need help--girl problems

[magman1]

im very in love with my gf and she seems like the perfect girl--she was basically an angel and led a very nonsexual life before meeting me....with two guys for two years, and only had sex with one of them a handful of times.....she went away to college and throw away her morals for the first weeks and had sex with a semi-random guy.....i can not stop thinking about her past and it kills me.....i saw a pic of her in her thong in front of a bunch of people in these first few weeks of school....she admits she made a couple mistakes and says it was a learning experience.....i believe her, but recently can not get over thinknig about this stuff, and it leads me to being nasty and pissed.....i will never meet a better girl in terms of our relationship and being good....any suggestions on how to get past this?

 

[Sub-Zero]

im very in love with my gf and she seems like the perfect girl--she was basically an angel and led a very nonsexual life before meeting me....with two guys for two years, and only had sex with one of them a handful of times.....she went away to college and throw away her morals for the first weeks and had sex with a semi-random guy.....i can not stop thinking about her past and it kills me.....i saw a pic of her in her thong in front of a bunch of people in these first few weeks of school....she admits she made a couple mistakes and says it was a learning experience.....i believe her, but recently can not get over thinknig about this stuff, and it leads me to being nasty and pissed.....i will never meet a better girl in terms of our relationship and being good....any suggestions on how to get past this?

she cheated on you?

i say go fuck another girl then, no sense in u being monogomous (sp) if she aint gunna be

 

[foreigngirl]

1. how old are you, anyways?
2. if she cared about your feelings or you in general, she wouldnt do what she is doing

 

[CFZB]

I got 99 problems...

 

[nycgirl]

Did she do this before you met her or during your relationship?

 

[magman1]

no never cheated.....it was before we met and she really has been great(i think) in the past eight months.....im 22 but just recently cant get over the shit she did, even tho it is not a big deal in the slightest and iv done things one million times worse....its sooo hypocritical, but i cant help it

 

[hamstershaver]

the old "i only had sex with him a handful of times even though we dated for a year" line
i love how guys actually believe chicks when they say that
and the other guy she dated for a year she never even screwed :rollseyes:
it makes it sound even more believable now that shes out at college screwing guys left and right
soon you will learn to never trust a woman

 

[magman1]

im learning that as we speak

 

[hotzie]

the old "i only had sex with him a handful of times even though we dated for a year" line
i love how guys actually believe chicks when they say that
and the other guy she dated for a year she never even screwed :rollseyes:
it makes it sound even more believable now that shes out at college screwing guys left and right
soon you will learn to never trust a woman

agreed , i would suggest not gettin any more attached than u already are unless you enjoy gettin hurt , cuz it more than likely will happen

 

[foreigngirl]

The Q should be:
How do I get over this
not:
How do I go pass this



dude, its not worth it

 

[nycgirl]

Look, if she did this before the relationship, then it doesn't matter. I have a saying "Don't ask questions you don't want answers to." If she told you the truth, would that change the person she is today - NO. Now that you know the truth does that change the person she is today - NO. Some girls do wild sexual things in college - so what.

 

[Spartacus]

magman1:I can nail her.
Deke Thornton: I said wait.
T.C.: What if she slips out the back?
Coffer: It's covered, ya two-bit, rednemagman1ck peckerwood.

 

[hamstershaver]

klu always tells me how she didnt have sex that much with the other guys she was with, yet she wants the cawk 24/7 with me
women just lie like a rug, thats how they are

 

[jenscats5]

no never cheated.....it was before we met and she really has been great(i think) in the past eight months.....im 22 but just recently cant get over the shit she did, even tho it is not a big deal in the slightest and iv done things one million times worse....its sooo hypocritical, but i cant help it

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

 

[hamstershaver]

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

 

[magman1]

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

fuck urself.....i was man enough to admit that, and realize its not right.....i realize it is my fault.....im asking how to get past it, and if i should even try

 

[foreigngirl]

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

lmao...

