nefertiti said:Sugar, that's as ridiculous as me saying I'm a relationship expert because I've never been dumped.
being able to "get" any woman you've wanted means nothing as far as your understanding of them. it just means your particular package has had a good success rate in the pool of women you've chosen from. I don't want to put you on the defensive, so I'll explain my point with an exaggerated made up example.
Joe schmoe is a star athlete as his college, built, good looking, and cocky. he's never been denied, because he's never had to work beyond the bunch of jersey chasers and groupies he has throwing themselves at him. But he can't tell jim slim the science nerd how to get a woman because Jimmy has an entirely different pool of women to select from, and an entirely different set of things to offer a female. What worked for Joe is never gonna work for jim.
No one is THAT much of a natural with the opposite sex that they can really claim expertise without ever having been humbled by falling flat on their faces a couple of times.
Does it matter really?
If I argue with you, will it lead us anywhere?
Like Guardian said: it's the interwebs.
I've gotten every women I ever wanted, and I've never been dumped. I've never allowed myself to love a woman who wasn't madly in love with me. Matter of fact, it was mostly physical for me.
Whether you chose to believe me or not is something I really don't have control over, nor do I care about.
It is what it is.