Ladies! What Does This Mean?

[Ronin738]

MY ex-girlfriend lives in florida with her current boyfriend and in the past we had talked about me moving to the same city because my job offers me some better oppurtunities there but i was hesistant.
We broke up about three years ago before she moved there . It wasn't because we weren't getting along . It was because we both had successful jobs in different states and sometimes it was impossible to see each other. Anyway, the break up was amicable and every time she was in town we fell into bed every chance we got. Then she moved to Florida with the guy that she started dating after me and lives with currently.
We still exchange gifts for b-days, christmas, whatever and every now and then i send her flowers to surprise her but i haven't really made any aggressive gestures saying that i wanted her back.
Anyway about 6 months ago, something bad happened and she needed help and called me. I was on the next plane out and spent two days helping her get her problem solved w/o her boyfriend ever knowing i was there. I asked why he couldn't help her when they lived together and never got an answer. So i took her out to dinner and dancing, but no sex.
The last 2 months she has been calling me on a regular basis, about three times a week, asking questions about my life, if i plan to move to florida, and just general conversation. Before that we only spoke may be once a month. Sometimes once every two months. i would love to move to Florida. MORE MONEy!!!!! And i would definitely love to have her back but i can't figure out if she 's just being friendly or i'm missing some signals. What does it mean when the ex starts calling again?

 

[manny78]

Bro trust me on this one: it's time for you to move. SHe really wants you back. Good luck

 

[##spiderbaby##]

Well I'm no lady but I'll give it a shot.

She likes you but on her terms. If she really loved you she would not be living with/ have a boyfriend and she would make the nessesary changes to live near you or you live near her. Same goes for you if you "love" her.
She likes you but not enough to change her life for you.

If she slept with you while she was dating and living with her boyfriend then this is no woman you want to be with, but you already know that. Dont let your dick do the talking in this situation.

Your one of her support systems. Your a problem solver in her life. Your role as problem solver is a pretty crappy position to be in.

I'm not saying shes not a perfectly nice woman outside of your relationship. However, she does the driving in your relationship. Go ahead and move to Florida if thats what you want, but dont do it to try and win her back. It is my opinion that a woman who cheats on her bf/husband is not worth any more than a night of sex, if that.


Just my .02 worth.

##spiderbaby##

 

[alexiarenee]

I think she wants you back.
However, something might have happened between that other guy and her and she may be using you as a rebound.
Maybe he left her or something......something to think about.
It could be since all of a sudden she is calling often and such.

 

[Pamela]

Yes I think she wants you back.

I would move there and date each other
for awhile. Not move in together.

If you really want and Love her give it
some time to grow.

Best of Luck to you...