In Your Dreams Do You Cheat on SO?

[curling]

Man, it is a trip last night an oriental and some other chick were wanting to do me. And I have always like oriental chicks btw. But I himhauled(I have not idea if that is the correct spelling or not) about going for it. Then I told them I was married and they said no we can't and then I wanted too more but felt guitly at the same time and then them biatchs kept teasing me. I have had other dreams like that and the same thing happens.

Do ya'll get strange in your dreams or are you faithful in those too?

 

[pdaddy]

I don't have a SO, but that has never stopped me from being a man whore in my dreams.

 

[PBR]

NO...but i dream of my ex doing it to me. (go figure)

 

[foreigngirl]

I was always about to, but never did it

When I dream about him cheating, I never see it, somehow I just "found out" that he did


lol


Yeah, but I am very, very mad bitch upon waking up before I realize it was dream

 

[stilleto]

himhauled?

himhauled????
did you mean hem hawed? flip flopped? couldn't decide?

 

[seizer]

Your dreams rarely come true anyways.

so whats in the dream, stays in the dream.

 

[Bikini Mod]

It is quite normal to fantasize, nothing wrong with it.

I, however, once committed have always remained faithfull even in my dreams.

 

[PBR]

Your dreams rarely come true anyways.

so whats in the dream, stays in the dream.

i wish you were right.

 

[seizer]

i wish you were right.

shit man, i dont like the sounds of that...

 

[DieselGunz]

yes

 

[foreigngirl]

shit man, i dont like the sounds of that...

I have a feeling it has nothing to do with dreaming about cheating

 

[seizer]

I have a feeling it has nothing to do with dreaming about cheating

I dont know what it means, but when someone wishes for something else, typically that's bad...dunno.

 

[Bikini Mod]

i wish you were right.

Are you really concerned about her cheating sexually or is it more of a manifestation of feelings of abandonment.

Our dreams are simply our mind's way of trying to "work out problems" that it could not solve during waking moments and not some "omen of things to come".

 

[curling]

Are you really concerned about her cheating sexually or is it more of a manifestation of feelings of abandonment.

Our dreams are simply our mind's way of trying to "work out problems" that it could not solve during waking moments and not some "omen of things to come".

"Simply"? How do you know this? ARe you a PHD in dream analogy? I mean one time I dreamed I was being chased by a shark up and down buildings. And I don't remember trying to "solve" that problem during the day.

 

[alien amp pharm]

"Simply"? How do you know this? ARe you a PHD in dream analogy? I mean one time I dreamed I was being chased by a shark up and down buildings. And I don't remember trying to "solve" that problem during the day.

lmao!

 

[c00per]

It is quite normal to fantasize, nothing wrong with it.

I, however, once committed have always remained faithfull even in my dreams.

> click <

 

[Bikini Mod]

"Simply"? How do you know this? ARe you a PHD in dream analogy? I mean one time I dreamed I was being chased by a shark up and down buildings. And I don't remember trying to "solve" that problem during the day.

Good lord. I dont have to be a mechanic to know that if I put my key in the ignition, there is gas in my car, I turn the key and give it gas - the engine will start barring any other mechanical malfunction.

If I were an alien and knew nothing of sharks how would you describe to me what one was?

It is not difficult to decipher the meaning of one's dreams as their meaning is indicative of THAT individual's thought processes. One need only ask a few simple questions of the person that had the dream.

It isn't rocket science, but more common sense and a bit of research.

I have suffered from sleep deprivation due to nightmares and terrors for the last 20 years of my life so through LOTS of research you can say that sadly, I have experience with the subject.

 

[seizer]

Are you really concerned about her cheating sexually or is it more of a manifestation of feelings of abandonment.

Our dreams are simply our mind's way of trying to "work out problems" that it could not solve during waking moments and not some "omen of things to come".

You work out problems in your dreams? My dreams are so full of shit, I dont think I could ever trust them. That's not to say their fucked up, but in no way are they a representative solution to my real life shit.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You work out problems in your dreams? My dreams are so full of shit, I dont think I could ever trust them. That's not to say their fucked up, but in no way are they a representative solution to my real life shit.

That isn't what I said.

Allow me to rephrase so I can convey my thoughts more clearly.

Dreams are the result of the mind "working" on a problem that it could not solve during waking moments. I am not saying that the dreams offer a solution but merely that they are a result (or evidence, if you will) of the mind working while the body is at rest.

