love hurts, love scars, etc.

[Draggon]

I will PM you with info on how I work stuff out with my father.

As for the other. It's not stupid just a common case of where someone had stronger feelings for for the other and it wasn't returned. Sometimes we do confuse a strong romantic connection with love. You can obviously Love someone (we love a close friend & family ) But, when it's true love you want be able to do anything about it. And always remember what ever is ment to be will be because, love knows no boundaries

 

[Big Brother Val]

I don't know. I wish I could say. If I could, I wouldn't be in the situation I am now. Totally, completely in love with a woman... who won't even have a real conversation with me anymore. Why am I hangin' on? Hopin' to recover what we had.

There's no answer. People want what they can't have. If they KNOW they can have it, then it's not as interesting. Maybe telling someone that you love them is the problem.

But who really knows.

 

[Draggon]

Nordstrom Check you PM


Val,

All I can say is that she's not th one for you. I know it's not any comfort but, I do know exactly how you feel. But, you really have to stop thinking about the future and look at today. And when your thoughts move to your current circumstances reverse them and think about somthing else. And definately don't let her get the best of you. Keep your head up..

 

[The_Ghost]

I have been in love 3 times in my life and have been lucky enough that all 3 woman loved me as well. It was all good except for the last one who's love for me wasn't as strong as my love for her.

One thing I don't do is tell a woman I love her before she tells me she loves me. I might know it but I don't say it. I have seen to many friends relationships go down the tubes when they said they loved their woman first. Maybe its crazy but it is just the way it is for me.

 

[Lord_Suston]

Cut the crap,
All I know is that If one sex likes the other then the other doesn't like them. If you want a girl then be a dick tyo one that always attracts them. Men always say they are in love cause women are afraid to.... If you want a nice women try to find one that doesn't speak english or has never had sex as is real freak but she doesn't know it yet.

 

[Milhouse]

I have been in love 3 times in my life and have been lucky enough that all 3 woman loved me as well. It was all good except for the last one who's love for me wasn't as strong as my love for her.

One thing I don't do is tell a woman I love her before she tells me she loves me. I might know it but I don't say it. I have seen to many friends relationships go down the tubes when they said they loved their woman first. Maybe its crazy but it is just the way it is for me.

You know what it's not crazy it's true. What I do find funny in my own life with a few eceptions is that the chicks who want me I dont want. And the ones I want don't want me.

The other funny thing that has happened on and off over the years is that when I made that mistake of expressing my feelings first for some reason it fucks up. And they go with some cocksmoker who treats em like shit. Then a few weeks later I get the call saying how they should have been with me and they made a mistake and I am the nice one blah blah blah. And then I say "well you had your chance and you blew it. If you had of said this weeks ago yep it would be ok, but now I am over you and am not interested anymore"(I do this even if I am interested, not a doormat, even if it hurts like shit)

 

[Milhouse]

Forgot to add that presently I have been in love with someone but it aint gonna happen. She is a good friend anyways and I have other stuff to deal with so am strong enough to put my feelings aside now and take care of myself.

 

[Frackal]

Frackal Wisdom:

Love is fuckin' crazy. You may quote me on that.

 

[Mighty P]

Look at it this way. If she doesn't want you, then she's not worth your time. Fuck her! Just blow her off. It's hard as hell but you're better than that. Especially if she won't even have a conversation with you. Go find someone who will appriciate you. They're out there, but they don't just fall into your lap. You gotta put yourself in situations to meet people. Just try to make more female friends, the love thing will come when it comes.

 

[freshr1]

I've said it a thousand times ... dont get attached to a girl unless she's the one you wanna marry & have kids with.

Why go "steady" with a girl and have a quasi-marriage, when all you really want is to lay some pipe? I like my freedom thankyouvermuch, and I meet a lot of girls whom I have fun with. Cause that's all I want. I've been in "serious" relationships of course, but why go through that crap and then in the end suffer for months while your training goes to hell, your school/work get fucked over and you ignore all your REAL friends? When I was younger I thought I needed to be loved, but that's bullshit. When I'm ready to settle down I'll meet someone who I think will make a good mother.

In the mean time, I'll just screw around