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Just found out I have a 6 yr old daughter

rudeboyja

rudeboyja

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Long story made short. I was messing around with this engaged girl about 7 years ago. She looks exactly like Daisy Fuentes. So she's going thru a divorce now. Apparently her ex found out she wasn't the most faithful & had a paternity test and found out the kid wasn't his. Dude was understandibly devistated. She called me to say she thinks the girl might be mine. I took one look at her & I know that she is. I feel like my whole fuckin world change in one weekend. The woman doesn't want anything from me, but if it is my daughter, which i'm about 99% sure that it is just by looking at her, I want to get to know her. I'm actually pissed if I got cheated out of 6 years of her life. I guess none of y'all know me so this is a good place to vent.
 
wow.
i hope you become part of her life, at the very least.

this is a gift, i hope you know that.
 
Definitely be a part of your daughter's life, but stay the hell out of that chicks life.

She cheated with you while she was engaged to some other guy and while they were married. Not the type of chick I'd want to be around.
 
Don't worry about being cheated for the first six years. No need to cry over spilled milk. Just start from today.

Did you tell your family? Does your mother know?
 
i can't see your face in your profile pic- but wait till you get dna results. just cause she looks like you doesn't mean she is yours- it could mean the mother goes for a particular look in a guy.

if she is yours though, i hope the mother lets you be in the girls life. it would benefit her greatly.
 
ill bet the future ex will want nothing to do with the child. and by law he has that right. but even though she doesnt want anything i believe this is the best time to bond with your daughter. take it slow and eventually she will love you like you have NEVER been loved before. children are the best. sometimes they can get on your last nerve but the times when they walk up to you, sit in your lap and look you square in the face and say those words "i love you daddy". it will change your life forever. cherish it bro.
 
yes. I don't trust her. I didn't beleive her until I saw the pictures. I have been accused before & knew it wasn't true but i'm almost sure this is my daughter.
 
She's cute!

Ease your way into her life; this is a big adjustment for her and might cause some confusion.

I spent 10 weekends out of the year with my father as a child.

I saw him twice since I was 15 years old. Once was to basically say, "we can put our past behind us and spend some time together, just call me."

He never called.

I always wonder how I would be different had my father not been a fuckup.

Savor every moment with your daughter.
 
bigmann245 said:
ill bet the future ex will want nothing to do with the child. and by law he has that right. but even though she doesnt want anything i believe this is the best time to bond with your daughter. take it slow and eventually she will love you like you have NEVER been loved before. children are the best. sometimes they can get on your last nerve but the times when they walk up to you, sit in your lap and look you square in the face and say those words "i love you daddy". it will change your life forever. cherish it bro.
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I almost feel that if I find out she isn't mine i'll be devistated. I'm actually going to find the guys # and give him a call. I can't even imagine what he's feeling.
 
Raina said:
She's beautiful. She's lucky to have someone like you who wants to be there for her.
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Well see. I don't know if i'm father material. I know I can protect and provide, but beyond that i'm clueless. Shit is scary...
 
rudeboyja said:
Well see. I don't know if i'm father material. I know I can protect and provide, but beyond that i'm clueless. Shit is scary...
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I don't think anyone is ever totally ready to be a parent. You figure it out as you go. :rose:
 
she is adorable....definitalty go for a test just to make sure...dont want her to think you are her father and later in life find out that you are not.......i cannot really see your face in the profile pic so i couldnt really compare...as far as the not knowing whats next thing goes----just be there for her and love her......that is all never mind protection and such....have love understanding and compassion towards her.....good luck and i hope it turns out for the best for both of you
 
rudeboyja said:
Well see. I don't know if i'm father material. I know I can protect and provide, but beyond that i'm clueless. Shit is scary...
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we all were clueless. its comes naturally bro. like i said take it slow. believe me, its worth it.
 
