Smurfy said:SNL is on. maybe that'll put a smile on your face!
blueta2 said:Wine always works....pour me a glass!
What's wrong?
swole said:what kind of funk?
caligirl said:i miss my son. and its 107 outside at 830pm.. I'm going thru sugar withdrawls
and here's the kicker...
I'm moving in two weeks.. taking over my x's place (lease) super nice place... he is supposed to be moved out by JUne 30.. welp it not gonna happen, his place wont be ready till Sept EEEEKKKKKK!!!!!. I gave notice in my place, so I'm out... he says it's cool we can share. it's a big 2 bedroom we each have our own space.. but the thought of living with hime makes me shudder... I cant do it.
blueta2 said:can u stay with your boyfriend until you move?
Eat some sugar
caligirl said:probably could if I had one... they guy I was dating...well, I gave him the boot about 6 weeks ago.. got too clingy and possessive.
blueta2 said:no relatives?!
How bad would it be living with the ex?! Can you drug his food while you're staying there?
caligirl said:not here... no family at all. I was offered to stay at a friends, but she smokes and has two stinky cats... wont work for me.. rather be with the ex... he's just damn moody and complains, he's draining.
he needs to loosen up.. what can I give him..? he he he he
blueta2 said:you can give him head, that may shut him up for a few days ....hehe!
i love mj smoker girlscaligirl said:I need some herb..... and a good solid banging. yeah that'd help.
SublimeZM said:iv been in a funk for 19 years, lets be friends
my new bff, lets double the funk.lets smoke and go to a museum or aquarium. iv been wanting to do that latelycaligirl said:my new bff, lets double the funk.
SublimeZM said:lets smoke and go to a museum or aquarium. iv been wanting to do that lately
prolly 3 yearscaligirl said:OH yeah! that sounds spectacular. I'm so in.
how long would it take you to get to Vegas? lolollolo
SublimeZM said:prolly 3 years![]()
i havnt smoked since monday i thinkcaligirl said:long freakin walk huh..lololo
thats okay sub-z all in spirit. next time I go to the Mandalay bay aquarium I'll be think in of you.
But in a couple hours after I twist one up I'll be think of you then too... he he he
SublimeZM said:i havnt smoked since monday i think. im on a family vacation, hopefully ill smoke when i get back tomorrow
u could always come to dc and we could go to baltimore aquarium
your a trainer right? but yeah i dont like smoking too early in the day cause that burnt out feeling sort of sucks. but sometimes its a cool feeling to come completely down from being high when the nights still semi youngcaligirl said:Never been to DC might be fun.
I stopped for a long time and just started up again recently.. wondering why I ever stopped. I actually get to sleep well now, but I try to keep it to late night, or if we're watching a movie. weekends only. my work is too demanding to be half baked... bummer
voyeurcaligirl said:I like to watch![]()
SublimeZM said:your a trainer right? but yeah i dont like smoking too early in the day cause that burnt out feeling sort of sucks. but sometimes its a cool feeling to come completely down from being high when the nights still semi young
walk around naked all the time and sit all over his furnature naked, that should piss him offStefka said:Pot and sex will help.
Wine always makes me more depressed.
Cant you get one of those month-to-month studios that are all over Vegas?
Make the ex pay - it is his fault he wont be out on time.
SublimeZM said:walk around naked all the time and sit all over his furnature naked, that should piss him off
See, now you're starting to think like an attorney.Stefka said:Pot and sex will help.
Wine always makes me more depressed.
Cant you get one of those month-to-month studios that are all over Vegas?
Make the ex pay - it is his fault he wont be out on time.

SublimeZM said:walk around naked all the time and sit all over his furnature naked, that should piss him off
Stefka said:Pot and sex will help.
Wine always makes me more depressed.
Cant you get one of those month-to-month studios that are all over Vegas?
Make the ex pay - it is his fault he wont be out on time.
javaguru said:See, now you're starting to think like an attorney.![]()
I was picking on HR in the Bible thread. I knew comparing Christianity to Nazism would work her into a furor.Stefka said:I know. Isn't it glorious?

and be sure to bang on his bedcaligirl said:lolollololollo it will.. I'll make sure I keep the blinds while doing so... then I'll bring 22 yr old guys home and have sex all night.. that should work too.
Stefka said:Cock block.
Tell all the girls that call that you are his wife. He'll be out before September.
caligirl said:he does that on his own.. I dont understand him at all..
is he ex because of you or ex because of him, or mutual?caligirl said:he does that on his own.. I dont understand him at all..
Stefka said:Oh - this is bad bad bad. He thinks that you'll fall back in love with him if you move in for a while. Seriously consider a mtm for a couple of months. I couldn't live with an ex who was still into me.
