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just told the new GF I need space

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Too much, too soon, and she's too old for me. She started crying and shit, really sucks.
 
She had just handed me a card telling me how much she loved me..
 
I openly said I gave it til March when you started talking marriage with this girl. You couldn't wait two more days so I could be right? Dick.
 
She cried?

bleh


When she cries it makes you feel all bad and stuff.



Unless she's a total bitch and you hate her. Doesn't sound like this girl is though.
 
She'll be schtoinking someone else inside of a month.
 
dude, you're never gonna learn or listen or change - sorry bro... this is just my opinion here from having read a number of your posts.

a month ago you came on here telling everyone how you met the perfect woman and she is the one and you click and have spent every night together since you first met and my words were: Too much, too fast, too soon and you were like no, this is different....

Good luck man, I hope it all works out for you.
 
Too much, too soon, and she's too old for me. She started crying and shit, really sucks.
sorry bro...but seen this coming...cannot go from having multiple girls and attention to complete change of life and hangin with one girl...as soon as the newness wears off and u realize its just you and her..shit is dead...
 
a girl recently told me "the worst mistake any person could ever make is to care about you". when she was in town for work and basically begged me to meat up with her and I didn't (it was the fucking night before I was leaving for a huge event) she left me a very long crying voice mail message. I actually found myself not caring in the least bit. I'm a little too old to be affected by ingenuine and illogical tears. Real tears? Yeah, that sucks. I don't like hurting people. But the first response to way too many situations (love, work, finance, etc.) for girls is to cry. They learn over the years (much like Pavlov's dog) that those around them respond to crying with sympathy and hugs (etc.).

i'm a dickhead
 
Sounds like the 'love phase' chemicals have stopped being produced. Some good psychology there if ya'll wanna read about it. It's very scientific and explains how some people can become addicted to those chemicals, and crash hard once they stop being produced (hence the love love love love boom breakup scenarios).

r
 
a girl recently told me "the worst mistake any person could ever make is to care about you". when she was in town for work and basically begged me to meat up with her and I didn't (it was the fucking night before I was leaving for a huge event) she left me a very long crying voice mail message. I actually found myself not caring in the least bit. I'm a little too old to be affected by ingenuine and illogical tears. Real tears? Yeah, that sucks. I don't like hurting people. But the first response to way too many situations (love, work, finance, etc.) for girls is to cry. They learn over the years (much like Pavlov's dog) that those around them respond to crying with sympathy and hugs (etc.).

i'm a dickhead

she wanted to give you food like steak?
 
I'm not laughing because it's not funny to the extent that someone's feelings were hurt but dude, tell the board ALL OF US DIDN'T PREDICT THIS "Play by Play"?

I especially loved the whole "she's too old". Ummmmm you didn't fucking know her exact age when you turned her out night one?

You don't get married for *love*. You get married for SEX... (the chemical response thingy that RG was referring too - is the biological urge to reproduce - men are designed to spread their seed and women are designed to choose a mate that will be with them and care for their children - pregnancy/infancy through adolescents... this situation benefits THEIR child. the males also want that woman to be with only them so as to insure that they are *wasting their lives* taking care of the progeny of another man)

You get married for:

1. LIKE

2. RESPECT

3. COMMON LIFE GOALS

If any one of these three key components is missing from the relationship, then you have two people that like to fuck. Enjoy that while it lasts but PUH-LEASE do not delude yourself into thinking that the attraction will last longer than several weeks, or years in some cases when the couple becomes complacent/scared - too lazy or chickenshit to keep looking for a more ideal situation.

Interesting, I had this very conversation with some friends at the cigarbar last night. Both men were married 30+ years and though I've only been married (2+ this go around) they agreed with my assessment 100%.
 
you should have used her tears as lube and jerked off in her face and pointed to the door.

maybe subconsciously/consciously you like your solitude and being "trapped" freaks you out...?

but seriously you should have done the first thing i wrote!!
 
Sounds like the 'love phase' chemicals have stopped being produced. Some good psychology there if ya'll wanna read about it. It's very scientific and explains how some people can become addicted to those chemicals, and crash hard once they stop being produced (hence the love love love love boom breakup scenarios).

r

yeah bro, it was very sudden. It was more of a feeling than anything I think.
 
Sounds like the 'love phase' chemicals have stopped being produced. Some good psychology there if ya'll wanna read about it. It's very scientific and explains how some people can become addicted to those chemicals, and crash hard once they stop being produced (hence the love love love love boom breakup scenarios).

r

We develop a resistance to the chemicals after about two years. Issues this early on can't be blamed on that lol.
 
P.S.

I even just started an automatic withdrawal savings account for a possible engagement ring in the future. I figure 12 months of saving and I can pay for a nice rock with cash. If we break up, I'll have a nice down payment on a house = >


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P.S.

I even just started an automatic withdrawal savings account for a possible engagement ring in the future. I figure 12 months of saving and I can pay for a nice rock with cash. If we break up, I'll have a nice down payment on a house = >


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MEMEMEMEMEME

Bro, legal precedent, she has to give back the ring once the engagement is broken off.

Just file that info.
 
P.S.

I even just started an automatic withdrawal savings account for a possible engagement ring in the future. I figure 12 months of saving and I can pay for a nice rock with cash. If we break up, I'll have a nice down payment on a house = >


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MEMEMEMEMEME

That good, huh? Good for you, I really hope it pans out. :)
 
Bro, legal precedent, she has to give back the ring once the engagement is broken off.

Just file that info.

lol, yea no kidding.

When I broke off my last (and only) engagment, I waited until she got into the shower and snagged the ring. I even ended up making a 3k profit on the resale :verygood:
 
P.S.

I even just started an automatic withdrawal savings account for a possible engagement ring in the future. I figure 12 months of saving and I can pay for a nice rock with cash. If we break up, I'll have a nice down payment on a house = >


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MEMEMEMEMEME

that is a good fucking idea
 
I thought that legally she was only obligated to return the ring if SHE broke it off. If he breaks it off then she can keep the ring and sell it for a nice profit. LOL

The saving for a ring/house idea has merit. I am thinkin that anyone (male/female - in a committed relationship or otherwise) should save some money for real estate/rainy day regardless.
 
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