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It's official I am divorced...

Turd Ferguson

Turd Ferguson

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Signed off on all the paper work yesterday. I thought I would be more upset but really am cool with it. Of course I got a phone call from the ex wanting to talk about all the things I did to get us to this point. She also said "I never wanted it to come to this", and "it dosen't seem real".

Feels pretty real to me. Liberating in a way. Even though I feel like it should "feel" over, in a way it seems like the real work is just starting. Having to work on keeping this civil for the kids and all the other things down the road. For example the seeing each other with other SO, sports games all that bull shit. Not really seeming any easier. :rolleyes:
 
Well, really you aren't officially divorced until it is signed by the judge and entered of record in the clerks office. Just saying.


Good luck with the divorce, though. =-)
 
Wow... cain't wait until I am there...

We should celbrate...

LOL @ Her wanting to discuss what happened to get you there after the fact. WTF... crazy.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Signed off on all the paper work yesterday. I thought I would be more upset but really am cool with it. Of course I got a phone call from the ex wanting to talk about all the things I did to get us to this point. She also said "I never wanted it to come to this", and "it dosen't seem real".

Feels pretty real to me. Liberating in a way. Even though I feel like it should "feel" over, in a way it seems like the real work is just starting. Having to work on keeping this civil for the kids and all the other things down the road. For example the seeing each other with other SO, sports games all that bull shit. Not really seeming any easier. :rolleyes:
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It's real alright. Don't let her play games with you.
It took me over a year before it started getting easier. You seem to be dealing with it relatively well.
Like Manny said; Learn from your mistakes.
Congratulations and good luck!
 
JH1 said:
LMAO...

Uh... aap meet women ... women meet aap....

Get to know each other.
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That is true.

I must have had a brain fart there for a moment.
 
feisty11975 said:
I don't know what to say. I'd tell you congrats although it seems that you really did not want to get divorced. How bout I just say Good Luck?
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Really I didn't want to get divorced. But in hind sight, I would have no chance of being happy with the way things were at the end. Not sure if you get past that. But my feeling is that I made that promise to try. So it was almost like being let off the hook. But now we will never know.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Really I didn't want to get divorced. But in hind sight, I would have no chance of being happy with the way things were at the end. Not sure if you get past that. But my feeling is that I made that promise to try. So it was almost like being let off the hook. But now we will never know.
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I totally understand what you are saying. Just take it one day at a time. You'll get through it and find someone that you deserve and deserves you. :rose:
 
Marriage can be good. That being said it is a lot of work to keep it that way. If I ever wind up single, I am going to bareback sportfuck every young slut whore on the west coast that is willing. I'm talking tearing it up, plowing those old cougars and the youngins all in a row.

For the religious, infidelity is your get out of jail free card. It happened to one of my best friends who promptly initiated a divorce. The only thing he told her when she confessed was "That's all I needed bitch!" and walked.
 
Obviously she still owns your ass cause you post up about her everyday.

It must be tough, and definitely considering the kid, but she still has you whipped.
 
Jimsbbc said:
Marriage can be good. That being said it is a lot of work to keep it that way. If I ever wind up single, I am going to bareback sportfuck every young slut whore on the west coast that is willing. I'm talking tearing it up, plowing those old cougars and the youngins all in a row.

For the religious, infidelity is your get out of jail free card. It happened to one of my best friends who promptly initiated a divorce. The only thing he told her when she confessed was "That's all I needed bitch!" and walked.
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Marriage could be awesome but the laws / courts have ruined it.

Women see $$$ so they take it and run....
 
JH1 said:
Marriage could be awesome but the laws / courts have ruined it.

Women see $$$ so they take it and run....
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Its working out for kfed.

Maybe you need to work less and find more driven women who grew up in trailer parks...
 
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Obviously she still owns your ass cause you post up about her everyday.

It must be tough, and definitely considering the kid, but she still has you whipped.
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I would say to a point you are correct. Takes some time for that. Like I said, I still love what we were. Hard to change that for me.

When you have a kid together it brings a certain closeness that most people who don't have kids would not understand. You want it to work for the children's sake.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Signed off on all the paper work yesterday. I thought I would be more upset but really am cool with it. Of course I got a phone call from the ex wanting to talk about all the things I did to get us to this point. She also said "I never wanted it to come to this", and "it dosen't seem real".

