Is Having A "F*#k Buddy" Realistic??

[Phaded]

It's absolutely possible and can go on for years with a full blown friendship between the participants. It all depends on the participants and their expectations of the relationship as far as how well it works for them. It's been my experience that sex doesn't usually start out as an objective but is something that just evolves from a friendship if it's going to last. It works best if the people don't live in close proximity but it works with neighbors just fine too.

didn't know you visted c&c good sir..

 

[Exosist]

Discuss.

yes its realistic untill she finds out that you are also sleeping with her girlfriend's sister.

you have to be really, really good in bed and pretend to be horrible in all the other departments....

like talking on the phone with them.
listening to thier problems (especially on the phone)
taking them out


dont do anything that a boyfriend does. Give her no other reason to want to keep you around but one, that being your ability to bang her till she is blue in the face and says "I just dont know howww you dooo it, wow'

happy humping,

Exosist

 

[Ulter]

didn't know you visted c&c good sir..

Well I started stalking Raina about a week ago and I ended up here.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Well I started stalking Raina about a week ago and I ended up here.

Nice to see you 'round here.

Agree on your points about the distance helping maintain the "relationship".

 

[milo hobgoblin]

I had one for a while while i was married..

she was fucking awesome. I regret to this day having to walk away for a woman I hated.

 

[Tytan]

its possible. both parties have to be adult about it and have a good understanding about the relationship, but don`t expect it to last a long time because someone will start to care. See eachother every once and a while, don`t hang out doing other things and never tell them you love them( even if its just to get some ass)

 

[Buddy_Christ]

For a while I'd run into a chick at the bar and every time we'd fuck. I guess it was kind of like having a fuck buddy. Her friend would call me occasionally and say "hey, you going out tonight?" If I said yes, this chick would always be there and I'd get laid.

Of course, that ended right about the time I found out she was still married and not divorced like she claimed.


There was another chick that we agreed in the beginning that we were friends with benifits, nothing more. That didn't work out very well. One week she'd say "let's just be friends, no benifits." I was cool with that. The next week she'd say she wanted the benifits back, so I was cool with that. Then the following week she wanted a serious relationship, and I was not cool with that.

That went on for about 3 months until she finally stopped coming around. She showed up one time unannounced (she lived ~2 hours away) and I was out all night. She had the nerve to get pissed at me when she found me the next day, asking where I was. I said, "there is no boyfriend-girlfriend relationship here, so don't give me that 'where were you' shit."

She had some issues.

 

[Forge]

I had my first fuck buddy this summer, for a few months, I've always been a long term guy until this. Amazing sex, no dates or dinners or drama, just sex.

It's not my thing, I want more than that out of a relationship with a woman. I like dating, going out together, doing things together; having just sex gets old hat without the intimacy and the actual building of a relationship. Sex without feelings or trust just isn't for me I guess...