Did I explain my original statement better?

 

[curling]

That isn't what I said.

Allow me to rephrase so I can convey my thoughts more clearly.

Dreams are the result of the mind "working" on a problem that it could not solve during waking moments. I am not saying that the dreams offer a solution but merely that they are a result (or evidence, if you will) of the mind working while the body is at rest.

Did I explain my original statement better?

Did you get high this morning?

 

[seizer]

That isn't what I said.

Allow me to rephrase so I can convey my thoughts more clearly.

Dreams are the result of the mind "working" on a problem that it could not solve during waking moments. I am not saying that the dreams offer a solution but merely that they are a result (or evidence, if you will) of the mind working while the body is at rest.

Did I explain my original statement better?

Yeah, I can understand that.


I hate dreams for the most part, especially if there good. It's analogous to a stripper giving you a lapdance and then stopping when the song is over, not going through with the deed. You just feel cheated lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

Perhaps a personal illustration will better explain the thoughts that I am trying to convey.

I have been plagued by nightmares and terrors (which are actully hallucinations so strong that the body reacts as if they were real and the mind doesnt recognize that what is happening is only present in the mind - you can wake up from a nightmare - also a type of dream - but when you have a terror you are actually semi-awake) since I was in my early 20's.

It is always the same. A small burnt baby - like a burnt "Chucky doll" in black clothing chasing me to hurt me. Sounds silly, I know but when this creature plagues your mind it is terrifying.

What issue is my mind trying to address? (not solve, but reconcile - there is a difference).

For me a baby is symbolic of the embodiment of love. The baby being burnt and scary is symbolic of something that was beautiful has become unbelievably ugly.

After years of emotional and physical abuse suffered at the hands of those that were supposed to have loved me most I fear more hurt though I never did anything to warrant it, the hurt took place nonetheless.

So my mind will not rest because it can not reconcile these two diametrically opposed notions that should NEVER be embodied in one being - but it happened nonetheless again and again and again throughout my entire life. The fear of more hurt had become so great that not only did it affect the conscious choices I make daily but had affected my subconscious thoughts as well.

It is all in my mind - but it was put there by something tangible and real - that should NEVER have been, but happened nonetheless. Were I less intelligent perhaps I could sleep at night but because my mind simply can not reconcile my reality I was robbed of sleep nearly my entire adult life. Each time I would be dealt more abuse - the worse the sleep deprivation became to the point where I was actually suffering hallucinations on a regular basis, was afraid to be alone, but so paralyzed by depression that I had difficulty finding a reason to shower or to leave my apartment.

Anyway - Seroquel is a beautiful thing and for the first time in 20 years I can now sleep without fear of nightmares and no terrors.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yeah, I can understand that.


I hate dreams for the most part, especially if there good. It's analogous to a stripper giving you a lapdance and then stopping when the song is over, not going through with the deed. You just feel cheated lol

LOL

I could never understand the point of a lap dance either.

 

[PBR]

Are you really concerned about her cheating sexually or is it more of a manifestation of feelings of abandonment.

Our dreams are simply our mind's way of trying to "work out problems" that it could not solve during waking moments and not some "omen of things to come".

BK you are quite correct with both answers...

in dreams cause and effect are interchanged,
for here the maker of the dream
believes that what he made
is happening to him.

ahh, dreams.

 

[curling]

BTW Bikini mom I am just messin' with ya. I am having a bad week. I have finally have a closing date(next tuesday) for selling my grandfather's house something that took me two years to accomplish(you don't even want to know all the problems I had on that house) and I need my sister's sig and she is in Hawaii incognito and not returning my calls after I called about 20 hotels in hawaii looking for her butt. Needless to say I am getting disgusted. I don't know why my grandfather made her a co executor.

 

[Bikini Mod]

BTW Bikini mom I am just messin' with ya. I am having a bad week. I have finally have a closing date(next tuesday) for selling my grandfather's house something that took me two years to accomplish(you don't even want to know all the problems I had on that house) and I need my sister's sig and she is in Hawaii incognito and not returning my calls after I called about 20 hotels in hawaii looking for her butt. Needless to say I am getting disgusted. I don't know why my grandfather made her a co executor.

It's all good.

I understand when life hands you shit while you are just trying to go about your business it is more difficult to have patience.