 

[Sub-Zero]

no never cheated.....it was before we met and she really has been great(i think) in the past eight months.....im 22 but just recently cant get over the shit she did, even tho it is not a big deal in the slightest and iv done things one million times worse....its sooo hypocritical, but i cant help it

if it was in the past then what is the point of this thread?

shake off the tears, wipe your vagina, and dont even think twice about it

 

[Sub-Zero]

Look, if she did this before the relationship, then it doesn't matter. I have a saying "Don't ask questions you don't want answers to." If she told you the truth, would that change the person she is today - NO. Now that you know the truth does that change the person she is today - NO. Some girls do wild sexual things in college - so what.

are u in college? i got some sexual things u can do if u want

 

[nycgirl]

fuck urself.....i was man enough to admit that, and realize its not right.....i realize it is my fault.....im asking how to get past it, and if i should even try

Yes, you should. If you think she is a beautiful girl, that is what matters the most.

Have you shared your sexual past with her?

 

[Sub-Zero]

fuck urself.....

rofl...jens u gunna bomb him!?

 

[jenscats5]

fuck urself.....i was man enough to admit that, and realize its not right.....i realize it is my fault.....im asking how to get past it, and if i should even try

Excuse me??

Be a man then, & stop posting on a chat board how to get past your idiotic ideals of what women should & should not do ...... You asked for advice & I gave it to you..... GET THE FUCK OVER IT....

 

[jenscats5]

rofl...jens u gunna bomb him!?

if it was in the past then what is the point of this thread?

shake off the tears, wipe your vagina, and dont even think twice about it

Exactly....

 

[Sub-Zero]

since this thread is pointless, lets change the subject to something more pertinent:


my nuts itch REALLY bad, and no matter how much i scratch it still itches, what should i do?

 

[magman1]

gave me advice? u restated what i admitted in a demeaning fashion. i realize i need to get over it and asked in ways to do that, if anyone has experienced the same.....i stated from my first posts i was wrong and u soo kindly repeated that in a glamorized way

 

[jenscats5]

since this thread is pointless, lets change the subject to something more pertinent:


my nuts itch REALLY bad, and no matter how much i scratch it still itches, what should i do?

See a doctor..........or use powder for such things.... and change your undies more than 1x a month....

 

[nycgirl]

are u in college? i got some sexual things u can do if u want

I'm in grad school. I need an older man to teach me some new things. I suggest you look for an undergrad Freshman/sophmore.

 

[foreigngirl]

since this thread is pointless, lets change the subject to something more pertinent:


my nuts itch REALLY bad, and no matter how much i scratch it still itches, what should i do?

take a shower maybe

 

[jenscats5]

gave me advice? u restated what i admitted in a demeaning fashion. i realize i need to get over it and asked in ways to do that, if anyone has experienced the same.....i stated from my first posts i was wrong and u soo kindly repeated that in a glamorized way

Well, then if you need help in "Getting over it" see a psychologist.....

And your thread is demeaning in its very nature......

 

[SoKlueles]

since this thread is pointless, lets change the subject to something more pertinent:


my nuts itch REALLY bad, and no matter how much i scratch it still itches, what should i do?

wash them

 

[SoKlueles]

klu always tells me how she didnt have sex that much with the other guys she was with, yet she wants the cawk 24/7 with me
women just lie like a rug, thats how they are

HOLY COW i didnt have that much sex
chit

 

[awittyusername]

klu always tells me how she didnt have sex that much with the other guys she was with, yet she wants the cawk 24/7 with me
women just lie like a rug, thats how they are

lol

Mag, I have posted this before, but....Let me lay a little mathematics on you.

X = claimed amount of sexual partners of a woman

Y = actual amount of sexual partners of a woman

Pie = 3.16


X * Pie + 2 = Y (round up)

 

[Sub-Zero]

See a doctor..........or use powder for such things.... and change your undies more than 1x a month....

lol thats true i havnt showered in 2 days

 

[Sub-Zero]

I'm in grad school. I need an older man to teach me some new things. I suggest you look for an undergrad Freshman/sophmore.

i can teach you plenty. my opinions and skills arnt corrupted by age, im still young enough to have childlike innocense, but old enough to be wise, and sexually capable

 

[will b huge]

I'm in grad school. I need an older man to teach me some new things. I suggest you look for an undergrad Freshman/sophmore.

Im available to help??? (I think)

Anyways, this poor guy, I remember being young and in college and you just cant get the thought out of your head of some other guy banging the girl you care about....>Man, those days were a few tough ones.....Anyways, the answer is you have to go through this and it will toughen you up (granted it will be tough some days) but you will get over that crap as you mature.....

