Is this f**ked up or is it just me?

[ceo]

Re: Is the f**ked up or is it just me?

lol

I was going to tell the girls that he is guilty or he is fucking stupid.

And, we know he is not stupid.

Because, vel would never go out with a stupid fuck.

True. What was I thinking? I mean...

velvett's really got her shit togetherrrr!!!!!!1

 

[ricco561]

Re: Is the f**ked up or is it just me?

Maybe HE took it because he likes to dress in women's clothing and Mom is covering for him.
Just an idea.

 

[velvett]

i need bury my head in some work before I can head around what I'm going to do next

Thank you for every single response here - I really appreciate it.

 

[all the whey]

i need bury my head in some work before I can head around what I'm going to do next

Thank you for every single response here - I really appreciate it.

Seriously, we feel bad for you.

Hope everything works out for you.






Did I mention I am single?

 

[all the whey]

Re: Is the f**ked up or is it just me?

True. What was I thinking? I mean...

velvett's really got her shit togetherrrr!!!!!!1

Yeah she does Brian!



BRB emailing Vel's bf's mom for some of vel's panties.

 

[Frisky]

WTF?

Why explain to SO in a "real easy manner"?

If it comes to a point where you think you need to lock a closet. That is the time to get rid of the people you are living with.

And if it offends him in any way then... Poof... be gone. I said that because I sense Vel is struggling with it ending a relationship and how to handle it. Things can be handled without blowing the roof off. She may not see it as something that is wrong. Though of course it is... Seems to me that if she thought she did something really wrong she would not have sent the bag back to Vel, knowing that Vel would start wondering how the heck she got it in the first place and start with questions. I dunno... just my .02... He may be innocent, so I wouldn't jump to taking it out on him, however if he isn't and knew about it all along then I'd give him the boot.

I'm rambling... I'm tired

Show me your teets

 

[txbondsman]

I'd be interesting to see what she says about where she found it. LoverBoy may have wanted her to have it. The comment, "but you have sooo many, kinda leads one to believe she just thought that she'd "borrow" it for a long time.

Another problem as I see it is, you may not know what else is missing. Until you want something, it's damn near impossible to know what is and isn't there.

If it was me, I'd say in passing as we spoke about the purse, "I MAY have alot of things, but they're ALL important to me. I buy nice things because I like nice things. I take care of my stuff. When I misplace something or can't find something, I get really upset. I don't like the way that makes me feel." Something like that.... everyone aught to get the message.

 

[nefertiti]

Re: Is the f**ked up or is it just me?

WTF?

He is just as/or more guilty. He took it. Or, at the very least is covering for her.

He is not a member here. You don't have to look out for his interests. So, ease up mizz serios Omnibudsman.

lol...I wasn't defending him in the slightest. Maybe I wasn't clear. I would CONFRONT him first. And then once I felt we had settled things between us i would make sure he was ready and willing to confront his mother with me so that she couldn't use him as any kind of leverage. But my first priority would be dealing with the damage to our relationship.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

For the holidays I wanted to use a specific handbag that was given to me last year for my birthday by my "other half" and on Christmas Day when I wanted to use it but it was no where to be found.

Pre story - I took a bedroom and made it into a walk in closet earlier this year so every would have a place and I remember going through every piece of clothing, every shoe and every bag before putting them into the new closet. Most of my better bags have silk or cotton sac to protect them.

So back to the bag - it's MIA and of course I really annoyed because I've been noticing things missing and all the while I'm wondering if I'm just starting to loose it.

On the way to dinner we're in the car picking up his mom and we go back by the house to get a camera and when I got back into the car his mother says to me, "my son tells me you can't find one of your bags" and I say yes and how I'm really disappointed because it was a bag that I purposely did not want to get dirty because it was suede and a limited edition. So she says, "well you have so many". At the time I didn't even think about the comment but later that night I was like what a fucked up thing to say.

So while working the day before last he calls me and says that they looked in all the closets and could not find it anywhere and that I should try the basement. What they didn't know is that I Christmas night I was so upset about it that I had already checked all the closets and basement because I couldn't sleep. So I just said, yah I'll do that.

So today my "other half" comes to my office with a Christmas Bag and says that his mom forgot to give me part of my xmas gifts. I gave him the WTF are you talking about look and inside the bag was my bag with the silk cover over it and he said that his mother won't say where she found it. Dumbfounded I thanked him and he said no to thank his mother.

Call me crazy but that just confirmed all my suspicious as to where the disappearing items go to and the only reason I got it back is because she didn't think I'd notice it missing and she decided to give it back.

Please be honest - if you think I'm crazy to think what I am think tell me if you agree tell me or if something completely different say it - don't sugar coat it

Next time set a trap for her and catch her on tape. Then show it to her and tell her to leave your shit alone.

But seriously you know her better than any of us. Read

and see if you can make amends through a psychological approach before any drastic measures.

 

[heavy_duty]

How old is his mother?
Also I do think she took the bag! "Well you have so many" [fuck that]
But I don't think this is divorce material.
How long have you lived with him?

My wife has taken things from me that she didnt think I wore and sent them across the country to one of her 5 brothers. her sister does this too with my brother inlaws stuff....its totally fucked