I feel bad for the other guy. By law he is now considered the "assumed parent" and would have to pay child support even though the tests show he isn't.
Go get a paternity test done and find out if she is yours. If she's not it could emotionally screw you up!
 
slat1 said:
I feel bad for the other guy. By law he is now considered the "assumed parent" and would have to pay child support even though the tests show he isn't.
Go get a paternity test done and find out if she is yours. If she's not it could emotionally screw you up!
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Seriously If I were the dude it might be an OJ situation. She said he feels like his heart has been ripped out. I going to talk with him. I understand if he might have a beef with me, but I'll just handle it.
 
rudeboyja said:
Long story made short. I was messing around with this engaged girl about 7 years ago. She looks exactly like Daisy Fuentes. So she's going thru a divorce now. Apparently her ex found out she wasn't the most faithful & had a paternity test and found out the kid wasn't his. Dude was understandibly devistated. She called me to say she thinks the girl might be mine. I took one look at her & I know that she is. I feel like my whole fuckin world change in one weekend. The woman doesn't want anything from me, but if it is my daughter, which i'm about 99% sure that it is just by looking at her, I want to get to know her. I'm actually pissed if I got cheated out of 6 years of her life. I guess none of y'all know me so this is a good place to vent.
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Very nice of her to fuck you while she was engaged.
 
First she is absolutely adorable.

Second, have the test done to make sure she is yours.

Third, if you decide to be apart of her life, then make sure you remain apart of her life. I know a guy who was in a similar situation as yourself, he found out he was a daddy when the little girl was 4 years old. He decided to enter her life, and then dropped out of it, and repeated this a few times, and the person who is paying for this is the little girl who doesn't understand why her daddy doesn't call.

I'm not saying that you are this type of man at all, I don't know you, I'm just saying for the child's sake think long and hard if you are going to be in her life, and don't change your mind once you've made your decision. People seem to forget what an impact their decisions make on a child's life, who never asked to be here.
 
Miss24k said:
First she is absolutely adorable.

Second, have the test done to make sure she is yours.

Third, if you decide to be apart of her life, then make sure you remain apart of her life. I know a guy who was in a similar situation as yourself, he found out he was a daddy when the little girl was 4 years old. He decided to enter her life, and then dropped out of it, and repeated this a few times, and the person who is paying for this is the little girl who doesn't understand why her daddy doesn't call.

I'm not saying that you are this type of man at all, I don't know you, I'm just saying for the child's sake think long and hard if you are going to be in her life, and don't change your mind once you've made your decision. People seem to forget what an impact their decisions make on a child's life, who never asked to be here.
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I hear you. I grew up in the foster enviornment and promised myself I would never put anybody thru that or deny them having a real relationship with their parent
 
rudeboyja said:
I almost feel that if I find out she isn't mine i'll be devistated. I'm actually going to find the guys # and give him a call. I can't even imagine what he's feeling.
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Get the DNA test before you let your emotions run away with you.
 
I wouldn't contact the other guy until you find out if she is your daughter. Then if she is find out what role he is wanting to play considering he has already been part of the girls most important years. If he is worth a shit he won't just walk out on her now, her mom is a slut but that has nothing to do with the girl.
 
sfmonster said:
I wouldn't contact the other guy until you find out if she is your daughter. Then if she is find out what role he is wanting to play considering he has already been part of the girls most important years. If he is worth a shit he won't just walk out on her now, her mom is a slut but that has nothing to do with the girl.
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Dude is actually a millionaire and a very successful guy. I have a feeling if I don't talk to him man to man he could make things ugly for me. I want to look in his eyes and let him know I will take care of the girl if she is my daughter
 
Nice to hea you have a daughter and all, but fuck dude You just fucked that man up for life theres now way he'll ever be the same now...
 
scout69 said:
Nice to hea you have a daughter and all, but fuck dude You just fucked that man up for life theres now way he'll ever be the same now...
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I guess you don't think about consequences when you have a drop dead georgous lady pumping your head up about how much you turn her on. I agree with you and if this man has a problem with me, as he probably should, than lets deal with it face to face
 
As said before...get the test done...if she is yours (very very cute!!) it will be the best gift you have ever been given....they will change your life to a point but you will NEVER regret it.......
 
sawastea said:
It seems that I've seen that girl around. Very familiar face...She's in NY, close to the CT border.
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you got mail. Tell me if you know her. I think she does go to NY alot
 
I sincerely hope this never happens to me.
 
Do you know how many of you it could have happend to and you just got lucky......in the end he will love it.....but the test is the most important thing first
 
lmao @ bel bev devoe

rudeboy I'd feel pretty good if i were you, kinda floored...but i def have a grin on my face
 
Gymgurl said:
Do you know how many of you it could have happend to and you just got lucky......in the end he will love it.....but the test is the most important thing first
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I'm getting the test, but I can feel that she is mine. I can't explain it.
 
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