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I'm 20....hes 29....do I have a chance?

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Supergirl515

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He works at my gym and i feel a vibe but i dont know if hes just fuckin with me cause he knows i want him.....if ur a 29 year old guy, would u want anything more than sex from a 20 yr old girl?
 
Maybe he really wants you... or maybe he just wants sex.

You won't know unless you actually go out with him.
 
I think so. Why would a 29M not want a 20F???? If I were him id be all over it, the hottness of a younger woman, and the security of having someone around to change his depends later in life.
 
You could test..

The only way to find out for real is to test the waters. Talk to him, see if he wants to hang out. What gym anyways?
 
Just go up to him and ask him if A. wants to go back to your place and fuck. or B. go to a movie.

If he picks B, you'll know hes about more than just sex. Or hes gay.
 
it all depends on you actually... i'm 29 and would love to have a 20 year old girlie.... but, thats if and ONLY IF she had her shit together... if she still struck me as youngish, i'd only be looking to bang...
 
OXANDRIN said:
stop wasting your time with a guy like that...i'm 20 (your age) and really good looking. we should hang out
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Yea no shit, Im 24 and single. What state are ya in?
 
I don't see anything wrong with this. You are a woman he is a man. . . .go for it. Maybe you two can set up a date and see how things progress.
 
no offense, but you obviously dont have your shit together. you are here, an internet message board, asking people how to make him want you for something more than just getting off.
 
Why waste time with all the bullshit? Post up some pictures of yourself naked and in clothes and we will tell you exactly what he wants from you. Its easy.
 
He'd just bang you and then spend the next 2 weeks trying to figure out how to get rid of you while he's looking for a chick closer to his age/education. Plus, with such an age differential, if he's willing to hit it, what makes you think he wouldn't just turn around and pick up the next 19 year old that offered it up?

Sorry, been there, done that.
 
p0ink said:
no offense, but you obviously dont have your shit together. you are here, an internet message board, asking people how to make him want you for something more than just getting off.
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That's what I was going to say.

You just got out of high school a few years ago, right? What can you and he possibly have in common? He's probably good in bed, but I don't see anything long-term. You're a young adult..go have some fun.
 
My sisters your age and shes always dating guys his age.
I think its a sign of low confidence actually....

and i dont think the guys really care, they want a jizz off hookup
 
Probably not. It would just setting yourself up for heartbreak more than likely. Years ago, people matured faster. I would say these days the average woman doesn't know what she wants until she is at least 30. Then again, many of them never know what they want.
 
SupGirl,

I'm 28, and I have met several lovely young ladies in the last few years that were your age or younger who I either dated or was interested in dating.

I wouldn't jump to conclusions. Even though he's 29, that doesn't mean he just wants to fuck and that's that. If anything, I'd say the opposite is more likely to be true.

You see, guys my age are more inclined to interested in building mutually beneficial relationships with people that will last, reguardless of their age. I've never been much of a "player," but I was more inclined to think with my "other head" when I was younger.

My advice to you is to go with the flow. You might be pleasently suprised and have a really good time :)
 
Supergirl515 said:
I guess we will just see what happens...
by the way I am in Miami and I am looking for a boyfriend not a hookup :D
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Like i said just post some pictures of your tank ass and we will know for sure what this guy is gonna want with you.
 
I would definately want sex from a 20 year old girl... that's for sure.

It depends on how fucking NOT ANNOYING you are though. Annoying... then just sex... I dont' want to give you lots of kisses... I just want bang bang bang!!! :)

Well, seriously ... it depends on how mature he is, and how mature YOU are. If I could swing it, I'd LOVE to have a 20 year old girlfriend. Especially if they didn't do drugs, were hot, great body, and nice... and didn't like going out and smoking crack with 35 year old fatasses... yeah, I could appreciate her...

BTW... put up some pics, show us your tits... maybe you can hook up with some guys from EF... heh heh heh.... well... you COULD...

C-ditty
 
C-ditty hit the nail on the head. Some girls your age are very mature, much more so than I am at 28. I know some young girls with whom I really can relate and also enjoy talking to.

Looks and intelligence don't even compare to a killer personality. I'd rather spend my time with an ugly, dumb sweetheart than a cute, smart bitch, whatever the age.

And, there are many more smart, pretty bitches out there than ugly, dumb sweethearts.

Sad.
 
