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Moving in with my girlfriend

Lestat

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that's the plan, probably gonna happen in November.

Any advice, comments from people who have done this thing before? I'm 28, never lived with a girlfriend before.
 
It was really nice knowing you ;)



hee hee.. j/k

it will either make or break the relationship. There is no advice anyone can give you to make the experience flawless. you live and you learn.
 
1- She must remove her profile from that Jewish dating site.
2- Buy a shotgun and tell her you will use it if she ever gets "confused" again.





-BRR
 
Put the seat back down.

Seperate checking accounts.

All you need to know to live happily ever after. :)
 
depends on the chick.. i've lived with my woman for the last 3 years. and love her company..

some people you just cant stand being around.. and some you can..
 
be honest. 100%. No fucking half measures.

Its a cool thing mang, best of luck.
 
3- Get rid of your porn stash.
4- Bug the whole house so you know what she is up to when you are away.



-BRR
 
Frisky said:
It was really nice knowing you ;)



hee hee.. j/k

it will either make or break the relationship. There is no advice anyone can give you to make the experience flawless. you live and you learn.
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Freaky is right. Is a good idea moving with her because that will decide if the relationship continues or not. If you guys live separated, you can be happy for 5 years, decide to get married, move together and then, surprise! Things were different.
 
I don't think the moving in together is bad unlss you are married.

A friend of mine lived with his GF for a year. He is a fun guy, always partied and stuff.

A month ago he got married. Now the GF (wife) won't let people come over, he never comes out anymore, and he said she won't have sex now.

lol. Poor bastard.
 
5- Move the lube from the computer desk to the bedroom now.
6- Make sure EVERYTHING in your PC is password protected.




-BRR
 
Big Rick Rock said:
5- Move the lube from the computer desk to the bedroom now.
6- Make sure EVERYTHING in your PC is password protected.




-BRR
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Bad experience in your past? LOL.
 
BRR knows what's up.


I'd also suggest remaking a "time alone" room for yourself. A place where you can go to be alone and have peace and quiet in the house. Put a computer, stereo, whatever you enjoy in there and tell her it is off limits to her. (unless she knows the secret knock of course)
 
I'm not really that anxious about too much...

porn stash hasn't been touched in a while... won't even both taking it... will probably have to delete any last remnants off the computer.

The nice thing is that we both make good money.. we're moving to a really nice place downtown (sweet view, I'll post pics once I'm moved in).

We'll have a 2 bedroom 2 bath place so we'll have extra space, guest room, etc...

I'm a pretty independent person.. I know everyone says that and it means something different for everyone.. but what I mean is that some nights after work and a workout, I just like to do nothing.. maybe watch some TV.. post on EF.. read... play a video game. etc.. or some weekends, Sundays now more often then not, I like to just veg out.. not all the time, I'm very active, and my gf and I do all kinds of things together.. we include each other in on most social activites.. etc.

So my point is, will I ever really feel like i have my own personal space.. or does that concept just vanish when you move in with a significant other and should it be something I am comfortable with.

and what happens when you take a really bad #2 and she walks in the bathroom right after :worried:
 
7- Install a powerful air ventilation system in the bathroom. You can not make excuses and go home to take a shit after Taco Bell anymore. It's never the same after you smell her intrails.

8- Get a new bed.




-BRR
 
ChefWide said:
be honest. 100%. No fucking half measures.

Its a cool thing mang, best of luck.
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Be honest and completely comfortable with yourself and her. If you have to hide your stash of porn, lock everything, etc., then not only do you not trust her but you are establishing some bad practices for the future (i.e., marriage)and you shouldn't be living with her.

Don't do anything the first few months of living together that you are not willing to do for the rest of the relationship, especially if it leads to marriage.

I do agree with having your own life in addition to the relationship.

Make sure it is something that you want to do. I admire that you are willing to take the plunge.

Just my .02.
 
Lestat said:
So my point is, will I ever really feel like i have my own personal space.. or does that concept just vanish when you move in with a significant other and should it be something I am comfortable with.

and what happens when you take a really bad #2 and she walks in the bathroom right after :worried:
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Depends on what type of person your g/f is. You're the only one who will really be able to answer as to what you expect to happen.

We went through stages when we first moved in together. I had a night time routine and so did he. Sometimes he would be in the computer room and I'd be out in the living room, or vice-versa. If one of us wanted some "together" time, it was pretty easy to say "hey, come hang out with me for a bit". Now we've gotten into the routine of having one or two weekend nights where we veg on the couch together and watch a movie, one night where he or I go out with our friends.

