Is my girl a cheater?

[Zander1983]

I was staying at my girlfriend's house once (an old girlfriend) and at about 12:00 midnight a guy comes up the steps and knocks on her door. She opens the door and when he saw me in the house he took off running down the stairs and through the apt complex parking lot. Sound strange to anyone else???????

How soon until she was your ex? lol

 

[Devastation]

I was staying at my girlfriend's house once (an old girlfriend) and at about 12:00 midnight a guy comes up the steps and knocks on her door. She opens the door and when he saw me in the house he took off running down the stairs and through the apt complex parking lot. Sound strange to anyone else???????

B True

that's never good

 

[b fold the truth]

How soon until she was your ex? lol

I don't think it was long...but I trusted her. I shouldn't have...that is for darn sure.

I had seen the guy before at a club. He was hitting on her while standing next to me...not knowing that I was her boyfriend. As far as I was told...they KNEW each other before.

You know...I even went outside and asked him to come inside...told him that it was ok and that I'd be insulted if he didn't come in. I even gave him my last beer. I should have known that something was wrong when a guy who doesn't have a drivers liscense shows up at my girlfriend's house at midnight dresses VERY nice...and runs when he sees me inside.

B True

 

[revexrevex]

So she didnt know he was coming? IT was like a surprise visit from him?

 

[b fold the truth]

So she didnt know he was coming? IT was like a surprise visit from him?

I guess...they BOTH looked REALLY suprised. I remember him saying "I ain't commin up there...he will kill me." Makes me wonder if something was going on and she told him that she had told me about it...lol.

There were just TOOOOO many strange things that took place with that relationship.

B True

 

[Taps]

I've never understoon the whole jealousy/trust thing. If I'm dating someone, I just want to be with her. If I wanted to bang other chicks, I'd dump her first.

Realize is that most girls can get sex at the drop of a hat. If she wanted to, she could fuck every single guy she knows and theres nothing you could do about it. No sense in worrying about it, I say.

Besides, sounds like she isn't attracted to any of them.

 

[ZKaudio]

I've dated 2 model's to date... I can honestly say the ones I dated were ridiculously naive. They had NO idea that 99% of the time guys were nice to them it was b/c they wanted to hook up w/ them. They honestly felt that guys were just trying to be nice. Only time I am genuinely nice to a beautiful girl (i.e. not trying to get ass for my good deeds) is if I am currently in love w/ another girl.

 

[ZKaudio]

perfect. Once you are cool w/ these guys tehre will be less to worry about. If she has a problem with you interacting with her friends... then there is a deeper issue at hand. She sounds like one of my more selfish x's

 

[winny100]

ask her !!!!!!!!!!!!

Ask her to do some activity (ten pin bowling/club) with you and one of these guys , why not they are just friends.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

regardless of whether she is cheating on you or not, sounds like you are very pussy whipped. she doesnt let you have female friends but she says its ok for her to have male friends. dump her, you dont need that kind of girl

b fold, sometimes you sound so naive and ignorant yourself