Supergirl515 said:
any advice on how to make him want more than just sex?
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After spending my own prolonged period of life in marriage counseling, I can tell you that things are NOT what they seem. You cannot make ones' attitude change towards you, just because you're you. It's a given in most situations that single men his age are looking to have "fun"; however, there are ALWAYS exceptions. In fact, there are many that I can think of. Yet, somehow, in this situation it seems to me that you want him so much that he probably realizes that he can get away w/ just doing what he wants.

It all boils down to how much he knows that you want him, if it's fairly known then you have problem. In turn, acquiescence to the problem should not be an option; if the prior is known, you should not pursue the guy.

Mr.X
 
ummm yea he definetly knows..
and heres a side note to this....im in college and my gym is here at school so technically he is faculty and im a student...
this is not looking good...
 
Supergirl515 said:
ummm yea he definetly knows..
and heres a side note to this....im in college and my gym is here at school so technically he is faculty and im a student...
this is not looking good...
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AH HEM... I'd really need to see what you looked like... perhaps you can send me some pictures of yourself to [email protected] -- if my advice wasn't good enough for you... you can take the Citruscide "hotness" challenge...

C-ditty
 
Supergirl515 said:
ummm yea he definetly knows..
and heres a side note to this....im in college and my gym is here at school so technically he is faculty and im a student...
this is not looking good...
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Me being a teacher, I would recommend you stay away from him; because if the relationship is found, his job will be in grave jeopardy. Plus, if he's a smart faculty member, he will NOT start relationships w/ students; if he does, he is obviously non-caring about his job. For example, at my university a co-worker of mine was a graduate professor of Doctorate studies in finance and a women's basketball coach, the guy started messing around w/ one of the players and WHAM! 2 weeks he was gone.

Mr.X
 
Citruscide said:


AH HEM... I'd really need to see what you looked like... perhaps you can send me some pictures of yourself to [email protected] -- if my advice wasn't good enough for you... you can take the Citruscide "hotness" challenge...

C-ditty
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CITRUSCIDE "HOTNESS" CHALLENGE! I like that...hahahaha
add: Mr.X to that and make it Citruscide and Mr.X's hotness challenge...

Mr.X
 
You two aren't qualified to judge hotness. She needs an expert opinion :p

I, being an expert and the gentleman I am, must humbly accept this responsibility.

;)
 
Big Johnson said:
You two aren't qualified to judge hotness. She needs an expert opinion :p

I, being an expert and the gentleman I am, must humbly accept this responsibility.

;)
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You will be the third and final judge to the panel... you will be Paula Abdul, Mr.X will be Randy and I will be Simon... :)

C-ditty
 
Great thread, but I wil be honest.

If he is 29 and you are 20, he is looking for sex. Thats it, nothing more. Unless the guy is a complete retard, odds are he just wants to nail a 20 year old. Hell who wouldn't if your hot.

But if you think he really wants a relationship, keep dreaming. You are setting yourself up for a total heartbreak. Best of luck.
 
Supergirl515 said:
any advice on how to make him want more than just sex?
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YES, ASK HIM IF HE IS INTERESTED IN YOU FOR MORE THAN JUST SEX. DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM FOR A WHILE. SIMPLE AS THAT.




KAYNE
 
Guys, lets stop with the sillynss here. She came here looking for honest advice, and so far i have only seen a couple of honest responses.

When it comes down to it, there is one true factor that will determine whether or not this will work out between you two, whether or not he just wants sex, and it is the one thing on most guys (on this board and in real lifes) mind.... Do you do anal?
 
He probably is just looking for sex.

More to the point, why are you interested in dating a guy who is 29.

Get out and enjoy yourself. There's a good chance that he's not into doing the things you want to do and vice versa.

You are both at different stages of your lives.

Why not try and strike up a friendship and leave it at that for a while and if things develop as you get older then give it a go, but in the meantime just get out and have fun.
 
Hey, Supergirl. Based on my experience from when I was younger and lots of heartache, I'd say he probably is more interested in sex. BTW, are you sure he is not a) married or b) in a committed relationship looking for some excitement?
 
