your age, its pretty much the perfect date
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must have been a LONG time ago hammy.. the girls these days would laugh if u only brought a 6 pack.. try a 30 stone :p
 
nycgirl said:
I'm sorry. I guess I should have asked for your location. Where are you located? They have arcade games. I love the games where you sit on motorcycles and race the other person. I think it is a great place to break the ice. After 8 or 9, you have to be 21 or over to enter (i.e, you don't have to worry about little rugrats running around).

Does she like sports? Take her to a sports bar and watch a game.
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I live in Roseville, MN a suburb of St. Paul.
Arcade games are fun, I might have to check that out. And rugrats are ghey, so the less of them there are the better.

I'm not really into sports, which might strike all of you as surprising, coming from a guy.
 
so I kinda want to call her tonight and see what shes doing tonight. are you guys saying thats a bad idea?
 
look, it doesn't matter when you call her. her mind is already made up, make the call, move on with your life...
 
fuck man go take a walk around Como lake or something and stop thinking about it soooo much!

don't you have any female friends? Initially act around her like you would around them, don't get all akward
 
This thread is now Dubbed the TITANTIC................everyone man the lifeboats!


RADAR
 
Smurfy said:
i say dont even bother. youre not ready for the outside world
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ouch. so when will I be ready? I thought the only way to get better at this shit was through experience.

Austin316 said:
fuck man go take a walk around Como lake or something and stop thinking about it soooo much!

don't you have any female friends? Initially act around her like you would around them, don't get all akward
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ok, i have some female friends. some that Im attracted to and some that I'm not. But I dont really hang out with them that often.

I'm already with acting like a friend initially, but I'm not going to tease her and pretend like I am not interested.
 
dont call her if your going to give her an hour notice.. call her and schedule it for the future you lazy bastard.. don't u have another thread like this?


My slogan:
In order to get pussy you have to QUIT being a pussy!! :chomp:

i've been rejected more then most people but ive been laid more then some if not most by random people so it works trust me
 
make sure its a girl
 
nutsnack said:
dont call her if your going to give her an hour notice.. call her and schedule it for the future you lazy bastard.. don't u have another thread like this?


My slogan:
In order to get pussy you have to QUIT being a pussy!! :chomp:

i've been rejected more then most people but ive been laid more then some if not most by random people so it works trust me
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aight, I'll probably call her up tomorrow night or on wednesday and ask her what she's doing this weekend then.
 
evansteve said:
aight, I'll probably call her up tomorrow night or on wednesday and ask her what she's doing this weekend then.
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How about you call her, ask how she's doing in small talk and get to know her better, then say, hey, lets get together this weekend, Ill call you later in the weekend etc... She may think youre not interested if you dont stay in contact
 
the 'Red Dragon' date - take her to the zoo, get her all hot fondling some wild beast's meat and two veg then straight back to yours
 
Eringobraugh said:
How about you call her, ask how she's doing in small talk and get to know her better, then say, hey, lets get together this weekend, Ill call you later in the weekend etc... She may think youre not interested if you dont stay in contact
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talking on the phone is weird though, I'd rather talk to her in person. Like I dont know how long to talk to her for, and I feel like its easier to play 'hard to get' or 'pretend im not interested' games over the phone (which I dont like).

heck, how long should I aim to talk to her, if I'm just calling to chat her up on the phone?

and wouldnt it be more smooth to just do one call, for arranging the date? (that way you arent over hyping the date on the weekend?)
 
Just see how she's doing, talk it up until the conversation gets really good and then say I have to run, always leave them wanting more, give it like five minutes of good conversation after she talks to you about herself and then leave
 
Eringobraugh said:
Just see how she's doing, talk it up until the conversation gets really good and then say I have to run, always leave them wanting more, give it like five minutes of good conversation after she talks to you about herself and then leave
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so in other words... play games with her via the telephone?

besides, what if we cant even come up with 5 minutes of good conversation? lol.
 
This is slowly becoming a "Dating for Dummies" thread.

Call her on Wednesday, leave it to small talk only and make plans for Sat.
 
give me the number and i'll call and set it up. seriously i have a good strong phone voice and I'm witty...I'll get it set up bor, give me the number
 
Gambino said:
give me the number and i'll call and set it up. seriously i have a good strong phone voice and I'm witty...I'll get it set up bor, give me the number
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lol. maybe one of these times we can try that. but not with this girl, ive been friends with her for a little while, and i dont want to fuck anything up. (and having a stranger call her about hooking me up with her, may do that)

also, if we ever do this, u need to give me a tape-recording of the phone call.
 
evansteve said:
lol. maybe one of these times we can try that. but not with this girl, ive been friends with her for a little while, and i dont want to fuck anything up. (and having a stranger call her about hooking me up with her, may do that)

also, if we ever do this, u need to give me a tape-recording of the phone call.
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lol that would be fun. seriously though, i wouldn't fuck it up for you
 
evansteve said:
so in other words... play games with her via the telephone?

besides, what if we cant even come up with 5 minutes of good conversation? lol.
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Play games? you ask for advice on how to do things b/c you dont dont know how to socialize so I tell you what to do in specifics to help you out and your condescending in return. A normal person would know when to end the call, but I gave you the advice so that you know when is a good time to end it, and that is on a positive note, thats not playing games, its just good communication skills. If you dont want specific advice on how to make a phone call then dont ask for it.
Youre overthinking everything, this should consume about five minutes of your thought, you just pick up the phone and call spontaneously, spontaneous conversation with her and then end it so it doesnt drag on and she dreads your phone call b/c you talk too long.
 
evansteve said:
lol. maybe one of these times we can try that. but not with this girl, ive been friends with her for a little while, and i dont want to fuck anything up. (and having a stranger call her about hooking me up with her, may do that)

also, if we ever do this, u need to give me a tape-recording of the phone call.
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You should have Gambino call and if she gets pissed off, call her back and play it off like it was really you.