As for #2.... she'll probably be more worried about that than you are. LOL.
 
We are getting a new bed, big king size mofo.
 
I remember I just started dating this real hot chick. She was asleep in my bed and I lived in a small apartment with the only bathroom next to the bedroom. I had to go really bad and I could tell it was going to be one of those loud, squirty, smelly shits.

So I got a roll of toilet paper, went into the nearby woods and did my business.
Hahaha.

Bitch ended up cheating on me so now I wish I would have just taken a dump on her chest while she slept.
 
alien amp pharm said:
I remember I just started dating this real hot chick. She was asleep in my bed and I lived in a small apartment with the only bathroom next to the bedroom. I had to go really bad and I could tell it was going to be one of those loud, squirty, smelly shits.

So I got a roll of toilet paper, went into the nearby woods and did my business.
Hahaha.

Bitch ended up cheating on me so now I wish I would have just taken a dump on her chest while she slept.
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OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGgg
hahahahaah thats so sweet of you
i bet you scared the deer and birds and stuff tho :worried:
 
Yeah I'm not really worried about the #2 thing.. she's more worried then I am.. we've gone on vacations and stuff before and had to share a hotel room..

this is one of the best stories.. we were on a vacation and like 3 days in she says she is nervous about taking a dump... and she hasn't gone for a few days.. I tell her its no big deal.. don' worry about it.. just go.. who cares.. mine are just as bad.. etc. So she says she will sometime. of course not right then on the spot.. she always gets up before me so I said just go in the morning before her shower... I'll never know.

So the next morning its like 7am.. I'm sleeping.. but I get woken up because my GF opens the room door and asks the cleaning people who are 2 doors down..
"excuse me... EXCUSE ME... Do you have a plunger?"

hahaha I couldn't help but laugh.. I didn't care, but she really was emabarrased.

Room service had no plunger so we called facilities... they didn't come for 2 hours.. but then the toilet situation had resolved iteself and I never had to go in there.
 
She clogged the Toilet? Was she taking a shit or a having an abortion?

Good laurd!




-BRR
 
hamstershaver said:
trust me its a lot worse when you walk in after she fires a nasty missle
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That's why you find a place where the bathroom has windows. Real stink sucks compared to e-stink here. Spray after you drop the deuce or your day will be ruined.

Don't flirt with the hot neighbors either or your shit will be outside..after falling from the windows.
 
Some things are about to change in your life........good luck man. I hope you found a good one.
 
gotmilk said:
That's why you find a place where the bathroom has windows. Real stink sucks compared to e-stink here. Spray after you drop the deuce or your day will be ruined.

Don't flirt with the hot neighbors either or your shit will be outside..after falling from the windows.
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His GF doesn't read EF, she won't get that message... Do you really think Lestat would toss her shit out the window?
He is much too civil for that.




-BRR
 
already met the neighbors.. they are young 20s and hot.. my GF knows them already through family connections.
 
Depends on how much you value your privacy and freedom.

Since you seem to really be dependent on women -- it'll probably work out great for you.

Moving in with a woman is great .. IF .. she's the right girl. It's the equivalent of marraige unless you plan on moving out at a specific point.

First few months are great. The newness is kinda fun, plus non-stop sex. Just like marraige. The real test comes 1 year later if you still feel that way. Hopefully you have a backup plan.

How well do you know this girl?
 
9- Make sure the neighbors know you use Steroids and you are crazy enough to kill them for messing with your chick.

10- Make friends with the retired, old lady on your floor, she is always home and sticks her nose in other people's business. She will let you know if some strange man walks in to your appartment after you leave.


Clogged the toiled? Good laurd thats a big dump!


-BRR
 
Lestat said:
that's the plan, probably gonna happen in November.

Any advice, comments from people who have done this thing before? I'm 28, never lived with a girlfriend before.
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DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!
 
That's great, Bri. I have a feeling things will work out just fine for you two. You seem to be at a good spot in the relationship. No reason not to take it to the next level. Plus, you're a good guy and from what you say about her, she's a good woman. I don't see any bad coming from this decision.

NYCGirl is very smart. She was right when she said you need te be completely honest and open from the get go or else it leads to problems down the road.

Good luck!
 
It wont last until you resolve your "I" complexes, till you find happiness in not or not knowing zen then it wont ever last. Harmony awaits though but if you dare to find heaven on earth
 
Smurfy said:
That's great, Bri. I have a feeling things will work out just fine for you two. You seem to be at a good spot in the relationship. No reason not to take it to the next level. Plus, you're a good guy and from what you say about her, she's a good woman. I don't see any bad coming from this decision.