I'm 29, and no offense, but most of the time if I met a 20 year old I'd strictly be in it for the sex. the odds of a meaningful relationship happening are slim. it's not a knock on you, but I think at both your ages, 9 years difference is a lot. There are, of course always exceptions.
 
months? sounds like a good way to stay single.

honey, i dont know this guy, but im getting horny just at the thought of how fucking clueless you are. im 20 years old, and ive been through the grinder a bit, and you are just amazing to me. if i had you a joint and about an hour i could prolly talk you into the sack. you are so easy to bullshit, and you prolly dont have a great deal of personality or depth. this guy is gonna chew you up and hurt you.

why dont you start off with 16-17 year olds, and move up? you are begging to be used.
 
ok here's the deal. It's every guys dream to find a girl 10 yrs younger than him that he can marry. the only thing is this... not to sound too superficial or anything, but you gotta be smokin hot. What guys doesn't want to go somewhere with a super snatch who he loves on his arm while all his friends are married to fat slobs. So if you're hot then you're good to go. wait what was the question again??? bwahahaha
 
oh and because he works at the school gym doesn't make him faculty. Do you think the janitor is faculty?? or how about the student who works in the bookstore?? Faculty is a professor or someone on like the board or something. Not some schlep who racks the weights.
 
If you're looking for fun, then go for it. 20 years old is too young to be getting serious about anyone, regardless of their age.:) Just go out and experience life, meet people and enjoy yourself.:)
 
A few replies have mentioned that they arent at the same level of education so nothing could come of it.

Did you overlook the part of her mentioning that he's 29 and works at a gym? Not even a regular gym, a college campus gym. I'm pretty sure he's not the most colorful of all the Jackson kids.
 
Age should never play a part in love. My freshman year roommate fell for her teacher. He was like 24 I think, and she was 18. They are married now. If the feeling is mutual, then go for it girl. Tell anyone who has opposition to kiss your ass.
 
PHATchik said:
Age should never play a part in love. My freshman year roommate fell for her teacher. He was like 24 I think, and she was 18. They are married now. If the feeling is mutual, then go for it girl. Tell anyone who has opposition to kiss your ass.
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Just out of curiosity, how many dicks did your freshman year roommate suck throughout the year? Also have you two ever engaged in lesbianism?
 
Wizkid was right - you won't know until you date him.

Do you have a chance - possible.

But ask yourself - "do I want to be with this guy?" - don't take the mindset - "oh God how can I make him want me" - trust me, he, any guy will sense that and walk all over you.

(For the guys out there - women do this to men as well.)

That said, I dated a 32 year old when I was 24 and it was fine but we were both in similiar stages in life - the problem was he wanted in a women everything that I wasn't. (Makes you wonder why guys go after girls that they're not normally attracted to.)

Anywhooooo


Good luck.
 
Um.

Ok - I just the part about him working in your school.
(Always a good idea to read the whole thread huh?)


Do not get involved with this guy - flirt if you must but really it would not be a good idea.

Find someone else to fire your fancy.

:D
 
Generally 20yr olds are dumb as fuck, think they know everthing but actually know nothing, and have had no 'life experience'. The difference between your average 20yo and even a 24yo is huge.

On the other hand they can be hot as hell.

I'm thinking he just wants you for sex.


And LMAO at you for thinking that a dude that works in the gym is "faculty". This 100% verifies my statement that 20yr olds are dumb.
 
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If I was 29 and had the chance to hook up with a 20 yr old, i'd do it in a heartbeat. If she was cool and mature enough I would have no problem staying with her.
 
He's going to rape you with a nine-iron, then throw a request to your english teacher that you write a nine page descriptive essay on how it feels to have divots in your twat.

If you're fine with it, then give 'er shit Fuzzy.
 
velvett said:
Wizkid was right - you won't know until you date him.

Do you have a chance - possible.

But ask yourself - "do I want to be with this guy?" - don't take the mindset - "oh God how can I make him want me" - trust me, he, any guy will sense that and walk all over you.

(For the guys out there - women do this to men as well.)

That said, I dated a 32 year old when I was 24 and it was fine but we were both in similiar stages in life - the problem was he wanted in a women everything that I wasn't. (Makes you wonder why guys go after girls that they're not normally attracted to.)

Anywhooooo


Good luck.
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I married a 20 year old at 40 years. Amazing what a 20 year old will do to secure a husband. But then the youth shows its head
and all its immature, low self esteem, conflicting thoughts and beliefs, stubborness, self centerness, lack of worldly experience,
Rap verses your CCR, throw in a little bipolar disorder and voila, you have the the 20 year and 30+ relationship. For the recipe pm me.
 
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