 

[foreigngirl]

Perhaps a personal illustration will better explain the thoughts that I am trying to convey.

I have been plagued by nightmares and terrors (which are actully hallucinations so strong that the body reacts as if they were real and the mind doesnt recognize that what is happening is only present in the mind - you can wake up from a nightmare - also a type of dream - but when you have a terror you are actually semi-awake) since I was in my early 20's.

It is always the same. A small burnt baby - like a burnt "Chucky doll" in black clothing chasing me to hurt me. Sounds silly, I know but when this creature plagues your mind it is terrifying.

What issue is my mind trying to address? (not solve, but reconcile - there is a difference).

For me a baby is symbolic of the embodiment of love. The baby being burnt and scary is symbolic of something that was beautiful has become unbelievably ugly.

After years of emotional and physical abuse suffered at the hands of those that were supposed to have loved me most I fear more hurt though I never did anything to warrant it, the hurt took place nonetheless.

So my mind will not rest because it can not reconcile these two diametrically opposed notions that should NEVER be embodied in one being - but it happened nonetheless again and again and again throughout my entire life. The fear of more hurt had become so great that not only did it affect the conscious choices I make daily but had affected my subconscious thoughts as well.

It is all in my mind - but it was put there by something tangible and real - that should NEVER have been, but happened nonetheless. Were I less intelligent perhaps I could sleep at night but because my mind simply can not reconcile my reality I was robbed of sleep nearly my entire adult life. Each time I would be dealt more abuse - the worse the sleep deprivation became to the point where I was actually suffering hallucinations on a regular basis, was afraid to be alone, but so paralyzed by depression that I had difficulty finding a reason to shower or to leave my apartment.

Anyway - Seroquel is a beautiful thing and for the first time in 20 years I can now sleep without fear of nightmares and no terrors.

in my country we associate a baby with a burden. Losing a tooth - someone dying. Empty house/apt - grave

 

[Bikini Mod]

in my country we associate a baby with a burden. Losing a tooth - someone dying. Empty house/apt - grave

It is all personal. A baby may mean one thing to me, while something different to you and something totally different to a third. You will get as many different "feelings" of a baby (for example) as there are people that you ask as this is all PERSONAL INTERPRETATION.

I used to have dreams of my teeth falling out from time to time. I was stressed over losing what was most important to me - those that I loved.

While I recognize that babies are most certainly a burden - THEY ARE - first and foremost for me, I think of love.

It's so silly to think of being terrified of being chased by a tiny creature and to have to tell yourself before you fall asleep that when you have the nightmare you can turn around in your dream and tell that little thing, "You can't hurt me." Would work to some degree, but obviously not well enough as I still could not sleep for the rest of my adult life.

With this drug (Seroquel) taken in very small doses (25mg) it doesn't knock you out like say Ambien. A drug like that would put me to sleep but it wouldn't KEEP ME sleeping. Seroquel quiets the mind so you can rest your body physically.

I have been taking it for 2 weeks now and for the first time in YEARS I can and crave sleep. I can sleep 8 hours now and it is a gift.

During the daytime I take anti-anxiety meds (Paxil) because my depression was so bad I was having increasing difficulty searching for a reason to keep waking up.... The meds didn't solve any of my problems, but it DID help me to be calmer and think more clearly so I could have the fortitude to do all that I needed to do in order to make our lives better, in spite of the seemingly insurmountable odds stacked against us.

I will post up about it in a few weeks as it all plays out.

All I will say is that DYFUS dont like it when people submit evidence that is inconsistent with allegations of abuse. Someone is going down for their behavior.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I had a dream last night that I was being felt up by a female. I am too scared to tell needto! lol.

 

[curling]

I had a dream last night that I was being felt up by a female. I am too scared to tell needto! lol.

The important question is did you like it?

 

[Lady Viking]

yes, with a woman

 

[Bikini Mod]

The important question is did you like it?

LMFAO



(My guess is.... YES!)

 

[Spartacus]

And your eyes will sing a song called deep hate

 

[Cutiebaby]

The important question is did you like it?

Maybe!

 

[needtogetaas]

Maybe!

hellllllllllll ya

 

[heatherrae]

I sometimes fantasize about other men when I'm awake, but I actually don't have many sex dreams at night. When I have had sex dreams, they are often with completely inappropriate people with whom I would never have sex in real life. I wake up all creeped out.