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Men. Do you ever weep?

biteme

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I don't mean like just a few tears, but I mean from deep down in your soul, i.e, at the death or suffering of others and from any pain you may have caused others out of selfishness or ignorance?
 
35 minutes and nary a response. Unfortunately, anger is the only emotion men seem to be comfortable discussing
 
actually, all i can manage is to squeeze out a couple of tears and then i'm dry. even at my dads funeral..........
 
I was pretty weepy after watching Awakenings. Something about that movie really got to me.

I've done some weeping after losing people close to me.

Btw - I also have an 8 inch penis and beat my wife.
 
I have weep hmmmm the last time was just few tears it the movie "The Notebook" got to me not in the sense of the couple die etc.... but because the old man remind me of my father who is about that age, he still alive and great shape but just thought of him being dead got me!!
 
Of course.

There have been a couple of events in my life, that when I faced the emormity of them, i could not control my emotions.

Im a faily unemotional person(to the general public)...something allows me to store those emotions inside until I need them on stage.

Is that healthy??

Probably not
 
strangebrew said:
I was pretty weepy after watching Awakenings. Something about that movie really got to me.

I've done some weeping after losing people close to me.

Btw - I also have an 8 inch penis and beat my wife.

haha thats funny :)
 
HumanTarget said:
it's caused some problems for me, my gf thinks i'm insincere and unfeeling.

you not crying dont meen anything, really. You can still be hurting inside, but dont shed a tear
 
The Shadow said:
Of course.

There have been a couple of events in my life, that when I faced the emormity of them, i could not control my emotions.

Im a faily unemotional person(to the general public)...something allows me to store those emotions inside until I need them on stage.

Is that healthy??

Probably not

Sure it's healthy. You articulate a full range of emotions and that's great. As long as the feelings are processed you can stay healthy.

Society infuriates me because it punishes the hell out of sweet little boys for being human and expressing a full range of emotions, then so often they grow up to be men who struggle with even being aware of, much less articulating, any emotion other than anger.
 
The guy I live with is just a brewing mess of rage a lot of the time because he doesn't deal with his feelings. Then it all erupts into a freaky horrible mess of a breakdown and he loses it completely.

It's sad.
 
HumanTarget said:
it's caused some problems for me, my gf thinks i'm insincere and unfeeling.

that's an extremely common occurance. I was just thinking of that when I was writing my previous post. The way society teaches little boys to behave and express their feelings ends up building a wall between men and women. It's fucking stupid.
 
foreigngirl said:
you not crying dont meen anything, really. You can still be hurting inside, but dont shed a tear
actually, i cried like a wee baby when my cat got run over.
 
Shit yeah. Part of the grieving process.

Not too often these days though. Certain triggers can bring it on though. Makes me feel better, believe it or not.
 
RottenWillow said:
Sure it's healthy. You articulate a full range of emotions and that's great. As long as the feelings are processed you can stay healthy.

Society infuriates me because it punishes the hell out of sweet little boys for being human and expressing a full range of emotions, then so often they grow up to be men who struggle with even being aware of, much less articulating, any emotion other than anger.

Agreed......but its months between shows for me.....long time to carry stuff around that should have been dealt with in a timely manner
 
RottenWillow said:
that's an extremely common occurance. I was just thinking of that when I was writing my previous post. The way society teaches little boys to behave and express their feelings ends up building a wall between men and women. It's fucking stupid.
yup. and due to that, i have anger problems. i let it build till i fucking explode. like, you know, when someone locks you in an underground storage tank and thinks it's funny and won't let you out no matter how much you scream and just when you think ur gonna fucking die cuz it's so hard to breath and they finally open the latch and they're laughing and pointing and i take a fucking fire axe and bury it in his fucking shoulder and now i'm the asshole???????????
 
c-sharp minor said:
Shit yeah. Part of the grieving process.

Not too often these days though. Certain triggers can bring it on though. Makes me feel better, believe it or not.

True. It's a release. All that emotion has to go somewhere.
 
The Shadow said:
Not necessarily...but things like anger/rage only come out on stage


I guess that could actually be a good outlet for expressing your feelings.

Never thought of acting in that way before.
 
HumanTarget said:
like, you know, when someone locks you in an underground storage tank and thinks it's funny and won't let you out no matter how much you scream and just when you think ur gonna fucking die cuz it's so hard to breath and they finally open the latch and they're laughing and pointing

good lord....what a cruel and thoughtless thing to do to someone. :(
 
The Shadow said:
Agreed......but its months between shows for me.....long time to carry stuff around that should have been dealt with in a timely manner

aha...I see. You're right that's far from ideal, but relative to most men, who sometimes never experience their real feelings and deal with them, you have a pretty good vehicle for processing stuff.
 
I need a time machine to bring Steve McQueen to the present to smack the fuck outa you pussies.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
I need a time machine to bring Steve McQueen to the present to smack the fuck outa you pussies.
get Lee Marvin too, while your at it. he's always drunk and violent.
 
Sometimes I don't cry when I really want to. Like when my uncle died. I felt bad for not crying at the funeral, I was just standing there like some emotionless robot. He had suffered through a long illness and maybe I was just already prepared to deal with the loss?

Other times that I have cried are 9/11/2001. I was at work and when I felt like I was going to cry, I left so nobody would see me. It says something about our society that a man feels like he can't cry in front of other people. I also cried when our family's cat died. The little fur ball brought a lot of happiness to my family.

On a slightly different note, it seems to me like black men cry more than white men. Or perhaps they are more willing to cry in front of others. Has anyone else noticed this? I'm just basing that on personal experiences.
 
Yea I got really upset when my heffer died. I had her since birth and was gonna show her in the livestock show to. But she got sick and died.
 
biteme said:
I don't mean like just a few tears, but I mean from deep down in your soul, i.e, at the death or suffering of others and from any pain you may have caused others out of selfishness or ignorance?
i made a thread like this already :(

im crying because this on ehas more posts than mine did
 
c-sharp minor said:
. Makes me feel better, believe it or not.
of course it does

sometimes i feel like i need to cry, sort of like burping almost, u feel so shity and know u can just let it out with a cry...but for me i can never get that cry

although a little while ago (near when i made my thread) i got a few tears out and it felt really good.

mine was for the stupidest reason ever th ough, but it was probably a long time coming from alot of different stressers
 
yup I have,wont get into details,but I find its best that I let off little vents of emotion here and there as opposed to bottling it up and blowing up at people and turning into a raging angerholic or weeping uncontrollably
 
I get emotional especially when I'm ill. I can't go anywhere tonight because of a fever. When I read the stories of heartache and suffering on these boards, I have cried. I pray for you all and I have love in my heart for you because of the love and hope that has been planted in me.
 
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