Poptart, how old are you? And since when is this fitness site only to be full of young and perfect bodied members? It is a tool to be used to gain knowledge about fitness...a members current age and bodystructure does not matter.
Yes, I'm near 40 and I've got a pooch goin on, but I've come a long way with the help of this board in learning about diet and lifting. I'm not a small woman, I lift to gain strength and muscle. I'm at 16%bf, which for a woman is not bad...and I'm especially proud of my accomplishments having come from being very fat.
I lost my big boobs and just got new ones and am thrilled with them! I've shared a lot of what was involved with the surgery with the members of this site and now I've shared 5-day post-op pictures. As for my choice in outfits...I just snapped a pic in my over 15 y.o. nightgown...I'm not quite up to playing dress-up here...it was painful just to hold my arms up!
As for the responses from the guys here, I certainly don't think they're trying to get me "excited." Anyone who knows me here also knows I don't play games with guys...I'm happily married for nearly 18 yrs. But, there are guys here who know how to compliment a woman who's workin hard at reaching her goals...to them I am thankful for their support and encouragement.
As for seeing me in person, I get compliments all the time on my appearance, including compliments from younger people, even from other members and employees at the gym, so bug off!!!