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ms.skins

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Several months back I posted about dating an older man, 53 and I am 29. We went out for 5 months, spent every weekend, all day together. His mom lives with him so he felt it was disrespectful to have me spend the night. Everything was kind of too good to be true. We got a long almost perfect. It was a loveable relationship until last week he decided to have me spend the night for the first time. The next day his mom(78) was very angry with him and told him he might as well be a child molestor. The next day he told me that it would be a good idea that we don't see eachother for awhile. I then told him that I thought his mom was abusive to him and to have a good life. He has called me three times and I haven't answered. I feel hurt, angry and betrayed me for letting his mom ruin our relationship. I was wondering what anyone's opinions on this might be. Am I doing the right thing by ignoring him? Why should I answer my phone, it would only give me hope.
 
Steriod_Virgin said:
lol goatslayer... i'm starting to like you, i used to not like you, but you are really growing on me.. :)
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Nobody likes me, so I won't be offended by that. In fact, I am quite elated that you didn't throw rotting onions and chives at me like so many others have in the past.

To you, my friend, I toast with a large bottle of sour milk.
 
WTF??? A 53 yr old man getting scolded by his mother??? C'mon...I think u should have a real talk with mamma's boy. Answer the phone and be mature about the situation. Tell him to either grow up give himself up to Satanic Goatslayer as a sacrificial lamb. We'd all like to watch.
 
I would put my mother in a retirement home before I would slap her face for telling me what to do.
 
He's 53 and lives with his mother? I hope he lives with her for some medical reason and she can't take care of herself. If she can't take care of herself and her son is helping her then the old bag should be grateful for that and leave him the hell alone.
On the other side, if there is no reason for him to be living with his mommy then you should dump the loser.
Is his name Norman Bates by any chance? If so I would avoid "mother".
 
To you, my friend, I toast with a large bottle of sour milk.
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By the looks of those teeth and puny arms, you shoulda started drinking milk a long time ago. None of this goats milk or organic bullshit either....if it aint go the steroids in it who wants it anyways?
 
That's the lamest relationship and excuse to end it I've ever heard.
 
You say you spent the night with him? How is his libido? I wonder what it will be like at 53.

As far as the relationship goes, sounds like his mother still runs his life. Has he ever been married before?
 
Satanic Goatslayer said:


Nobody likes me, so I won't be offended by that.
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yeah right... you have all of the little kids on this board wearing your t-shirts and pretending to strangle their sister... they all look up to you. You gotta do another massacre and give them more to look up to.
 
I know it is a boring post, I can make it exciting. His dick still got hard 60% of the time. When it didn't, I would spend a good half an hour performing oral sex. Thanks for the replies. My friends tell me I should have got rid of him awhile ago to. But he was very youthful in most ways and he looked like he was in his late thirties. His mom lives with him because his dad died. He didn't go home with me because his mom questioned him wherever he went and I guess he didn't want to explain it to her. I asked him many times while fondeling him and I guess it was too much for him to handle. oh well, his loss. I know of a lot of healthy older men who wouldn't mind going out with a youn women. I am just trying to convince myself that he is the one that is crazy, not me.
 
In what ways were you abused as a child?

If not, where did your dad dissappear to?
 
I wasn't abused but my mom divorced my dad when I was young. It really didn't seem like an abnormal relationship on my part. We just got a long good. I have gone out with men of all different ages. I think once you become a certain age and are secure with yourself, age doesn't matter. I am not perfect and I don't want to judge anyone, so why would you do it to me? I just wanted to see what other people's views on this were.
 
I've been in a relationship with someone 13 years my senior, when I was 22, and I think I wouldn't really go for any kind of large age difference again. Especially with the view to a long term relationship. You already know the reasons why.
I don't think you should feel bad for ignoring his calls. He really sounds like he needs to grow up before he's ready for a relationship. And at 53 - what's he been doing his whole life?
Anyway be selfish, don't feel guilty about it, and go out and find someone new who'll meet your needs.
 
That was his way out of the relationship part of it. He now just wants sex with no attachments. I'm a male I know how these things work. If you are hurt now, you better not go back, because there is more to come.
 
That is what is confusing. It wasn't just sex because I was the one who wanted it most of the time. Then after we we were finished (what few times we had it), we would spend the whole day together, until he sent me home. This is why I thought it was a good thing because it would have been the first relationship I ever had that wasn't based on sex. Maybe I scared him off because he was so passive and I am aggressive and modern. I know you all probably think I am a freak or something. You can think what you want, but most people I know, in all classes of people, have some sort of disfunctional relationships. I can only think of a very small percentage of people with "normal" relationships. If any of you are like Ozzy & Harriet , I'd like to hear about it.
 
I'm 30 now, but a couple of years ago I dated a 42 year old women. It was mainly based on sex and drugs though. We new it was not going to be anything we just like the way we made each other feel.
 
Just curious

ms.skins said:
When it didn't, I would spend a good half an hour performing oral sex.
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Sounds like you were having to work way too hard and he didn't seem to appreciate it too much. If you are decent looking at all you would make someone else a good catch. Was this guy rich or something? How did you meet? Why would you work so hard to give your pussy away to someone who didn't even appreciate it?
 
Ditto on his living with his mother. It had better be a medical reason. Shit if she can't take care of herself, she should be in a home. Maybe he will collect on her will, but he won't if he moves out. Who knows?
 
He's 53, he should be able to stand up to his mother.

If he will not stand up for you, maybe you need to
take another look at him, and see if he's ready
for a serious relationship.
 
He makes really good money and he owns a few houses. I didn't want any of his money, I make my own. I just wanted to be with him and thought it was mutual. That is another thing. I spent money on him. I bought him clothes and vitamins. I even bought him a DVD player for his birthday. I also gave him a nice Fender acoustic guitar, we both play. He just accepted my gifts. When I get over this I will realize what an asshole he was
I have a lot of men who want to go out with me. I was just really attracted to him. I think his mom must have some gigantic will and controls him with it. I also think she must have mentally abused him all of his life. To call him a child molester is a hurtful thing to say. She was always a hateful hag to me anyway, and she acted obviously jealous.
 
I'm not exactly defending him, but I understand his position a lot better than these 20 somethings.
Over a lifetime, if you're lucky and work at it, your relationship with your parents changes.
They go from dominating power objects to be rebelled against, to some of your closest friends.
I'm betting when her husband died, his mother changed, a lot.
Became more worried, fearfull, less independent, more needy.
This comes from being alone after 40 years, not a physical imparement.
Her son is trying to help her remain independent and out of a retirement home,
and is to be commended for his selflessness and caring, commitment, and basic family values.
At 78 his mother has had her beliefs about "sleeping around" for a long time now and isn't about to change them.
She's probably very comfortable being "the only woman" in her son's life,
and you probably represent a threat to her security.
Yes the age difference is a problem, but you sound comfortable with it.
He sounds like a good man temporarily struggling to make all the women in his life happy.
What part of what I just said makes you want to throw him away?
 
I DIDNT READ ANY OF THE REPLIES OR YOUR FULL POST BUT ONE OF THE ONLY REASONS A 29 YEAR OLD WOULD DATE A 53 YEAR OLD IS MONEY!!!


KAYNE
 
I did not want to throw him away. It was his decision. He said for now he couldn't do anything about us because of his situation. I took that as a good bye and haven't spoke to him in 5 days. I will not call him because I am afraid I will sound needy and say stupid things. Actually now I am worried about him because he was suppose to fly to California yesterday or today, and you know what happen.
 
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