Perform the exercise correctly using all mechanical advantage that comes from good technique that doesn't put you in jeopardy. Learn to bench properly. Learn to do all the lifts properly. Optimized technique will give you a good spat of quick progress in the weight you are handling - increased weight on the movement will carry over to more stimulus on the system and more muscle and strength over the period.
A good move would be to order Starting Strength which has in depth technique coverage and a lot of points on how to identify common flaws as well as coach the lifts. At a minimum at least read Arioch's really great and fantastically referenced writeups on the core lifts linked here which addresses a ton of technical issues as optimizing technique: http://www.geocities.com/elitemadcow1/table_of_contents_thread.htm#PART III: Exercise Descriptions
A good move would be to order Starting Strength which has in depth technique coverage and a lot of points on how to identify common flaws as well as coach the lifts. At a minimum at least read Arioch's really great and fantastically referenced writeups on the core lifts linked here which addresses a ton of technical issues as optimizing technique: http://www.geocities.com/elitemadcow1/table_of_contents_thread.htm#PART III: Exercise Descriptions