Is everything forgivable?

[javaguru]

ah ok. any other way to have sex or not?

If you want a child ..maybe you should choose someone you can live with as the father...Having a kid is a choice and never an "accident"...I've womanized enough to understand the difference between casual sex and entrapment.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Forgive but never forget.

 

[cindylou]

It wasn't for you to read, jackass! It was for blue

I wish Abby still liked Dr. Seuss. I think I burned her out.

 

[cindylou]

It was 15 years ago. After 6 months and still testing negative, she could have breathed a big sigh of relief and said, "thank god, no POZ and thank god I got rid of him."

It's the infidelity that apparently is the unforgivable sin committed here. But blue admitted to infidelity at least once herself. She forgave herself.

Blue, what if your infidelity resulted in a POZzing or teh herp? Could you have forgiven yourself? What if it almost did? Could you forgive yourself? How do you know it almost didn't?

No no no no. Its clearly the fact that he cared so little about her or was so utterly selfish that he slept with her knowing he had HIV that is the unforgivable sin. That is some serious betrayal; more so than the scope of infidelity. That is also a second degree felony too, btw.

Are men and women really this different?

 

[EarthRider]

In Blues defense, it was I believe her hubby. Why would she think, hey he is prolly cheating on me so I should use protection. I think when you get married you aren't as concerned as when you are running around sleeping with randoms each night. If I were Blue i'd been pissed too. The fuck nob was cheating on her and he should not have done what he did.

 

[rollergirl2]

Totally knot what I had envisioned

 

[rollergirl2]

Is always your avi's that throws me off !

 

[blueta2]

No no no no. Its clearly the fact that he cared so little about her or was so utterly selfish that he slept with her knowing he had HIV that is the unforgivable sin. That is some serious betrayal; more so than the scope of infidelity. That is also a second degree felony too, btw.

Are men and women really this different?

CEO what Cindy said and I used protection when I cheated.
Anyone who doesn't use protection when they knowingly have an STD is mentally disturbed, for real!

 

[EarthRider]

LMAO, I have had people make fun of me cause my only sexual partner has been my wife. OMG, the shit I don't have to worry about, hahahahah. I'll always take my lifestyle thank you. Abstenince betches is where it's at, fuck yo std's

 

[blueta2]

ER, and if I could have had is that way, I would have. I thought the man I was with for 11 yrs was going to be the only man I was ever going to be with, but we can't control what happens many times.
If someone would have asked me in my 20's if now at 45, I would have been in 4 long term relationships with lots of dating in between, I would have never believed it.

It is what it is, but yes, you are in a good place to have had only one woman and be happy. It's truly a blessing