SublimeZM said:is he ex because of you or ex because of him, or mutual?
i dont know if i could move in with an ex (if i had any)
That sounds like my ex-wife. lolloollolcaligirl said:oh no no no.. I think he likes men...
we have no attraction towards one another.. nada.
he's a trip. I don't care for his habits and his lifestyle.. he's a messy f'er
so why guy back and live with it? hes gunna cancel his plans to move, probably doesnt even have any plans to move...your gunna be stuck iwth him alot longer than your planning, i suspect. careful with thatcaligirl said:mutual, but more me wanting to be free of his wrath... he's one unhappy guy
javaguru said:That sounds like my ex-wife. lolloollol![]()
SublimeZM said:so why guy back and live with it? hes gunna cancel his plans to move, probably doesnt even have any plans to move...your gunna be stuck iwth him alot longer than your planning, i suspect. careful with that
That sounds like my ex wife talking about me...lollloolollolcaligirl said:maybe they could meet?
javaguru said:That sounds like my ex wife talking about me...lollloolollol
She asked me if I was gay once because I never wanted to bang her. I was just never all that attracted to her physically. With all my girlfriends I've been an at least once a day and preferably more kind of guy.caligirl said:OHHHHHHHHH no way.. you have man goo tendencies?
why would you marry someone you wernt attracted to and didnt want to bang? seems counter productive, no?javaguru said:She asked me if I was gay once because I never wanted to bang her. I was just never all that attracted to her physically. With all my girlfriends I've been an at least once a day and preferably more kind of guy.
SublimeZM said:why would you marry someone you wernt attracted to and didnt want to bang? seems counter productive, no?
agreed. i wanna hear more details on thiscaligirl said:sometimes things change in ways you wouldnt expect... as for java... it is weird to marry someone you'd not be sexually compatible and attracted to... real weird especially if you're a 2 or 3 time a day guy
SublimeZM said:agreed. i wanna hear more details on this
goodnight, fun chatting with you...work on getting your post count upcaligirl said:tomorrow hun, I'm goin night night...
have fun with your family and dont worry bout the jerky.. keep your protein high and drink lotsa water...
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Everything else was there, we were best friends. She was the "best" I had dated up to that point, I was 23 when we met, but I hadn't dated many girls. I had slept with a lot but not dated. On paper we looked like a great couple.SublimeZM said:why would you marry someone you wernt attracted to and didnt want to bang? seems counter productive, no?
javaguru said:Everything else was there, we were best friends. She was the "best" I had dated up to that point, I was 23 when we met, but I hadn't dated many girls. I had slept with a lot but not dated. On paper we looked like a great couple.
i dont plan on getting married either. the only way i realistically see it happening is if i have a long time girlfriend i legitimately love and for some health reason i'm about to die, then i would.Stefka said:Reason #972 for why I am never getting married
I'm never attracted to the guys who are a good "paper match."
But I am attracted to complete fucktards.
I'm SOL either way.
Stefka said:I'm never attracted to the guys who are a good "paper match."
But I am attracted to complete fucktards.
I'm SOL either way.
redshirt27se said:i dont plan on getting married either. the only way i realistically see it happening is if i have a long time girlfriend i legitimately love and for some health reason i'm about to die, then i would.
its cause your a girl, and girls are crazy and always want whats wrong for them. wrong=excitingStefka said:Reason #972 for why I am never getting married
I'm never attracted to the guys who are a good "paper match."
But I am attracted to complete fucktards.
I'm SOL either way.
you mean like AIDS? if i got AIDS i'd be super pissed.caligirl said:like an STD????!!!!! hahhahahahhahahhahahahahah
SublimeZM said:its cause your a girl, and girls are crazy and always want whats wrong for them. wrong=exciting![]()
but would u marry someone under 25?caligirl said:whats wrong with that?
Iv'e been on an under 25 binge lately... fun and oh so wrong!!! but I like it.
age is nothing. i go older and love it much more than anyone my age.caligirl said:whats wrong with that?
Iv'e been on an under 25 binge lately... fun and oh so wrong!!! but I like it.
SublimeZM said:its cause your a girl, and girls are crazy and always want whats wrong for them. wrong=exciting![]()
redshirt27se said:you mean like AIDS? if i got AIDS i'd be super pissed.
caligirl said:whats wrong with that?
Iv'e been on an under 25 binge lately... fun and oh so wrong!!! but I like it.
yah assholes suckStefka said:Wrong = Drama = Exciting
Plus I seem to enjoy self-destructing.
Nothing will screw your life up faster than an asshole fucktard boyfriend.
aren't you just a bundle of sunshine.caligirl said:you mean HIV...?
I dont think you can just get aids... you have to get HIV first.
you could get a plethora of shit.. like TB... someone just has to breathe on you for you to get that shit.. then you'd be all fucked up for years.
or what about strepA... oooo bad shit, and it lives on door Knobs... it will eat your skin off your body.
