I'm a doorman yet cant meet decent, faithful women...

[Carmen]

Because online, some people are different then their "real life" selves.

lol about the psycho comment, I can think of a few around here...

seriously, i don't think i'm any different in person. maybe a bit more shy and refined, but thats it. i don't have trouble meeting people, and i have to say that i rarely meet anyone i'd consider bitter like in thread about bitter old men. i'm just picky about who i want and why but i'd still consider myself decent and faithful.

 

[onebigab]

Maybe you're showing it off too much.

Shut up and leave her alone.

 

[marshallmadman]

how weird was that? did you get mad or depressed? did you break up with her, or continue the relationship?

It's a very funny story. It was a Saturday night. We were in bed, and I was trying to get something started. She had gone out on the previous Thursday night, and got pretty drunk. We didn't live together at the time, so I had no idea what she did. So, I'm trying to get some, and then she says...."we have to talk about something". I'm thinkin'..."this doesn't sound good". That's when she tells me that she came home with someone Thursday night, and was so drunk that she doesn't remember what happened, but she knows they fucked. I've never been so fucking pissed in my whole life! What the fuck. We broke up, and she started dating the little fuck. I told her she could have his 5'6" pot bellied ass. She still emails me, and tells me that she thinks about me all the time. Of course she does. Duh! I fuckin' turned that girl inside out in the sack, and now she's stuck with her little garden gnome bartender goin' nowhere in life loser piece of shit. Revenge is sweet.

 

[Robert Jan]

Kill two birds with one stone and do something where you'll meet women as well as do something intrinsically useful

like some kind of class

 

[Badbart]

I agree I’m 31 and divorced and I can’t seem to find woman that holds my interest. I think people are more selective and know what they want at 30 then in their 20’s. Also the dating pool s much smaller and the faithful and stable people are more likely to be taken or married at 30 then at 20. I’ve had plenty of dates with just weird women or women who are just unreliable and a pain in the ass.

 

[Robert Jan]

being a doorman would seem to me like its hard to meet a woman for an actual relationship

 

[Patrick Steele]

being a doorman would seem to me like its hard to meet a woman for an actual relationship

The reason most women don't really see a doorman as a relationship material is because of the following 2 reasons that I can think of.

1. They think they are most likely to cheat considering they are always around women and a clubbing atmosphere.

2. When women look at a bouncer in their mid 20's and well into their 30's, they don't see him as the succesfull type of person that they want to settle down with. If someone is into their 30's and working as a bouncer, then clearly he is not financially well off even if he is doing it part time.

 

[*MissFit*]

For me i don't care abput the financial part because i would rather be happy then rich.

but the door man aspect would scare me away. Trust is already hard enough ina relationship. The way one behaves when one is single is different, then when they are attached, but in the exmaple of a door man, he has to be coutesy, go out of his way.. and i might feel it might go a bit too far.

I dunno.. even in regards to my avatars for example.. if i had a bf..i don't think i would bare my butt. Out of respect I wouldnt wanna be posting it so others could see.

The reason most women don't really see a doorman as a relationship material is because of the following 2 reasons that I can think of.

1. They think they are most likely to cheat considering they are always around women and a clubbing atmosphere.

2. When women look at a bouncer in their mid 20's and well into their 30's, they don't see him as the succesfull type of person that they want to settle down with. If someone is into their 30's and working as a bouncer, then clearly he is not financially well off even if he is doing it part time.

 

[Patrick Steele]

You are saying this now and I hear it all the time. But trust me, once you settle down with someone and get married, money will deffinitelly matter in a long term relationship alot more than you think. Especially if you plan on living comfortably without being in dept most of the time like most people are. I almost got married 2 years ago, but my fiancee was refusing to sign a prenup, so I broke it off. If money would not matter to most women, then they would have no trouble signing a prenup, but most women still refuse for some unknown reason.

For me i don't care abput the financial part because i would rather be happy then rich.

 

[*MissFit*]

hhahaa nah i have been in long term relationships 7.5yrs, 2yrs, and 2.5 yrs = out of those 2 of them had money.. and what i figured out is it means nothing if i am not happy.

If i was in love and he asked me to sign one.. i would for sure. I'm not a gold digger.. got my own money.. don't need someone elses.

I mite come off a little dim witted, but the truth of the matter is i do have a good job and i am very educated.

If a woman is with you for the money, she is not the right woman

You are saying this now and I hear it all the time. But trust me, once you settle down with someone and get married, money will deffinitelly matter in a long term relationship alot more than you think. Especially if you plan on living comfortably without being in dept most of the time like most people are. I almost got married 2 years ago, but my fiancee was refusing to sign a prenup, so I broke it off. If money would not matter to most women, then they would have no trouble signing a prenup, but most women still refuse for some unknown reason.

For me i don't care abput the financial part because i would rather be happy then rich.