Just be sure you apologize for him asking her about the plunger and loaf of italian bread trick joke.
 
evansteve said:
i guess i could just non-schalantly call her, but Id probably end up breaking social code in one way or another, and ruining any chance of me gettin with her.
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.........so it's better to never call and guarantee nothing ever happens? Think about that for a second.
 
Buy a Jeep, then some beer. Drive the Jeep, girl, and beer up the mountain, any mountain will do. You'll be glad you did.
 
nycgirl said:
Thanks. I will bypass these threads for now on.
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:(

look, it takes a lot for this man to learn. the more help i can get, the better.

silverfish said:
Buy a Jeep, then some beer. Drive the Jeep, girl, and beer up the mountain, any mountain will do. You'll be glad you did.
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not sure if this girl digs beer. she is the church-going type.

Eringobraugh said:
Play games? you ask for advice on how to do things b/c you dont dont know how to socialize so I tell you what to do in specifics to help you out and your condescending in return. A normal person would know when to end the call, but I gave you the advice so that you know when is a good time to end it, and that is on a positive note, thats not playing games, its just good communication skills. If you dont want specific advice on how to make a phone call then dont ask for it.
Youre overthinking everything, this should consume about five minutes of your thought, you just pick up the phone and call spontaneously, spontaneous conversation with her and then end it so it doesnt drag on and she dreads your phone call b/c you talk too long.
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sorry mang, i didnt mean to slam your advice. I agree that leaving on a positive note is a good thing. As long as your aren't purposely trying to tease her.
 
fuck it you know you'll fuck it up if you call...you proly won't even call. Pm the number and I guarantee I'll get you at least one date with said girl. at this point you need all the help you can get and denying my help will only prolong your 'tangless ways...
 
Gambino said:
fuck it you know you'll fuck it up if you call...you proly won't even call. Pm the number and I guarantee I'll get you at least one date with said girl. at this point you need all the help you can get and denying my help will only prolong your 'tangless ways...
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He wont do it, somone already tried to do that too and he wouldnt go for it, then the email addy and he almost went for that and then got moral about it and said no lol
 
Eringobraugh said:
He wont do it, somone already tried to do that too and he wouldnt go for it, then the email addy and he almost went for that and then got moral about it and said no lol
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ha, in the scenario that you are talking about the person wanted to write the entire email, and then send it from an address making it look like it was coming directly from me.

I was against that, because that was plain dishonest. then the person told me what to write in the email and told me to send that, and I did that (because this time at least it was coming from me)



The phone number thing is tricky, because a girl might think its awkward if some middle man from another state is trying to make a hookup with her and me.
 
evansteve said:
ha, in the scenario that you are talking about the person wanted to write the entire email, and then send it from an address making it look like it was coming directly from me.

I was against that, because that was plain dishonest. then the person told me what to write in the email and told me to send that, and I did that (because this time at least it was coming from me)



The phone number thing is tricky, because a girl might think its awkward if some middle man from another state is trying to make a hookup with her and me.
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Naw, he told me about it though, I was just messing with you earlier to see what you'd say in this thread.
You know that the phone thing would never work, whatever happened to that girl that you emailed?
 
Evensteve, why on earth do you have to analyse the phone situation so much. Just call her, say hello, make some small friendly chit chat and tell her you will call her back later or catch up with her on a date.

Stop freaking out so much and relax. You are such a chicken.
 
Eringobraugh said:
Naw, he told me about it though, I was just messing with you earlier to see what you'd say in this thread.
You know that the phone thing would never work, whatever happened to that girl that you emailed?
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she emailed me back and all, it took a couple weeks cuz she was busy but she replied. it was a nice response. i guess i coulda emailed her back before finals ended, but i think i didnt get around to it. :(

but she lives locally, so maybe i could email her now and ask if she wants to hang out.
 
YASMINA said:
Evensteve, why on earth do you have to analyse the phone situation so much. Just call her, say hello, make some small friendly chit chat and tell her you will call her back later or catch up with her on a date.

Stop freaking out so much and relax. You are such a chicken.
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i have a right to be chicken. women are some of the most critical creatures i know. you mess up with them, and they start making judgements.

men have to be extremely socially sharp around them. i guess i could just non-schalantly call her, but Id probably end up breaking social code in one way or another, and ruining any chance of me gettin with her.
 
Nilt said:
Eating (restaurant, or cook together)
The theater- music or other performance
A boat trip (if you have one and/or know how to do it)
A sports match (if shes very informal/tomboy)
A ball dance (If she's a little princess or you think she'd enjoy being one)
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Those are great ideas for a couple. :)
 
Eating (restaurant, or cook together)
The theater- music or other performance
A boat trip (if you have one and/or know how to do it)
A sports match (if shes very informal/tomboy)
A ball dance (If she's a little princess or you think she'd enjoy being one)
 
Have Gambino call her and have him record it and post it up here.

I'm curious if he has any game or not.
 
dude pm me her digits i will call for u

but here are my favs

1. day spa
2. water park /show off ur bod to score some points)
3. art gallery/concert
4. muesum
5. my fav = go to a firing range and fire off a few clips..nothing get a gril wet like shooting a strong pistol
 
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