Married people

[theoak01]

Honeymoon is NEEDED after planning a wedding and that day. It is a great way to get ride of stress afterwards! Plus as it gets closer, you have in the back of your mind, "THE HONEYMOON" makes the BS fights about things easier to get through. Trust me, I just got married and my wife and I said "Bermuda" all the time. It was like a goal to get to with all of the bs. Once it passes, it passes and it gone. It will just become another vacation if you take it later, if you take it later... Best of luck!

thanks man,I definately agree the honeymoon has been a nice thought after how stressful all this business is. she wants to go somewhere local or some shit like the falls which in november is fucking boring imo, but im not picking any fights over stupid shit,got enough other stuff going on then fighting about a honeymoon

 

[Cutiebaby]

wow, I did not know you were getting married. Congrats to you!
I don't think that some huge honeymoon is necessary. Can't you stay in a honeymoon suite not to far away for a few nights?
I was never one to want to go to the islands or anything...As long as I had some alone time with him I was fine!

 

[Longhorn85]

as you know Im getting married Nov 10 and my wonderful soon to be wife wanted this huge wedding and I just sat back shut up and didnt say fuck all, but now when its coming to honeymoon planning we are fighting about the fact that we might have to put it on credit and pay it off over a few months

I'd rather see people spend a lot of money on the honeymoon than on the wedding ceremony.

I've been to some lavish wedding ceremonies for marriages that did not last. At least a honeymoon would be a good vacation.

Mrs Longhorn and I took our honeymoon at the 7 year mark.

 

[timtim]

or a hooker once a week for a year

you sly son of a bitch

 

[heavy_duty]

honeymoon AWAY from all the idiots at the wedding (her family LOL) is very good.

 

[digimon7068]

assuming that you have the financial where-with-all to pay. . .i say go on the honeymoon NOW. . .if you don't go now, you probably never will. . .and even if you do it won't be the same. . .traditions became traditions for a reason. . .plus, there's usually a shit-load of stress leading up to getting married (especially if you do and pay for everything yourself like my wife and i did) and that get-away downtime for a week after is very important (to put things in perspective) imho. . .with regard to the "debt" thing, as long as you are both repsonsible spenders, i say it's no big deal. . .at various times throughout our marriage, my wife and i have had all kinds of debt (house, cars, etc.). . .debt is a fact of life. . .managing it and having a spouse that has similar ideas about money is the real trick. . .while i appreciate your girl's responsible attitude, i think that you can be too responsible sometimes. . .

 

[Faizakafez]

Here is a suggestion,

go on small vacation now ( like something for the weekend just to get away) then a few months down the road when all is good and well go for the real thing it would probally be cheaper if you went in say Feb vs December

 

[yonkers weights]

Get the fuck out of Dodge. GO AWAY!
Even if it is a weekend trip to a bed and breakfast. Do something romantic, it does not have to cost a lot. Just something to look forward to after the wedding. Alone time for you two to unwind together!

thanks man,I definately agree the honeymoon has been a nice thought after how stressful all this business is. she wants to go somewhere local or some shit like the falls which in november is fucking boring imo, but im not picking any fights over stupid shit,got enough other stuff going on then fighting about a honeymoon

 

[foreigngirl]

Married guys should not go to strip bars.

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[Bikini Mod]

thanks man,I definately agree the honeymoon has been a nice thought after how stressful all this business is. she wants to go somewhere local or some shit like the falls which in november is fucking boring imo, but im not picking any fights over stupid shit,got enough other stuff going on then fighting about a honeymoon

Smart man - methinks you will have a long and prosperous marriage.