NYCGirl is very smart. She was right when she said you need te be completely honest and open from the get go or else it leads to problems down the road.

Good luck!
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Thanks!

I've never lived with a girl before but had other GFs.. just never felt right.. it seems normal and natural now... I envision it having its challenges, but not bad challenges, everything in live has challenges. In the end it will bring about a lot more GOOD then anything is what I predict.
 
Hiatussin said:
BRR your woman minds you looking at porn
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A couple do, most don't know or even care.







-BRR
 
Congratulations!!!!! Moving in w/ your significant other is a make it or break it deal. You guys will either work out and be happy or you'll want to kill each other. Let's hope it's not the second option:) Good luck to you!!!
 
dated one gf for 3 years. Moved in together. Broke up in 3 months. we're still friends, but, wow, it was short.

if you're doing it for the right reasons (you see her as a future wife) and not just because of convenience or comfort or lifestyle or her nagging, more power to you.
 
11- Pick ONE cologne you like. Just ONE! and throw in the trash every other cologne bottle you own. Wear just ONE cologne for as long as you live with her.... It will be much easier to smell another man's cologne on her that way. "Bitch I only wear Armany, where did this DKNY smell come from? "

12- Keep matches, a lighter and some scented candels in the bathroom... For those nights when you go to a Mexican restaurant and the bathroom fan just wont do the trick.

13- Get a little screen to put on your drain in the shower. If another man showers there, his lucious blond hair (or curly, thick, black hairs depending on her flavor) will be trapped there! When in doubt: You can always pull up the screen and check it for foreign hair samples.





-BRR
 
bro, be yourself. be honest. and dont try so hard that it tires you out mentally. also, tactfully communicate with your partner, so that you both dont feel unnappreciated

oh, getting a spacious place where you can find a corner to claim as your own helps a lot

goodluck :)
 
Big Rick Rock said:
11- Pick ONE cologne you like. Just ONE! and throw in the trash every other cologne bottle you own. Wear just ONE cologne for as long as you live with her.... It will be much easier to smell another man's cologne on her that way. "Bitch I only wear Armany, where did this DKNY smell come from? "

12- Keep matches, a lighter and some scented candels in the bathroom... For those nights when you go to a Mexican restaurant and the bathroom fan just wont do the trick.

13- Get a little screen to put on your drain in the shower. If another man showers there, his lucious blond hair (or curly, thick, black hairs depending on her flavor) will be trapped there! When in doubt: You can always pull up the screen and check it for foreign hair samples.
-BRR
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Fuck rob, youre the Forensics Master with this shit.
 
Lestat said:
BRR you seem really paranoid!
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I don't know dude. I guess maybe I'm a little worried about you...
If I was in your position and gave a chick my heart, and one day she just broke up with me, and made it blatanly clear she wanted to see other people... I would never trust her ever again.

It's like why the fuck would she let me to fall in love with her if she wanted to play the field? Then things didn't turn out too well for her in the single world so she came back to me!

I'm just looking out for YOU bro. Don't take your eyes off her. Don't sleep for a second... If you see anything suspicious, don't confront her about it, just act normal and let the evidence build up.

I hope she learned from her mistakes and will never build up the courage to go looking for strange again... But you just never know.




-BRR
 
I appreciate the concern BBR, but I really think that CHEATING on me is the least of my concerns.. her getting cold feet or doubts.. that could be a possibility, who knows, who is to say that I never start to doubt? I dunno.. but cheating.. she'd never cheat, I can at least count on that.
 
Lestat said:
I appreciate the concern BBR, but I really think that CHEATING on me is the least of my concerns.. her getting cold feet or doubts.. that could be a possibility, who knows, who is to say that I never start to doubt? I dunno.. but cheating.. she'd never cheat, I can at least count on that.
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You are a very confident man and you should be. You are smart, built like a rock and you got a big dick... Unfortunatly the cheating part is not up to you. You can be doing all of the right things and she could still fuck around on ya. It is all about what is in her heart to do... And only she knows what lurks there.

Cheating requires:
1- Overwelming interest in somebody other than your mate.
2- An excuse (telling yourself that things are not OK in your own relationship)
3- Opportunity.
X- Courage to go thru with the act regardless of consenquences.

(1 + 2)3 + x = 69



She has already shown her darkside... Just be careful bro.