Shit, nowadays, I wish some of you would come take my wife out and bang her (just to get her away from me for a night without any NAGGING---finally have some peace around here-----LOL).....Ok, maybe I wouldn't go that far---then again, she'd get pissed that I wanted her too.....MAN, WOMEN...YOU WILL NEVER FIGURE THEM OUT BRO>>>>> YOU HAVE FUN IN LIFE AND DON"T PASS UP OPPORTUNITIES....>ALRIGHT????? I PROMISE YOU THAT YOU"LL MEET 10 MORE GIRLS JUST LIKE HER or EVEN BETTER!!!!!!! TRUST ME.....

(Although you don't want to hear this right now, but I guarantee you that every guy in this forum ages 25+ will agree; but there isn't anything wrong with dating some new girls and learning about the different types and you will learn how much more is out there and what you might be missing......I wouldn't prefer to stay with the same girl from age 18 or whatever throughout the rest of my life....Thank God that I didn't do that-----anyways, meet new women, try dating new women, you will like the different things that each can bring to a relationship.....Then, when you are older you can make a much wiser decision regarding the rest of your life bro......


Alright, I rambled on long enough, good luck.....

 

[nycgirl]

i can teach you plenty. my opinions and skills arnt corrupted by age, im still young enough to have childlike innocense, but old enough to be wise, and sexually capable

How about you work on losing your virginity first. When you have accomplished that goal and have a few tricks up your sleeve, send me a PM.

 

[vinylgroover]

Firstly Mag, you need to realise that as people, none of us are perfect. What you have in your mind is the ideal of a perfect partner. Sure it's a nice ideal to aspire to, but you need to be realistic and realise that one hot day doesn't make a summer.

As she said herself, it was a learning experience. That's what life is about......learning and growing. You say you are in love with her......that means you are in love with who she is as a person. Think of it this way. Her history is precisely what has made her grow to be the person you fell in love with today.

 

[Sub-Zero]

How about you work on losing your virginity first. When you have accomplished that goal and have a few tricks up your sleeve, send me a PM.

i have plenty of tricks...such as laying there and letting u do all the work

 

[nycgirl]

i have plenty of tricks...such as laying there and letting u do all the work

Does that include dinner?

Been there and definitely done that. Looking for a lot more.

 

[Gambino]

gave me advice? u restated what i admitted in a demeaning fashion. i realize i need to get over it and asked in ways to do that, if anyone has experienced the same.....i stated from my first posts i was wrong and u soo kindly repeated that in a glamorized way

i have experience in this same type of situation, except mine was a lot worse, i.e fucked 1/3 of my town...your jealousy will wreck the relationship mark my words

 

[awittyusername]

i have experience in this same type of situation, except mine was a lot worse, i.e fucked 1/3 of my town...your jealousy will wreck the relationship mark my words

Tell her I said "Hi"

 

[flex229]

i was in the exact same situation as the guy who wrote this thread...only my chick didnt go nuts at college...she had sex with one guy before me, met me, then went nuts with ME...best girlfriend i could ever imagine...the girl is an angel and will always be an angel to me...

my advice to whomever wrote this thread would be just to suck it up and deal with her past...JUST DONT KEEP BRINGING UP WHATEVER SHE DID IN COLLEGE,AS THAT WILL PISS HER OFF...as long as she's faithful to you, that's all that matters...

 

[Bruce]

she was young and didn't cheat. i say if you really feel like you love her, not just the pic of her thong, forgive her but if it becomes a reacurring theme you will have to let her go. tell her how you feel and why your angry and i think it will relieve you anger

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

if she banged everybody else, then be #235642, till you find someone better.
Don't be the poor guy to marry the light switch college girl.

 

[Paulos]

What the fuck? Women aren't supposed to have sex with anyone until they meet you.

Dump that ho.

 

[Spanky11]

lol, i remember being in this situatin a few years back.

dump that girl asap.

and then bang her best friend/sister/ grandma.

 

[alien amp pharm]

klu always tells me how she didnt have sex that much with the other guys she was with, yet she wants the cawk 24/7 with me
women just lie like a rug, thats how they are

or when they give you the text book answer of "3" past sexual partners despite them being a nympho around you. lol.

 

[Spanky11]

don't forget that girls always "don't count" alot of their past conquests, as they weren't bfs, no - one found out etc.

just go with your gonelifting gut instinct on this one.