SublimeZM said:but would u marry someone under 25?
how come?caligirl said:I'll never marry again. but I will gladly co-habitate!
you don't have to marry to spend the rest of your life with someone. marriage is a word, and that only.SublimeZM said:how come?
so you dont think your gunna find someone and spend the rest of your life with them?
redshirt27se said:you don't have to marry to spend the rest of your life with someone. marriage is a word, and that only.
being married doesn't mean you love someone anymore.
true, but at the same time if someone said "i wont marry you" it would get u thinkingredshirt27se said:you don't have to marry to spend the rest of your life with someone. marriage is a word, and that only.
being married doesn't mean you love someone anymore.
reality is all.redshirt27se said:aren't you just a bundle of sunshine.
they probably don't love you if they said that, unless they explained prior for their reasons for not marrying (anyone)SublimeZM said:true, but at the same time if someone said "i wont marry you" it would get u thinking
yeah agreed, so it would be hard to trust that they wanna spend the rest of their life with you if they dont wanna get married. id think...im young i have alot to learn though. lestat isnt gunna get married ever eitherredshirt27se said:they probably don't love you if they said that, unless they explained prior for their reasons for not marrying (anyone)

you got a lot of life left. don't bother yourself with marriage talk at your age.SublimeZM said:yeah agreed, so it would be hard to trust that they wanna spend the rest of their life with you if they dont wanna get married. id think...im young i have alot to learn though. lestat isnt gunna get married ever either![]()
SublimeZM said:true, but at the same time if someone said "i wont marry you" it would get u thinking
i assume thats because you've been married.caligirl said:you know what.. If I was in a longtime relationship and knew that I would indeed spend or want to spend my life with someone... I would marry IF it was important to THEM. if it was something they really wanted and I loved them dearly I would... because it would make no difference to me.
I will never do it just because of circumstances... or convienence... just because. I would be fine either way... but I would NOT deny them of their needs/wants... it would be forever. BUT I am very very against it.
redshirt27se said:i assume thats because you've been married.
if you were with someone who never had been then i can see how they would want that.
that said i could care less if i ever get married. to me its just a word. being 'married' doesn't change at all how i feel about someone.
never.caligirl said:have you been married?
i see.caligirl said:you know what.. If I was in a longtime relationship and knew that I would indeed spend or want to spend my life with someone... I would marry IF it was important to THEM. if it was something they really wanted and I loved them dearly I would... because it would make no difference to me.
I will never do it just because of circumstances... or convienence... just because. I would be fine either way... but I would NOT deny them of their needs/wants... it would be forever. BUT I am very very against it.
redshirt27se said:that said i could care less if i ever get married. to me its just a word. being 'married' doesn't change at all how i feel about someone.
SublimeZM said:i see.
i like this response.
except for the against it part. i dont get that? why so against it
im sorry to hear that... maybe 3rd times a charm?caligirl said:because I did it twice.. once for a very wrong reason and the other was right, but it ended in a way I had no control over.. it sucked.
right yes. but that's a whole new can of worms.nimbus said:i hope i don't sound too romantic but it's probly important legally if you ever wanna raise kids with someone
SublimeZM said:im sorry to hear that... maybe 3rd times a charm?
who really cares though?? some people feel the same way about admitting how many partners theyv had...you seem to be pretty liberal about it...just a numbercaligirl said:maybe. but i dont really ever want to admit that I did it three times... EEEKKKK 3 times.. thats alot. but I did start young and they were both long.. 10 years and 7 years.. not like I didn't give it my all.
to turn the tables. why do you feel so strong about marriage? do you think a ceremony and a band means someone cares about you more?SublimeZM said:who really cares though?? some people feel the same way about admitting how many partners theyv had...you seem to be pretty liberal about it...just a number
lol im not trying to pressure u into getting married to anyone though...i think your current outlook on it (about the not feeling a need but if someone really special etc wants it u would) is a good one
true. im more taking devils advocate for it. im pretty nuetral when it comes to it...i was talking with my brother about it and i said id def be getting a prenup if i ever get married...but he said if i was going to feel the need for a prenup before marriage i probably wouldnt be ready to get married (to that person or in general).redshirt27se said:to turn the tables. why do you feel so strong about marriage? do you think a ceremony and a band means someone cares about you more?
as a guy, generally speaking, you have more to lose through marriage.
well in my mind, i'm not going to marry a chick unless i've been with here minimum 3 years.SublimeZM said:true. im more taking devils advocate for it. im pretty nuetral when it comes to it...i was talking with my brother about it and i said id def be getting a prenup if i ever get married...but he said if i was going to feel the need for a prenup before marriage i probably wouldnt be ready to get married (to that person or in general).
like i said im young and opinions are still forming...just trying to learn what yalls are
redshirt27se said:well in my mind, i'm not going to marry a chick unless i've been with here minimum 3 years.
so if i've dated a chick for 3 years, and then i ask her to marry me, and then i'm like "oh yeah, sign this prenup"
im pretty sure she'd be pissed off. not saying you shouldn't ask though if you legitimately have a lot more wealth than she does.
caligirl said:I need some herb..... and a good solid banging. yeah that'd help.

caligirl said:I need some herb..... and a good solid banging. yeah that'd help.
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