-BRR
 
14- Make sure you watch her getting dressed in the morning(don't make it obvious) before she leaves for work. Make sure you are there to watch her get undressed when she gets home from work... If she gets home wearing different panties, chances are she changed them to hide a sexual encounter.



-BRR
 
Lestat said:
that's the plan, probably gonna happen in November.

Any advice, comments from people who have done this thing before? I'm 28, never lived with a girlfriend before.
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kiss your relationship goodbye.... seriously don't do it.... stats say that if you do end up marrying your girl that it will end in divorce.

58% of married couples that lived with each other before marraige divorce.
 
Maverick said:
kiss your relationship goodbye.... seriously don't do it.... stats say that if you do end up marrying your girl that it will end in divorce.

58% of married couples that lived with each other before marraige divorce.
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those stats are skewed.

The people who DO NOT live together before they are married usually DO NOT do so because of religious reasons, they are what most people would call "traditional."

Those same couples are the ones that get married, and DO NOT divorce, even once the love is long gone and they despise each other. They stay together for the same religious and moral reasons that prevented them from getting married in the first place.

People get divorced, its unfortunate, but its because many people don't see marriage as a lifelong committment.

I'm 28 now, never lived with anyone, never been engaged, etc.. I take things slowly and think things though. I don't plan on getting married unless I am as close to 100% sure as humanly possible that this girl is right for me. I can't control her, but I would hope she is as near to 100% as I am... that's part of living, loving, and getting to know someone.
 
Lestat said:
those stats are skewed.

The people who DO NOT live together before they are married usually DO NOT do so because of religious reasons, they are what most people would call "traditional."

Those same couples are the ones that get married, and DO NOT divorce, even once the love is long gone and they despise each other. They stay together for the same religious and moral reasons that prevented them from getting married in the first place.

People get divorced, its unfortunate, but its because many people don't see marriage as a lifelong committment.

I'm 28 now, never lived with anyone, never been engaged, etc.. I take things slowly and think things though. I don't plan on getting married unless I am as close to 100% sure as humanly possible that this girl is right for me. I can't control her, but I would hope she is as near to 100% as I am... that's part of living, loving, and getting to know someone.
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good luck orb
 
Big Rick Rock said:
14- Make sure you watch her getting dressed in the morning(don't make it obvious) before she leaves for work. Make sure you are there to watch her get undressed when she gets home from work... If she gets home wearing different panties, chances are she changed them to hide a sexual encounter.



-BRR
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man you're f'n killing me
people bookmark this thread and write these down
makes me wonder which side of the fence you know these from.... outside the fence?
:lmao:
 
It's the day to day things that will either make or break your relationship.

Good luck.
 
Lestat said:
those stats are skewed.

The people who DO NOT live together before they are married usually DO NOT do so because of religious reasons, they are what most people would call "traditional."

Those same couples are the ones that get married, and DO NOT divorce, even once the love is long gone and they despise each other. They stay together for the same religious and moral reasons that prevented them from getting married in the first place.

People get divorced, its unfortunate, but its because many people don't see marriage as a lifelong committment.
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Its really not relevant why people stay together, what matters is that those marriages are holding up in greater numbers than those who chose to live together before marriage. The fact is that people who live together before marriage have a higher divorce rate, statistically speaking. If you say that its unfortunate that people dont view marriage as a lifelong commitment then you cant discount the reasons for couples who stay married, since they are the ones who view marriage as a lifelong commitment. Thats why the preacher tells them "for better or worse". Perhaps living together before marriage degrades the lifelong commitment that marriage was intended for, hence the higher divorce rate for those couples.
 
Lestat said:
[[...So my point is, will I ever really feel like i have my own personal space.. or does that concept just vanish when you move in with a significant other and should it be something I am comfortable with.

and what happens when you take a really bad #2 and she walks in the bathroom right after :worried:]]
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Like the others said, you'll never really know if you can live together until you try. As long as you've both been 'yourselves' up to this point, you already have a glimpse of what it will be like. Make sure you each have respect for each other's space and time. Continue to do the things you love to do. Like my BF told me, "We don't have to be up each others ass all the time" and he's right. I think the most important thing is knowing 'who' each other is exactly and not trying to change too much once you move in. If you had a date night, keep it going. Went out with friends on Thursday's...do that too. In the end its all about communication, IMO its seriously important. Holding things inside creates bitterness and animosity. I wish you good luck.

Oh, and by the way...You never really know if you love somebody until you have to smell their farts. :)
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