 

[Raina]

That's total BS in my opinion. What she did before she met you is not worth fretting over. She has obviously trusted you enough to feel safe disclosing things to you about her past. The past is the past. Do you think she should have just sat home and waited to meet you with a halo glowing above her head?

I don't think that's fair at all. I'm sure you've made mistakes too. By obsessing about the past-- before you even knew her-- you're wrecking the present.

 

[rudeboyja]

you'll grow up one day and realize who cares. Better let her explore her sexual desires now rather than surpress them.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Im available to help??? (I think)





(Although you don't want to hear this right now, but I guarantee you that every guy in this forum ages 25+ will agree; but there isn't anything wrong with dating some new girls and learning about the different types and you will learn how much more is out there and what you might be missing......I wouldn't prefer to stay with the same girl from age 18 or whatever throughout the rest of my life....Thank God that I didn't do that-----anyways, meet new women, try dating new women, you will like the different things that each can bring to a relationship.....Then, when you are older you can make a much wiser decision regarding the rest of your life bro......


Alright, I rambled on long enough, good luck.....

On the other hand, I met my wife when I was 17 & she was 15. We've been married 22 yrs, together 25. We were separated a coupla times (circumstance, not relationship). and she didn't ask what I did, I didn't ask what she did. We eventually told each other, but, if you love someone, all that should matter is if you're with them. I'd like to hear you get together, but if you're fixated on her past. She's honest & told you about her past thinking you'd accept her, yet you are judging her. This has been a test & you're failing. Maybe it's best to play around a bit before you grow up & settle down.

 

[leco3344unt]

Dude you sound like a fuckin insecure bitch.,

She's not going to leave you because she was getting DP by the lacrosse team as a freshmen or using her DSL's to pleasure her statistics tutor in the library or because of that late night Jell-O orgy with her sorority sisters in which she cummed 15 times and found the afterlife.

She's going to leave you because you are a scared little boy with zero confidence and can't comprehend that just maybe she grew up after that night of anal gang-bang with the football D-line like so many young girls in tight skirts and wet panties do after college. Just blow it off bro past is past, you said she's great now so enjoy it, but I am telling you your going to blow it with this attitude Buster Brown. Women can smell fear in a guy, Very bad trait.

 

[gonelifting]

First you have to see what the problem is and face it. People giving opinions of the girl is not really the issue. Let's say you did dump the girl, then what? You meet another girl who's great, but do you think she'll be a virgin? Then you're back at square one.

In order to "fix" your problem, you need a better solution, a better "path" to take next time. You can't just fix it and do the same thing next time, which is what YOU WILL do because all girls are'nt gonna be virgins. You'll feel the same way about the next girl... unless she lies to you and you believe it. At least this girl was honest.... AND did it before you guys were together AND got serious with each other. It's hard to find the "right one", when you do, hold on tight. I still think she's a keeper. good luck


She got it out of her system, be adult about this and accept it.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Does that include dinner?

Been there and definitely done that. Looking for a lot more.

im jk, i can devote myself physiically and emotionally to you, but i wont cramp you too much, but when you wanna snuggle up and watch a movie im good at that too...ill even give you the comfortable spot on the couch...

 

[nycgirl]

im jk, i can devote myself physiically and emotionally to you, but i wont cramp you too much, but when you wanna snuggle up and watch a movie im good at that too...ill even give you the comfortable spot on the couch...

You are too sweet.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I'm in grad school. I need an older man to teach me some new things. I suggest you look for an undergrad Freshman/sophmore.

Pick me, pick me! Oh, shit, you're too far away.

 

[jenscats5]

im jk, i can devote myself physiically and emotionally to you, but i wont cramp you too much, but when you wanna snuggle up and watch a movie im good at that too...ill even give you the comfortable spot on the couch...

Yeah, but will you let her have the remote??

 

[will b huge]

On the other hand, I met my wife when I was 17 & she was 15. We've been married 22 yrs, together 25. We were separated a coupla times (circumstance, not relationship). and ahe didn't ask what I did, I didn't ask what she did. We eventually told each other, but, if you love someone, all that should matter is if you're with them. I'd like to hear you get together, but if you're fixated on her past. She's honest & told you about her past thinking you'd accept her, yet you are judging her. This has been a test & you're failing. Maybe it's best to play around a bit before you grow up & settle down.

you lucky bastard

 

[Bikini Mod]

*cough*

You guys make it sound like she murdered her father.

