is personal info fair game if it is posted for all to see?

[needtogetaas]

understandably not threats of violence or real life shit of any kind.
but let's say i made a thread about being a meth head and how much i love and do meth.
would it not be fair for others to use that against me, in various types of arguements?
i think this has gotten blurred here a bit, if it's personal you shouldn't mention it on a open forum.
opinions?
discuss

I think the big problem is the real personal shit. Ie like what bb tried to do to me. I mean I was getting death threats on the phone. All the wile the real guy was in jail.


Making it real life is what is a no no. Also peoples kids I mean come on have some class peoples kids did nothing to you.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I didnt realize that was going on.

To clarify... Some times you will tell an e-friend something, and they will disseminate the information with others. Nothing to do with your PMs being read or any of that BS. Just people you thought you could trust, and then they stab you in the back...

Happens all the time.

 

[walliwalibus]

Wow, I thought when I got the break in the action, that's when I noticed all this talk about what is being spoken about here. Seems like I was just a single case and I was just .... I needed a day or two off. Wow, are others getting upset, really? People I had no idea things were getting like what some are mentioning here. I believe now I will watch everything personal I say. I'll call it self modding.

 

[stilleto]

i understand what bino is asking.

he means, if i make a few threads over the years about my kid getting in trouble for example, then get into an arguement with him at some point and I claim to be an excellent mother, he wants to know is it out of line if he posts the links to all my threads about me deviant kid or whatever.

he's not talking about attacking someone, he's talking about posting up what someone has already said, themselves.

am I accurate?

 

[velvett]

Wow, I thought when I got the break in the action, that's when I noticed all this talk about what is being spoken about here. Seems like I was just a single case and I was just .... I needed a day or two off. Wow, are others getting upset, really? People I had no idea things were getting like what some are mentioning here. I believe now I will watch everything personal I say. I'll call it self modding.

You can just beat the meanies with your tail.

 

[walliwalibus]

I think this sums up what we have in mind. We are going to quickly identify these people and ban them. That simple.

We can deal with misunderstandings or disagreements between members when they arise. Issues will always arise in any social group.

What we won't tolerate is people who come here looking to fuck with others for kicks.

This I can relate to, there is that fine line between kidding around and actually trying to make someone mad. Its a shame it has to ruin some fun around here though I really don't see much change. I think as of lately people were pushing buttons to see how far they could go before a mod or admin would step in. I seriously believe that. But then I seen some mods posts be out there too, but not nearly as bad, nowhere close. I like it when a mod swoops in for the kill though... you guys let them get to the line then BAM!...................... hit 'em like a ton of bricks.

 

[needtogetaas]

fight the man!!!!

 

[binö]

i understand what bino is asking.

he means, if i make a few threads over the years about my kid getting in trouble for example, then get into an arguement with him at some point and I claim to be an excellent mother, he wants to know is it out of line if he posts the links to all my threads about me deviant kid or whatever.

he's not talking about attacking someone, he's talking about posting up what someone has already said, themselves.

am I accurate?

exactly it.
thank you for taking the time for sensibly responding

 

[stilleto]

exactly it.
thank you for taking the time for sensibly responding

my middle name is sensible.

"Sensible Stilleto"

 

[walliwalibus]

You can just beat the meanies with your tail.

Thanks, I have a mean tail LOL.

Bino: Why would you want to throw something up in someone's face? I don't understand as nobody is perfect and your beginning to sound like, like you like to throw stuff in people's face. Maybe someone had a very bad incident right, and mentioned it. It happened once right. You would be low enough to throw that in their face later on down the road? I see your point to some degree...