I'm a doorman yet cant meet decent, faithful women...

[NihilistIllusion]

this is it. ive just been around awhile. i keep losing names cause i dont really come here much.

 

[awittyusername]

I'm your age and I have no problems meeting girls. However, they are the typical 25 - 30 never married girl. They are so focused on getting married that they don't even acknowledge that they don't even love me. They just want someone to marry them, bc all their friends are married, clock ticking, etc.

Forget that...
I don't want to be someone, I want to feel special lol

Seriously, girls don't think a doorman to a club is relationship material. (You don't want them anyway) Try the gym, mall, beach, park, etc.

Good luck

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Forget that...
I don't want to be someone, I want to feel special lol

marry your special ed teacher then

anyway to the original poster, i agree with witty in that doorman stereotypes run deep, and that non-skanks will not look at them as relationship material easily

apart from what witty said, try a more upmarket venue, you might have more luck

 

[wutangnomo]

I'm your age and I have no problems meeting girls. However, they are the typical 25 - 30 never married girl. They are so focused on getting married that they don't even acknowledge that they don't even love me. They just want someone to marry them, bc all their friends are married, clock ticking, etc.

Forget that...
I don't want to be someone, I want to feel special lol

Seriously, girls don't think a doorman to a club is relationship material. (You don't want them anyway) Try the gym, mall, beach, park, etc.

Good luck

lol

When you tell them you don't want to get married they use the whole "am I not worth it?" bullshit or some variation thereof.

 

[awittyusername]

yep.

I always get guilt, or they call me a loser for not wanting to marry them, or they say I have "issues" about committment.

Yes, I have "issues". My "issues" are I don't want a girl that uses guilt, sex, insults, or bitch to get what they want.

 

[EnderJE]

Yes, I have "issues". My "issues" are I don't want a girl that uses guilt, sex, insults, or bitch to get what they want.

At least they don't Dr Phil you...friend of mine has that problem right now...

 

[geoboy]

I don't have trouble meeting ppl.. I just find that they tend to be fonder of ym ass than anything else..

well based on your avatar, might it be because you're constantly flaunting it???

 

[geoboy]

Actually, my last girlfriend was a real straight shooter. She was nice enough to tell me that she fucked somebody else before we had sex again. So, that was nice.

how weird was that? did you get mad or depressed? did you break up with her, or continue the relationship?

 

[*MissFit*]

well based on your avatar, might it be because you're constantly flaunting it???

Hahhaa i do this all in fun

 

[BUBBLES]

Why is it that every girl on internet discussion boards like elite fitness always sounds so perfect and in the real world, women like that do not exist. Every girl on the boards claims to be perfect and the good girl type who would never cheat. But then again every girl, I've met claimed to be perfect and looked like it at first. But after a few dates, they all turn psycho. Girls are more confused than ever and they all actually believe that they are all perfect lol.

perfect women exist, trust me I SHOULD KNOW!!!
but there are bad ones there too....i just discovered one of my g/fs has been lying to me a lot and she can kiss our relationship goodbye (she has been very jealous of me!) ....