Jesus H Christ.... THE GIRL HAD SOME SEX!



Was she your "lawfully wedded wife" who was banging the cable guy, the pool boy AND your brother?



Damn men can be silly!


Poor girl thought it best to "be honest". So what do you do? Blow a head gasket. And men wonder why some women feel the need to lie about insignificant BULLSHIT.

 

[Razorguns]

i will never meet a better girl in terms of our relationship and being good....any suggestions on how to get past this?

You're young. You're still learning. Ask yourself this : Why are YOU telling someone else, who you barely know, to fit YOUR perception of what a woman should be?

Either she is ... or she isn't.

So much to learn in life. So much to experience. You're already making those classic young people dating mistakes. A lifetime of broken relationships awaits you by constantly picking people who don't match.

Don't sweat it bor. 9 billion people before you had to learn the hard way too. Do yourself a favor and date and don't trip out when things aren't working out. Big deal. Move on. Focus on what's important in your life. Getting serious and hitched this early, probably ain't it.

Besides -- who knows what your view of "what you want" will be when you're 35 .. so why get all serious and shit now?

 

[wutangnomo]

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

Cut the guy some slack. He's asking for some advice, not someone to bitch and moan. Everyone has insecurities, yes even you. So get over yourself as well. As far as what's been mentioned no relationship has been messed up.

MAGMAN, realize that everyone has a past. If the shoe were on the other foot, do you think it would be fair that she judge you based on your past? Moreover, most people at some point in their lives go through a "wild phase". She's a human being just like the rest of us, so what she did before you should not be held against her. Focus on the here and now and how she treats YOU.

 

[foreigngirl]

are we still debating this???

 

[jenscats5]

*cough*

You guys make it sound like she murdered her father.

Jesus H Christ.... THE GIRL HAD SOME SEX!



Was she your "lawfully wedded wife" who was banging the cable guy, the pool boy AND your brother?



Damn men can be silly!


Poor girl thought it best to "be honest". So what do you do? Blow a head gasket. And men wonder why some women feel the need to lie about insignificant BULLSHIT.

Exactly!!

 

[jenscats5]

Cut the guy some slack. He's asking for some advice, not someone to bitch and moan. Everyone has insecurities, yes even you. So get over yourself as well. As far as what's been mentioned no relationship has been messed up.

MAGMAN, realize that everyone has a past. If the shoe were on the other foot, do you think it would be fair that she judge you based on your past? Moreover, most people at some point in their lives go through a "wild phase". She's a human being just like the rest of us, so what she did before you should not be held against her. Focus on the here and now and how she treats YOU.

But it will be if he continues on his high-horse mentality..... He asked for advice - I gave it to him. Sometimes the truth is painful -- which he obviously found out. Don't ask the questions you can't handle the answer to.

Notice how he refused to answer ? about his past, avoided them & now hasn't come back to post?? Verrrrry suspicious.....

 

[wutangnomo]

But it will be if he continues on his high-horse mentality..... He asked for advice - I gave it to him. Sometimes the truth is painful -- which he obviously found out. Don't ask the questions you can't handle the answer to.

Notice how he refused to answer ? about his past, avoided them & now hasn't come back to post?? Verrrrry suspicious.....

The guy is ONLY 22. He's young and inexperienced. Sheesh. Give him some credit for realizing that he is thinking about things wrongly, to which he has admitted and wants to correct.

 

[HiDnGoD]

she was young and didn't cheat. i say if you really feel like you love her, not just the pic of her thong, forgive her but if it becomes a reacurring theme you will have to let her go. tell her how you feel and why your angry and i think it will relieve you anger

I think the first part is right. But if you tell her what you think, you might as well save both of you some grief & just dump her. Whatever you say about her past sexual history, if it's not supportive, or even noncommital, will come across as a personal attack on her morals & judgement. Really, you have no right to be angry. She wasn't yours at the time.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You girls stick together
Funny, us guys will F each other over, but women stick up for other women they don't even know.

 

[will b huge]

You girls stick together
Funny, us guys will F each other over, but women stick up for other women they don't even know.

