Jeff....go for a walk w/ your Grandmother and the dog, and you'll PR on the deadlifts tomorrow....That is honestly what I would do.......take the off-days to do things that the crazy schedule of a 9-5 job and then evening workouts don't allow....spend some time w/ family, go to the grocery store, wash your car, look at internet porn, spend some time with the gf, get caught up with Sports Center, whatever , but look forward to off days, and plan to do things that the pain in the ass grinding schedule typically doesn't allow.
And, you really just need to change the mindset about meals and off-days.....you're not trying to drop weight and you're not trying to maintain weight, you want to grow.....you need the calories, you don't stop growing on off-days, you also need the calories to prep for the next day's workout.