Feels pretty real to me. Liberating in a way. Even though I feel like it should "feel" over, in a way it seems like the real work is just starting. Having to work on keeping this civil for the kids and all the other things down the road. For example the seeing each other with other SO, sports games all that bull shit. Not really seeming any easier. :rolleyes:
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"never wanted it to come to this"???

wasnt she fucking some other dude? did she expect u to look past that and work out ur problems? lol what a
 
Congratulations!

I don't know who said it, but there's a famous quote: "The next time I think I want to get married, I'm just going to find some bitch that I hate and give her half my stuff."
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Signed off on all the paper work yesterday. I thought I would be more upset but really am cool with it. Of course I got a phone call from the ex wanting to talk about all the things I did to get us to this point. She also said "I never wanted it to come to this", and "it dosen't seem real".

Feels pretty real to me. Liberating in a way. Even though I feel like it should "feel" over, in a way it seems like the real work is just starting. Having to work on keeping this civil for the kids and all the other things down the road. For example the seeing each other with other SO, sports games all that bull shit. Not really seeming any easier. :rolleyes:
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Ive been thru at all, lots of fights with the alcoholic stepfather. He learned that I'm not one to be pushed. Everything is much better now.
 
heatherrae said:
That site is pathetic and misogynistic. Any man that feels he needs to marry a foreign bride so that he can completely dominate and control her is no man, at all.
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its pathetic, but thats what its coming down to.

get your gender's shit in order.

it seems now adays that american women want to commit and "cant find the nice guy" cause they are going after the one that dont wanna settle down, and once they find the one that does, they suddenly 180 and decide theyd rather be fuckin other guys, or just str8 up being an entitled bitch
 
SublimeZM said:
its pathetic, but thats what its coming down to.

get your gender's shit in order.

it seems now adays that american women want to commit and "cant find the nice guy" cause they are going after the one that dont wanna settle down, and once they find the one that does, they suddenly 180 and decide theyd rather be fuckin other guys, or just str8 up being an entitled bitch
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That is just ignorant stereotyping.
 
heatherrae said:
That is just ignorant stereotyping.
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not all of them, but ALOT of them, if they cause the marital problems its usually cuz of that, even tho they will blame it on the man being controlling and them not havint their needs met lolol
 
SublimeZM said:
not all of them, but ALOT of them, if they cause the marital problems its usually cuz of that, even tho they will blame it on the man being controlling and them not havint their needs met lolol
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ummm...okay. You should become a marriage counselor. You are great at this...lol.
 
Marriage therapist friend of mine said the one truism of every marriage is, "Men get married hoping their wife will never change and women get married hoping to change their husband." Maybe that's just true of the marriages that need a therapist..... :)
 
JavaGuru said:
Marriage therapist friend of mine said the one truism of every marriage is, "Men get married hoping their wife will never change and women get married hoping to change their husband." Maybe that's just true of the marriages that need a therapist..... :)
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I wouldn't say that is true all the time, just 99% of the time. :lmao:
 
Turd Ferguson said:
Signed off on all the paper work yesterday. I thought I would be more upset but really am cool with it. Of course I got a phone call from the ex wanting to talk about all the things I did to get us to this point. She also said "I never wanted it to come to this", and "it dosen't seem real".

Feels pretty real to me. Liberating in a way. Even though I feel like it should "feel" over, in a way it seems like the real work is just starting. Having to work on keeping this civil for the kids and all the other things down the road. For example the seeing each other with other SO, sports games all that bull shit. Not really seeming any easier. :rolleyes:
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it will get easier. while i think my ex is basically a waste of a human being, he and I are civil and get along pretty much fine. i only have contact with him when and if it relates directly to my son.
but the first three years were very tough - i hated him so much I would let him get me riled up. now adays i just ignore him if he makes me mad or i hang up lol
 
turd, she'll always own a small part of you, and you of her- because of your child. but you're free now to be happy- that's what you should do. be happy.
xo
 
stilleto said:
turd, she'll always own a small part of you, and you of her- because of your child. but you're free now to be happy- that's what you should do. be happy.
xo
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I own all of my ex-bitches... I wish I didn't but their all stalking motherfuckers....
 
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