Not entirely true...(for general arguments---Yes)....but you get ladies that are interested in the same guy......WATCH OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[UA_Iron]

you just gotta do really dirty things to her - be her first salad tosser etc.

who cares man? like girls wear bikinis, guys look at them, guys stand next to them....

she's with you for a reason - if she was still like that then she wouldnt be with you.

It's understandable it happened right when she went to college too, when women get that free feeling they'll do crazy things; guys too I guess.

 

[Roscow]

I totally disagree with the women who said her past doesn't matter.

It does matter. Furthermore, it shows she does not have morals. Women think "playing the field" is normal nowadays.

No, it is not. It's only normal among women with no morals.

The double standard is a valid one in this case. Let's see the difference between a man and a woman.

If a man has the possibility to fly to Sweden and has ten women worshipping him like he was a king, he will buy the one way ticket and never look back.

In the case of the woman she has the possibility to go to Congo or Togo and have ten guys worshipping her, but she doesn't do it because she has morals.

In other words her morals prevent her from doing things she can but are bad for her dignity.

You can see that the double standard is valid.

I know that there are some men, like in this thread, who have accepted the fact that a woman can "play the field too".

Their rationale is based on the fact that they know most women are like this nowadays. So, the odds of finding a pure or just a normal woman (i.e very low mileage) are very slim.

That is why they accept the fact that the past does not matter. Otherwise, they would have to be very patient to find a woman with morals.

It would be better for them and the society to stand behind the good women and not the used one.

Contrary to what women think a used car will remain a used car after going through the car wash.

This is the same for women. Soap will not erase you high mileage.

Last thing I am not saying all the used one are bad women. But the original will always be better than the used one.

 

[Gymgurl]

Get over yourself & your insecurities.............What she did before you makes NO damn difference in your relationship together....

The ONLY person to mess up this relationship is YOU & your outdated, double-standard, hypocritical, puritanical BS....

YAY jen....claps for jen Prefect!

 

[chewyxrage]

If this shit happened before you met, you have no ground to stand on my friend. You need to just put it out of your mind. The days of meeting sweet clean virgins in high school are over. Get used to it. You will have to accept this

 

[tiger88]

im very in love with my gf and she seems like the perfect girl--she was basically an angel and led a very nonsexual life before meeting me....with two guys for two years, and only had sex with one of them a handful of times.....she went away to college and throw away her morals for the first weeks and had sex with a semi-random guy.....i can not stop thinking about her past and it kills me.....i saw a pic of her in her thong in front of a bunch of people in these first few weeks of school....she admits she made a couple mistakes and says it was a learning experience.....i believe her, but recently can not get over thinknig about this stuff, and it leads me to being nasty and pissed.....i will never meet a better girl in terms of our relationship and being good....any suggestions on how to get past this?

ya I saw her too.. 2 black guys fucked her (DP)

 

[CrazyK]

If this shit happened before you met, you have no ground to stand on my friend. You need to just put it out of your mind. The days of meeting sweet clean virgins in high school are over. Get used to it. You will have to accept this

I've found one that is attractive and not mental. Very rare breed though.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

im very in love with my gf and she seems like the perfect girl--she was basically an angel and led a very nonsexual life before meeting me....with two guys for two years, and only had sex with one of them a handful of times.....she went away to college and throw away her morals for the first weeks and had sex with a semi-random guy.....i can not stop thinking about her past and it kills me.....i saw a pic of her in her thong in front of a bunch of people in these first few weeks of school....she admits she made a couple mistakes and says it was a learning experience.....i believe her, but recently can not get over thinknig about this stuff, and it leads me to being nasty and pissed.....i will never meet a better girl in terms of our relationship and being good....any suggestions on how to get past this?

Show her it bothers you and your relationship will soon end.

Hope that helps.

 

[concordsize]

I cant stand when I find out guys who my gf fucked. I am a double standard bastard and i admit it!
--For your Q bro TIME! Time is the answer to many of these types of questions. Everyone here who said just "get over it" are telling the truth but they are forgetting how hard that is to do.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

If this shit happened before you met, you have no ground to stand on my friend. You need to just put it out of your mind. The days of meeting sweet clean virgins in high school are over. Get used to it. You will have to accept this

They all couldn't of turned into certified cum receptacles nowadays...or have they