Interesting article on becoming a parent

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the thought of a baby at this age is not even real for me. Taking care of myself is exhauting!

I am honest about the situation with his kids. It gets him horribly angry though. I've never had kids and cannot just adjust at 40 yrs old!
It's hard on me, but hard on him also.

His kids are 9 (girl) and 12 (boy)

I thoroughly understand. They children are on the cusp of adolescense and will soon be *going crazy* if they haven't already. It will be a VERY hard time for them which takes a tremendous amount of patience and compassion... HYUGE commitment.

 

[heatherrae]

the thought of a baby at this age is not even real for me. Taking care of myself is exhauting!

I am honest about the situation with his kids. It gets him horribly angry though. I've never had kids and cannot just adjust at 40 yrs old!
It's hard on me, but hard on him also.

His kids are 9 (girl) and 12 (boy)

It is made worse when their children are hellacious demon spawn like my ex's children. The 18 year old recently went to jail (I'm not sure what he did). He would wear his pants down around his ass and only come around when he needed a place to crash or money. His 13 year old is posting pictures on the internet with a cucumber between her legs. His 11 year old is already getting drunk all the time. They were TERRIBLE to me when I lived with him. If I was going to live with a man again who had kids, I would make damn sure to get to know the kids first.

My ex lied to me and told me that his kids didn't live with him until I came to his house and he couldn't pawn them off on someone else one weekend.