My transgender friend is freaking me out..

[blueta2]

This was just way to odd for me to pass this one by...LOL
Just because your friend wanted to be a woman doesn't mean that he wasn't into women before the change or after she became one. The human mind works in strange ways but, to each his or her own. It's not my place to judge... People are people.

I think she may have been feeling you out but, also you are friends, and she didn't think much past here's my page.

I have plenty of friend that are gay, and just because they are gay doesn't mean I have to freak out that they want a piece of me. Even if they did, they know I'm straight, and not to go there. Out of respect, and friendship.

Also, your friend was your friend before you found this out. Is it really that important to you? Besides, look at it this way; your friend is transgender. That in itself, most people would have been freaked out by. You've accepted her that far, why would this be any worse. But that's just me.

You seem like a nice, intellegent girl and I guess 'sexy as hell and lovable to DEATH ' modest (LOL), Canadian ('egh) (BTW... I had a Canadian GF and she was as sexy hell and lovable to DEATH... GRRRR!!!) so I guess we have to believe you on that one.

Seriously, if it freaks you out maybe you really just need to sit down with her and talk about it and sort of set the ground rules. If she is your friend she will understand, and respect that and you. Just my 2 cents. Much respect for all.

I guess what freaked me out the most was that I really thought she was into men. I had no idea she liked woman. I'm cool with her liking women, I have gay friends, but this whole bondage things on her facebook is creepy to me.
Her and I both 42 and it's just a little improper.

She is a very respectful person and has helped me so much during my had days lately and yes if i speak to her about it, she'll be cool, but I need to ease into that convo. hahaha

Thanks for your input and your very insightful comments about me being nice and intelligent. I also forgot to add I'm smoking and stunning.
(people who know me here know I'm so kidding). I'm a troll with no self esteem and bad days have turned me into looking like Courtney Love

 

[joefire_2008]

I guess what freaked me out the most was that I really thought she was into men. I had no idea she liked woman. I'm cool with her liking women, I have gay friends, but this whole bondage things on her facebook is creepy to me.
Her and I both 42 and it's just a little improper.

She is a very respectful person and has helped me so much during my had days lately and yes if i speak to her about it, she'll be cool, but I need to ease into that convo. hahaha

Thanks for your input and your very insightful comments about me being nice and intelligent. I also forgot to add I'm smoking and stunning.
(people who know me here know I'm so kidding). I'm a troll with no self esteem and bad days have turned me into looking like Courtney Love

No worries... LOL

 

[joefire_2008]

just promise me you won't tell anyone I was sensitive, or had some input that had any kind of merit. You'll blow my image...
LOL
Take care...

 

[Mr. dB]

Why would someone who is into chicks have their dick cut off?

 

[gotmilk]

Why would someone who is into chicks have their dick cut off?

to get to the other side?

 

[canadianhitman]

She has a fully functional vajayjay

Fully functional vajayjays are mucous membranes that self-lubricate, and have muscles that can contract. Can buddy's fake vajayjay claim that?

I don't think so.

What HE now has is a 'flesh sleeve'...not a fully functional vajayjay.

 

[blueta2]

Fully functional vajayjays are mucous membranes that self-lubricate, and have muscles that can contract. Can buddy's fake vajayjay claim that?

I don't think so.

What HE now has is a 'flesh sleeve'...not a fully functional vajayjay.

She can be penetrated and can have an orgasm, that's all that's needed.
All the other fun stuff that comes along with having a vagina is overrated.

 

[Smurfy]

She can be penetrated

I'll be the judge of that.

 

[SpyWizard]

Why would her sexual preference have anything to do with your friendship?

That's silly, blueta.

I get being a little "tmi" on the whole thing...I don't usually care to know the details of my friends kinks but if I did - well that's their thing. Bondage is pretty tame as far as kinks go, anyway.

I'd have to agree with this, most people that share openly are basically "fishing" for others that will join in the fun..

By sharing with you she may just be doing the shock factor, or she may just be making you desensitized to the whole thing, thus making you just a little more outside of your comfort zone..

 

[AztecWarrior]

She has a fully functional vajayjay

Not this again.