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Mom is all over my shit

JKurz1

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Got into a huge spat with my mom......she came out and asked me if I was using "steroids".....I laughed and said what? She then continued to say that my attitude and mood swings are driving her crazy.......she's afraid to talk to me....truth is, I've been off for 4-5 months, so maybe that has something to do with it.......also, I've been cutting hard for the past year (down to 6%, 6'2...185....) and thats what is killing her......."It won't hurt you to eat a xmas cookie....and I'd give my right arm to see you eat a candy bar..."

I told her it just doesnt appeal to me. She wants me to see a shrink cause she's scared I have a problem? Problem???? Why? Cause I train 2x a day? Cause I eat every 2.5 hours on the clock? Cause Im mixing shakes and she's mixcing cake batter? Don't get me wrong, my folks and family exercise daily too, just not to the same extreme and they really don't understand my thought process.

Oh, then she says she scared cause she can see my skull and her firends keep telling her to say something to me....."You looked soooo good in college" she says (I was 240 at about 13-14%)...solid........


I REALLY want to get up to that weight again....I really want to pound the food and knock off the cardio.......just can't beat the mind over matter thing......sorry for the vent bros, but you guys are the only ones I can really "talk" to.......karma for listening! lol
 
Bro do what is right for you. If you are not benging and throwing it up, or working out all the time for every cookie you eat do not worry about it. From what you regimine sounds like... that is what most pro athlete's as well as collegiate athlete's do. I hear ya bro and keep up the good work.

P.S. If you can handle it go with a compromise. One day to eat with the family what the family eat's. Not a pig out day but a normal day of rest. Just might get her off you back... although it could be great for the calves and all. LOL
 
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thnx bro - truth is I havent had a cookie, junk fast food in YEARS.....nothing, nada, zilch, but I don't crave it at all.....I eat shelled peanuts and a frosty ass protein shake with tons of splenda and ff cool whip every night while watching tv, which cures all cravings.......but, I do agree with her..I need to put the weight back on...just so damn hard!
 
well, cyberx said it all
I'll just add that, surely, a cookie won't hurt you.
 
oh, and btw, if you want a different perspective on the matter:
A while back, I got into a huge spat with my mom for exactly the opposite reason.
I never hear her say stuff like "'It won't hurt you to eat a xmas cookie....and I'd give my right arm to see you eat a candy bar'".
the fuk? are you kidding? my mom said:" OMG, you eat too much!! More than anybody in this family. IT's not normal. You can't be spending all your money on the toilet, you know. Your father never ate as much.... yada yada."

I say:" Mom, if you dont feel like cooking anything, FINE. Just dont give me any lectures about how much I eat. It's my money, so It's up to me to decide how to spend them. And I know for the fact that I dont eat as much as I should."

some shit like that.
so, yours is not that bad a situation.
 
Man if you arent craving any of that stuff,dont sweat it.I wish I wanted to eat clean all the time.As long as you are still eating enough,and like the other guy said not binging and throwing up,then it sounds like you are just eating healthy,and not really stressing out to keep yourself from eating junk food.I dont see anything wrong with that.
 
i with you blade66...my dad calls me a fat ass b/c all i do is eat...funny thing is though im only bout 10%bf.
 
Yeah, when I started working out I was 275lbs of flab. Drove my father CRAZY! There were times when I really didn't know what I was doing, but the stuff like not eating pizza when that's what everyone else was having really pushed his buttons. I think the big thing there was he is one of those people who always talk about getting in shape, when I was actually doing it. Of course, now he tells everyone how fat I am as the result of a recent bulk (he used to complain that I was too skinny for awhile too). Can't please everyone, please yourself.
 
Im currently in a huge argument with my father over what I eat,my mom usually does the shopping but she is off with a broke ankle and had surgery so he shops and never buys me the food I need,and I mentioned it and he freaked claiming I eat to much and he cant afford to feed me(he makes 50k a yr) yet our cupboards are filled with snack food, and he claims Im a idiot for using steroids which make me eat so much and I dont need them. I told him he doesnt understand and left it at that. hopefully both our situation improve bro,parents can be a pain in the ass
 
Hey oak i thought you and your dad were planning on doing a cycle together?

didnt you mention that some months back?
 
he wanted to but his mind changes like the weather and he went back to being unhealthy and living a crappy life, he never said I cant just that I am a idiot. he will lay off but he has phases of being a jerk off where he threatens to kick me out every 6 months or so
 
that sucks man.

makes me realize what great parents I have.....

remember how this stuff made you feel when you have kids of your own, and always be supportive.
 
"I REALLY want to get up to that weight again....I really want to pound the food and knock off the cardio.......just can't beat the mind over matter thing......sorry for the vent bros, but you guys are the only ones I can really "talk" to.......karma for listening! lol"

So you saying that you want to gain size, but are afraid of overeating?

Just look at it this way: If you have the discipline to eat so strictly, apply it to eating properly while bulking and just see the fat gain as a symbol of progress- the more fat you put on, you'll be gaining still more muscle. I know that sounds kind of sounds silly, but its true. And if your goal is size, you should feel rewarded for GETTING BIGGER, not trimming up.

Everyone hates gaining fat when they bulk...you could just work out with a freind who has the same size goals as you, and watch him put on some pudge with you. It'll help the mental thing

Good luck packing on the mass and getting your mom off your back.
 
thanks for the attempt, but I if I could get over the fear factor, Id be set...I think it was cause I fat in college (or a tad smooth) and don't wanna be like that again....I like the fact that everyone knows I'm shredded......but to be big and shredddded.....now we talkn
 
Actually, you might have the coolest mom out there. Maybe she's pissed because you lost 35-40 lbs of pure muscle in your quest to get shredded. At least if your figures are right. Sounds like you got a bit hasty in cutting.
 
Bro it is possible to gain size and maintain your body fat. It is maticulouse or however you spell it, but requires alot of decipline and planning but it can be done. I have been reading Mr.X's articles and he has some good ones on the subject. Remember with size also comes hunger. However I think you will be o.k. All you need to do is tweek you diet just a little and you should be fine. If the body fat does get out of hand then just do the CKD diet as I have heard it works wonders. In this game you just have to know your body and it's limmits. Hope this helps?
 
cyber and debaser...100% on point.......you dont know how much help your two posts were........I'm tweaking tomorrow......full egg w/ my whites in the am.......tb of flax midam w/ myiolex......adding a yam (6oz) to my chx and salad for 3.........pb and shake preworkout.......extra handful of peanuts late night.......we'll see from there....havent had junk in YEARS and dont plan on it.....my bro who is a top ohio amatuer strolls in with 3 junior bacons and a large fry.......dick!
 
It is more politically correct for an out of shape person to mock someone who trains hard than it is for someone who trains hard to mock the out of shape fat people.
 
what are you saying???? Both of my parents are in excellent physical shape as I stated earlier......even my mom lifts 3x a day and spins prob X4-5..........so, that shoots that theory.....
 
Regarding how to deal with your mother, just be patient and curtious and always say you appreciate her interest in your well being. Don't argue, don't raise your voice.

You don't come to the boards and complain when it rains. You probably don't even get angry. You just accept it as nature. Recognize the same with your mum.

Also, I presume you don't live with her, right?
 
Your just spinning your wheels. Quit eating like a girl and working out twice a day. So what if your body fat goes up a little. It's give and take.
 
Eating like a girl?? WTF!!!! Many girls eat wayyyyy more than me.........lol........I know bro..nothing I havent heard......just need to f-ing do it already
 
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