Marriage. Should i?

[-Ariel-]

I vote Yes.
Also I didn't think I would ever consider getting married, just didn't think it was for me.
Things change though.

 

[SaiBoT]

When you are in a committed relationship, your test levels drop. Just hold a baby (not even yours), and your free test levels drop even further. They drop so you'll chase wiminz less.

When you cycle, you disrupt that biological mechanism and feel less attached.

 

[SaiBoT]

Do It.

I think U should.

Sorry didn't read the thread...
Congrats and great to see ya.

What about you brah? When will you?

 

[SaiBoT]

In 10 or less years, when that hot piece of ass turns fat, has 3 kids, drives to soccer practice, face starts falling - are you still going to love her with ALL your heart???

If your only attraction to her is physical (and lots of young guy let's admit it, are whipped by a woman's beauty) then either don't get married, or feel free to join the marriage hell line, which has quite a bit line here on EF already

Marriage with the right person is great.

Marriage with the WRONG person is HELL.

And yes, EVERYONE when getting married believes they are in the first group. Which is why I never even waste any time even talking to them about it. What's the point. Be known as the guy "who talked him out of marrying her!". lol. I do not want chicks wearing wedding dresses coming at me with axes.

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At this point my atraction to her goes beyond physical aspects, must confess that I dated some hotties who had their valuable assets, but my current girlfriend let me just say that she satisfies my mind and I find her beautiful on the inside.

 

[SaiBoT]

gosh...

other than that i agree with this dude!



P.S. are u sure she wants to? umm one my ex's asked me a couple years back......and it freaked me out(not the reaction i envisioned a marriage proposal would bring). after that incident, things went downhill pretty fast and it was all over within 2 months.



which brings me to a question for the guys in this thread. WTF is marriage material girl anyways? that ex described me as such and a few other guys say/said this and it freakin sounds like an insult truth be told, like stay at home obedient wifey type insult, that whole i am man, and your a mere woman insult!


thats all, end of rant. no more nice ebony. I'm going to kick the next dude's ballz and pepper spray him if he says i'm marriage material....if it sounds insulting.

To me "marriage material girl" it's the kind of girl that actually listen to you and you to her, you are totally hooked to all her aspects (physical, intelectual, spiritual etc) and you can actually see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, imagine her being the mother of your children, stuff like that. IMHO i don't see it as nothing bad and if a guy confesses that to you, it's because he has nothing but good feelings towards you, at least that's the only reason why I would say that to a girl

 

[*ebony*]

To me "marriage material girl" it's the kind of girl that actually listen to you and you to her, you are totally hooked to all her aspects (physical, intelectual, spiritual etc) and you can actually see yourself spending the rest of your life with her, imagine her being the mother of your children, stuff like that. IMHO i don't see it as nothing bad and if a guy confesses that to you, it's because he has nothing but good feelings towards you, at least that's the only reason why I would say that to a girl

thats what i kinda thought too, which is why some of those statements are/were ridiculous. some people here on EF know me A LOT better than any of these guys ever will, so it was hard to take any of it to heart(i don't know why it sounds insulting at times, but it just did). i just concluded that it was a new pick up line or something.

anyways congrats. i have yet to cross paths with the person i'm going to ask to marry me.

 

[SaiBoT]

thats what i kinda thought too, which is why some of those statements are/were ridiculous. some people here on EF know me A LOT better than any of these guys ever will, so it was hard to take any of it to heart(i don't know why it sounds insulting at times, but it just did). i just concluded that it was a new pick up line or something.

anyways congrats. i have yet to cross paths with the person i'm going to ask to marry me.

She was the one who asked me actually I have came across who thought of my as a good man to be a good parent, one of them did told me that during sex and I swear I lost my "hardness" right on the spot

 

[*ebony*]

She was the one who asked me actually I have came across who thought of my as a good man to be a good parent, one of them did told me that during sex and I swear I lost my "hardness" right on the spot

lol*make mental not not to say word father, parent during*

you can really lose tha "hardness" on the spot. all that really can deflate in an instant? hate for that to happen to me.

 

[SaiBoT]

lol*make mental not not to say word father, parent during*

you can really lose tha "hardness" on the spot. all that really can deflate in an instant? hate for that to happen to me.

Well yeah the image in my mind was pretty disturbing still was just for a few seconds and I got over it saying we should change the position, that gave me enough time to clear my head and get back to it