Men are pigs...

[jackangel]

tweakle is a fucking beast.

 

[Gambino]

Did your father ever tell you that sometimes you sound REALLY DUMB?

I know the truth might hurt, but hell, that is what people who love you are for..... right?

Don't get pissed at me, as my comment was NOT a personal attack. I was merely trying to point out the silliness of your statement.

There is a difference between calling your daughter FAT (and other such derrogatory comments) in front of other peeps (wonder what he calls her in private) and saying to your daughter, "Hey baby, listen I want to be around for you and someday my grandchildren so I joined a local gym. What say you be my workout partner to keep me motivated?" ..... or some such.

And Blue - yea, amongst other things he says shit like that ALL the time to all of my girls. Makes you wonder why the guy has been fighting me so hard to try and get them away from me all of these years.

It's all good. His time is coming and very soon.

i didn't really mean it like in a demeaning way
making fun of somebody, not what i meant
the raw truth...you're a little bit overweight, you could lose some weight, etc.
and you've made many a comment regarding how americans are fat
so i don't see what the difference is, except i'm saying call them to their faces
(if warranted)

 

[javaguru]

tweakle is a fucking beast.

So you're saying you would hit it????

 

[Sub-Zero]

And you bitch about them calling you fat now, in fact you cry.

Make up your mind.

i already know i am/was fat, so them saying it after the fact doenst help

 

[biteme]

oink, oink

 

[Bikini Mod]

i didn't really mean it like in a demeaning way
making fun of somebody, not what i meant
the raw truth...you're a little bit overweight, you could lose some weight, etc.
and you've made many a comment regarding how americans are fat
so i don't see what the difference is, except i'm saying call them to their faces
(if warranted)

With all of the pressure for women to be thin (dont know if it is the same in Canada as it is in the US) do you honestly believe that a 17 year old girl
doesn't realize she is fat if she is?

But more importantly do you think that it is remotely helpfull for the father of that 17 year old girl to call her fat in front of someone else?

I was fat from the time I was a little kid and trust me when I tell you - I KNEW IT. I suffered for years with all sorts of eating disorders because I didnt WANT to be fat. I just didn't know how not to be. I didn't understand how different foods would be metabolized in my body, nor did I understand the importance of physical fitness. I know that sounds silly, but it is 100% true. So all I knew to do was to starve myself. Even when I did join a gym at 17 (I had a car and a job so I could pay for my gas/insurance/gym membership, etc) I STILL didn't understand how food was metabolized or how too much cardio and no weight resistance training would actually be counterproductive and make me skinny-fat. Thus began the vicious cycle of yo-yo weight fluctuations.

Believe it or not but it wasn't until I accidentally stumbled upon the women's training forum of elite (around the time I began competing and modeling) and got hooked up with an AWESOME trainer (helped me prepare for my first BBing comp) that I truly learned the basic principles necessary to attain and maintain fitness. The last 10 years of knowledge that I have gained through working w/clients as a personal trainer only added to that base.

Bottom line is there are A LOT of fatties out there who are just clueless and having family call them fat in front of total strangers doesnt help.

To talk to your own child that way is ABUSIVE. period. It doesn't motivate someone, it actually causes that person to hate themselves MORE.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

then go find some apron strings, pops....

Haven't gotten laid lately huh?

Sorry!